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Why Won't Some Guys have Sex with a girl unless she dances for him?

I've dated people in the past who would not have sex with me unless I "danced " for them, I hated it, so we left each other. I'm just wondering why some people are like that. I could see if the girl is astonishingly beautiful but I am not so why would someone want to see an ugly girl like me shake her fat around I don't get it, explain?
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I was told by another girl on another site that people like dancing because they assume people who dance good are good in bed. So they just want to sample the goods, and all women are beautiful and they need to embrace it.
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Another reason I was told is that they feel perverted for just "going for it" and dancing they feel is a way of you "inviting them in" makes sense 🙂
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I don’t get it either. I think the guys just think they might be thinking they’re too easy to get and want to spice things up by making you dance for him first - kind of like two-factor authentication. I don’t understand it either. I figured he’d want to get right down to business.

  • You... have to be the same girl I spoke to acouple of hours ago... right? On a different, but very similar question... Please tell me you are? If not... this is one... hell of a coincidence?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah… vie never come across that one before. But I’m guessing he is addicted to cam girls or strippers and can't get it up unless he is in that headspace.

    • 🤔 maybe

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I've literally never heard of this. And I'm not exactly a spring chicken.

  • Wdym dance for them, I don't understand

    • Like a sexy lap dance and crap

    • I could see how some girls would be cute doing that but not me

    • Oh, I can't relate so I can't really say why but I guess maybe cause they want to be hard before you pull off their pants maybe, or they just like it I guess

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  • I am clueless. If she says yes, I don't need no dancin'.

  • Actually dance? Or is this like some code for, doing exactly what he wants?

    • Like a sexy dance

  • Where the hell are you finding your dates?

    • Just throughout my life

    • Could just be the jerks in my county

    • I'm asking because this is telling me you're getting dudes who go to strip clubs.

  • I'd much rather make out and get involved with foreplay then have a girl dance for me.

  • I love it when a girl dances for me first, or lap dances me first.. It's awesome but not mandatory. I like to get into the mood, but that can be done with making out etc...

    • If she LIKES doing it then that is fine (:

  • By some, how many guys have told you to dance?

    • At least 3

    • That’s odd. Sure guys like movement but those guys seem similar

    • Yeah i don't understand why they would want to see me dance when I'm as ugly as I am.

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  • Wow…. never heard that one before. That isn’t a requirement/request of mine.

    • Cool 😎

  • If that's happened more than once you must be picking guys up at strip clubs.

    • No but it could see why it would look that way, maybe I look like a stripper and don't even know it. Lol

  • I like a face dance instead of a lap dance lol 😂

  • It doesn't matter ,

    • It shouldn't matter

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