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Why would a man want to know how often a girl masturbates?

I know it's something sexual or erotic to ask, but, does it allow them to better picture the girl doing it so they can better masturbate on her?

Like, is it some kind of required information. Having to confirm she does it so they can imagine her? Because they can't imagine that if they're not sure she does it.

That's what kind of comes to my mind. Is that the actual reason? Or maybe it's just the apparently easiest way to turn the conversation into a sexual one?
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  • That's a huge question with a large variety of answers. Trying to keep it short:

    First, to answer your direct questions:

    Is it some kind of required information? No. Though it could be highly desirable in many situations.

    Having to confirm she does it so they can imagine her? No, I don't think so. Though it might be to introduce the idea they might like you to think of them when you do.

    Easiest way to turn the conversation into a sexual one? Yes, that is a possible entry point that might be used if someone is unsure wether sexual behaviour might be welcomed.

    Now at the larger scale, it depends on the reasons the man asks which can be multivarious. I will note that this answer is not MY personal answer, but an observation of what I have understood from others:

    I can paint some scenarios:

    1) Strangers, asks a girl he's met recently in a club?

    In this situation, the probability is to try to figure out if you might be on the same sexual page, which is probably finding the nearest hot horney girl. Might be though they are looking to get turned on or try to turn you on.

    2) A guy you've know for a while who was previously shy.

    In this circumstance it might be either:

    a) they started seeing you as someone they are becoming sexually interested in and wonder if you might be 'into it'.
    b) they always where type 1 guy but they are trying to pretend to be 2a as they think its more likely to get them a hook up.
    c) They are asking because they genuinely don't know the answer and wonder generally what girls are like.
    d) they are feeling horney themselves (and prehaps do that a lot too) and wonder if this person they like might be into exploring it together.

    3) It's a guy your actually dating (but haven't had sex with)

    a) they might be wanting to better understand when your getting horney and make sure that they are 'statisfying' you sexually (possibly for fear of losing you, but also equally possibly out of an act of loving you).
    b) they might want to break a deadlock where the relatioship is just focused around kissing and hanging out and use the topic to advance the intimacy level.
    c) It might be to discuss the topic generally and a safe excuse for them to reveal perhaps they have already gotten mentally sexually involved.

    4) A guy your dating but in a sexual relationship with

    a) Yes, it might be to get them turned on, I guess that does apply to all groupings
    b) It could just be a way to attempt to turn you on

    Curiously, would you answer? (I would say I could be interested just plain out of curiosity even with no sexual plan, but i have to be honest and say that I wouldn't ask unless I was looking to somehow suggest sharing)

  • It's a curiosity that most men have. It makes us feel normal. If feels weird when you masturbate multiple times a day and girls only once in a blue moon. We want to know the truth, do all women masturbate so rarely, or do they just hide it, because they are ashamed?

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  • A good friend and I spent lots of time together watching porn and masturbating next to each other. It was just lots of fun for both of us.

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  • Personally, if I'm attracted to someone I wonder how sexual she is or how often she gets horny thereby feeling the need to masturbate. How often she masturbates (among with details) reveals this so I can draw a better conclusion about her sexual habits in my mind.

    It's hard for me to picture a girl masturbating. I need to see it to enjoy it so that's not it. I just get turned on thinking how horny she is when she says how often she masturbates, how she does it and so on.

  • I would think he's trying to gauge how often you get horny, to try and predict how often you will want sex with him if you 2 get into a relationship.

    Maybe it's your idea tho, maybe he wants some erotica to touch himself to.

    But I'd have to geuss it's my rhought

  • because i myself love to masturbate on a very regular basis i would be asking her about her habits to see how compatable we are

    • So, is a guy who sends a a private message to a girl asking that is actually trying to see if they would work as a couple?

    • im not most men lol so i wouldn't automatically think that was the case with this guy... i think its more likely if he is asking via messaging he just wants to imagine you doing it while he does

  • Because it's hot to know, tells you there sex drive, could lead into more sexual for sure, and most important one why not?

    If the girl is open to talk about it i would rather know that not. And yeah it can make it easier to fantasize about her.

  • It's just exciting to know and helps turn on men mentally. That's our foreplay.

  • He probably wants to imagine that as it turns him on.

    • Why can't he imagine it without asking?

    • Probably because he wants to get it from you, a reply to that question.

    • To confirm that she does it, correct?

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  • The boys who are more interested in sex and they easily get horny those boys have curse to know about every sexual thing about girls...
    Everything they want to know and most interesting question boys ask is that if girl prefer big d**k over small or vice versa...

    • But only some boys ask this type of questions but most of the boys and majority don't ask this type of question?

  • different men, different reasons

  • there is a degree of the things you think but also a way to know what you like and dislike in the bedroom (if he is a man so inclined to know that that can be important for later on)

  • No, it is unlikely for me to ask any girl whether they masturbate or not..

  • i would say it is a weird way of trying to figure out how strong her sex drive is. because having somewhat equal sex drvies is important in a relationship.

  • Why would the guy you're giving your time to?
    I actually wouldn't, care less about that or wanting to see that. Lol

  • Well, it just feels a girl is honest about her life and trustworthy towards the person

  • I'm sure every guy would have a different answer, but only he can tell you his reasons.

  • Yeah you got it lol

  • It's sexy to imagine a hot girl doing it.

  • yes, yes, yes, and yes

  • Maybe just a reason to get you to talk dirty with him

  • Some guys are just horny curious people.

  • I think you have a point.

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