Why would boyfriend ask if my ex has a small penis?

[Anonymous]

I told my. boyfriend that I once dated a guy who was rude to waiters. My boyfriend asked if the guy had a small penis and he bets it was smaller than his. I LOLed but was kinda embarrassed and didn't answer. My boyfriend has a pretty big penis. I didn't date this other guy long and I never had sex with him because I didn't feel right about it. Something held me back. W my boyfriend it felt right and natural. The ex guy did actually have a small dick though lol. I just told my boyfriend that I didn't sleep with that guy it didn't feel right. I didn't comment on the other guys dick size. Why would he ask that? Insecurity? I don't talk about my exes very much. But my boyfriend treats me great. i see this is why it's not good to talk about exes it makes your man too curious.

[macAmillion]

It's something I think all guys wonder about when dating a new girl. We wonder if we're bigger or better than the last guy. It's natural. Whether or not they have the balls to come right out and ask about the ex's dick is another story though lol

[AustinMan]

Men have this obsession with comparing dick sizes. It sounds like you're protecting your former boyfriend more than he deserves. I take from your writing that he indeed was a victim of IBC disease: itty, bitty cock.

[katiesmuff]

Can't imagine what the connection is with being an asshole when talking with waiters, waitresses and the size of an ex's dick. I would have laughed as well, but my response back might not have been so kind as no response at all! LOL

[TheWaterBear]

I'm on the small side myself, and I always tip generously, and I'm very friendly to waiters and waitresses. There is no correlation to being an asshole and having a small penis.

[TheWaterBear]

But what WOULD be your unkind response?

[WillowTree]

Because he sensed that your Ex was compensating for his small penis by being a big dick to everyone else. Your b/f was right.

[desidoll]

He wants to compare.

[NJ_Casanova]

He asked that because most guys with small dicks have a chip on their shoulder and hate the world/lashout.

[jman46241]

In hopes that you will say yes and make him feel better. I think you should have told him, it was the truth after all..

[Asker]

I told him we never had sex which is true-because I didn't want to. So he knows I only wanted to fuck him but not my ex that should make him feel better too. He smiled.

[jman46241]

Ok but it will come out eventually, If your guy is already asking questions then believe that they won't stop lol. That is just my opinion assuming that the two of you will be together for a long time..

[FakeName123]

It's a mix of his own insecurity as well as implying that your ex was insecure and had to let it out on someone else (in that case the waiters)

[Asker]

True lol

[Flurr]

For sure he is insecure

[nog6422]

He probably asked it as a joke.

[nudeNhorny]

because we are obsessed with sizes.

[Anonymous]

A lot of men are incredibly insecure of their size. He is really asking how his dick compares to the ex's in a roundabout way.

[Anonymous]

"Something held me back."
"The ex guy did actually have a small dick though lol."

The fact that he had a small penis is why you never had sex with him. Just admit that you're a size queen.

[Anonymous]

cause he is a clown. at least you got the bog dick to enjoy.. .

[TonyRyanAgain]

Yes, they all love bog dick.

[Opinion Owner]

@TonyRyanAgain big* yeah. i just adore how all women say size doesn't matter, but my current boyfriend, completely accidentally is a 8-9 incher... . lol.

[TonyRyanAgain]

Lmao, yup, haha.

[Anonymous]

cause he thinks size matters

[Anonymous]

I don't know, a lot of guys said their girlfriend broke up with them cuz they had a small penis...