Why would a guy friend send you a nude pic of him having sex with a girl he is casually seeing?

Question

I am curious to find out why a guy friend of mine who has decided to send a nude pic of him having sex with a girl and told me that he wants me to be in that position with him.

Background info, I have known him for a while and he made it clear that he wanted to have sex with me. Aside from us exchanging pictures before, I wasn't really interested to take in further when we hung out because he lived interstate and I'm still healing from relationship with my ex.

Then, out of nowhere he sent me a pic of him with a girl. Is he trying to make me turned on? Jealous? Or he just a freak trying to get some? I wonder if any other fellas have done this and maybe I should watch out for this guy.

jakeforfun · Accepted Answer

Here's my take:
You said you'd already exchanged pictures before, so I assume they were dirty pics. So, he's "seen you", knows you've seen him, and that you're cool with him in that regard. Because you've exchanged dirty pics, that door is now open. Enter the dirty pic he just sent (with another girl). So, he knows you're a cool chick, ok with dirty pics, and probably "up for fun". He sends you a pic of him having sex with another woman, and says he wants to do that position with you, because he believes it's ok to do that, because you nad he have a special rapport, a simpatico. He figures you'll respond "positively", and want to have sex. I don't think he's trying to make you jealous. I think he's being really cool with you, on an equal level, partners, and he's putting himself out there, too, by showing you his desires. he's also probably trying to show you that he's viable, attractive to women, and can "get one". He's sort of a freak for being so open, and demonstrative, but seems safe enough. I have actually shown women pics of me with other women, as a titillating foreplay thing.

H2OHydrox · Accepted Answer

A little bit of everything: jealous, turned on, and wanting to get some. What do you really want?

linds34 · Accepted Answer

I think he's trying to make you jealous. Pretty shady, because I doubt that girl knows he's sending this pic around.

QueenofCups · Accepted Answer

He wants to fuck you, nothing more. If that's not what you want, watch out for him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He wanted you know how his stroke game is. And that ur missing out on some good D

SamboJambo · Answer

Probably trying to make you a tad jealous

Browneye57 · Answer

Trying to make you jealous. It's called 'dread'. Sometimes it works, usually it doesn't. You can always just tell him to fuck off. :)

Harsh_5299 · Answer

Maybe he wants you to rate her appearance or just praise him for his conquest

thinker_ · Answer

cuz he is a dumb trying to make you jealous

Stan_Control_ · Answer

Maybe he was drunk?

Caliguy88 · Answer

lol. I had a friend with Ben’s that we would send stuff like that. It was hot. We both got off on watching each other with other people.

Steve37 · Answer

He probably thinks it will make you horny enough to give him some. If you respond favorably, it's also a real clear signal to him that you're game... no ambiguity.