Wild sex or romantic sex?

nightdrot Master

Guys, gals - Variety is the spice of life and we all tend to like different things depending on the mood, and while the lines can get blurry in practice, IN GENERAL, do you prefer sex that is romantic and loving - tender, gentle - or more animalistic - wild, maybe one partner is dominant the other submissive, etc?

Prefer sex to be wild and animalistic.

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Prefer sex to be romantic.

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TheRedLemon Xper 6
+1 y
Romantic but up to her.
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FadedGrenade Editor
+1 y
We need a third option: Depends on the mood, the person, and time/circumstances.
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- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Well, the idea is to find which most prefer. As I mentioned above, of course people want both, but if faced with an either/or, say you could only have one, which would it be? Thanks.
- FadedGrenade
  +1 y
  Well then I have no preference (: Maybe.. with a guy=wild. With a girl=romantic.
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Well, that's fair. Just out of curiosity -- did you vote, and if so for which? Thanks.
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- FadedGrenade
  +1 y
  i voted for romantic
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Okay, thanks.
- FadedGrenade
  +1 y
  i just wanted to see the results though
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  By the way, I have been genuinely surprised by how much romantic beat animalistic among men. Didn't see that coming. Thanks.
- FadedGrenade
  +1 y
  i mean 41-59 isn't that big but yeah, men are more romantic than i thought haha
bubble_tea Guru
+1 y
In general, romantic.
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icedragoom Xper 6
+1 y
It's not sex until something or someone breaks
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lotusfly Xper 4
+1 y
The answer lies somewhere in-between the two. I think good sex needs a balance of being wild and romantic and would be lacking without either.
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ariadneR Guru
+1 y
BOTH. SOME DAYS I WANT IT LOVING -OTHER DAYS I WANT TO BE MANHANDLED
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Pocahontas2000 Xper 7
+1 y
Can't it be romantic in a wild way? ;)
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- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Explain what you mean. I will admit that, for example, when my girlfriend and I have wild sex, she tells me she likes it in part because she feels safe - like I am an animal in nature that is claiming its territory and am warding off rival males. (Her words!! Though when she said it it captured SOME of what I feel when we have wild sex. ) Honestly, some women find sucking a guy's dick - and swallowing or sharing it in a kiss - to be wild. I actually find it deeply intimate and romantic. Like we are sharing our bodies in the deepest way. So, admittedly, there are gray areas here - as I mentioned in my question. So, if you can explain what you mean - which I admit is probably not easy - we can look at it.
Kenni Yoda
+1 y
Prefer both
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Cursewords Xper 6
+1 y
Why can't I have both?
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- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Well, the idea is to find which most prefer. As I mentioned above, of course people want both, but if faced with an either/or, say you could only have one, which would it be? Thanks.
- Cursewords
  +1 y
  Romantic. Wild sex constantly would seem like a chore. I think that's obvious.
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Thanks, that is an interesting insight.
magic30 Xper 4
+1 y
How about both. You can have your cake and eat it to. No reason why you can't enjoy both. Some days you may feel like tearing it up and other days you may feel like slow and easy. Both are great, just have fun !!
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- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Sure, but the question is, what do you prefer? (Imagine you could only have one or the other.) Thanks.
- magic30
  +1 y
  If I could only have one, then it would have to be romantic. I think that it show a more loving side of you and your girl. But now and then you got to tear it up.
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Thanks.
ultimega Guru
+1 y
Both.
You gotta switch up sometimes
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MLGbreezy Yoda
+1 y
I think you could have romantic and both wild sex at once
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Thekissoflife Xper 3
+1 y
Romantic
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rezagrizzly Xper 5
+1 y
Crazy monkey sex
duh...
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pinayfit Explorer
+1 y
I want it romantic and sweet well it’s just me
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sexcraze Xper 3
+1 y
I would prefer animalistic sex more often and save romantic sex for special days maybe
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LegateLanius Master
+1 y
Bofa
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Flower-petal Yoda
+1 y
Both please
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- smith_this
  +1 y
  Ok giving me a to get the plane ticket
- Flower-petal
  +1 y
  @smith_this Good Lord
- smith_this
  +1 y
  😒i see now
Senacık Explorer
+1 y
together.
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Stan_Control_ Yoda
+1 y
HOW ABOUT ANY KIND OF SEX?

THIS VIRGIN IS GETTING IMPATIENT!
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- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Hang in there, guy. It'll happen. For what it is worth, I was 16 the first time I had sex. That said, the average age for first time sex for guys is now 19. So you are right where most guys are at your age. Give it time. Focus on the girl and making her happy. The rest will happen.
- Stan_Control_
  +1 y
  I can't even get anymore female friends. You were saying?
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Bitterness and self-pity won't help, that's for sure. Don't know your circumstances, but being friendly, looking good and cleaned up, and asking for dates is a good place to start.
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- Stan_Control_
  +1 y
  Being on the boarding school doesn't really help...
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  Well, it makes it harder - but it is not impossible. You need to think creatively. Again, without being in your shoes I can't give very specific advice. I can tell you that my youngest brother went to an all boys boarding school and he dated frequently. In fact, probably as much as I did going to a public high school. Wish I could help. Suggest that you look at nearby schools, malls and suchlike. Trust me, though, others have done it before you. I promise you can too.
- Stan_Control_
  +1 y
  I uhh... Also have a bad reputation...
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  At the risk of sounding like your mother... then fix it!!! It takes time to build a good reputation and seconds to ruin it, but it can be done. Okay, I am about to tell you something a bit above your age level, but it will show you that you can change. Before I met my girlfriend - who I have been with for ten years and have three children with - I had an affair with a married woman. She got pregnant, aborted the baby and I was crushed. Yup, I knew the affair was wrong, but I was young and I thought i was in love. When she aborted that baby without telling me, my life went into a tailspin. I started drinking heavily, neglected my job, got in a car accident where luckily no one was hurt. I screwed up my life massively and was not much of a catch. Two years later I meet my girlfriend at a business reception. Suddenly things mattered again. I cleaned up. She kind of pursued me, but once I realized she liked me I started doing little favors for her. Cont below...
- Stan_Control_
  +1 y
  Good story.
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  She had a damaged taillight on her car and I fixed it without asking. No mean thing given I have NO mechanical skills. Bluntly, I made myself worth having. Now we have been together 12 years and have three kids and I am the most doting dad and loving partner you could imagine. Sounds like a bad movie, I know, but trust me, you can do it.
- Stan_Control_
  +1 y
  Sounds like a bad movie? This would get some oscars for sure.
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  What's that they say about truth is stranger than fiction? Anyhow, people in a lot worse place than I was and you are have turned it around. You can do it - and I say this as a convinced pessimist. My hunch, you'll feel sorry for yourself. Cry from the pain of sitting on your tail but you'll be too lazy to get off your tail. The gals will pass you by and you'll whine. That's my hunch because most people try really hard to screw up - but I am telling you, you have choices. Good luck - and sorry, we got waayyy off topic.
- Sienna-Rose
  +1 y
  And this is why I admire and respect the older generations! There's not enough of that anymore.
- nightdrot
  +1 y
  @Sienna-Rose Thanks so much. Very kind.
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