Will guys ever understand foreplay?

This drives me crazy beacuse I have been with so many men in my life from ages 20-47 and they all seem to have this issue. Men are either selfish in bed or they just dont need it or they are lazy... but
My boyfriend was fine in the very beginning.. sort of. But he never seems to engage in roleplay and its similar to other guys I have dated and or been with. Its now getting to the point where it hurts to have sex.. like he will use lube rather than touching me to turn me on. Im young... so to get me going takes like 1 min lol. What should I do to make him understand I need forplay? And guys, what is your opinion on that topic of foreplay.
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And I have already made it clear we need more foreplay
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  • I'm up for it, my girlfriend doesn't seem to want it much thou

  • From what I'm reading you haven't had much luck with your lovers. Some guys me included love foreplay

  • Guys don't even understand women to begin with... So, no.

  • Haha you just have bad taste in men.
    Stop dating douchebags.

    Taking the time to get a girl off is the main reason I have sex. I can make a girl orgasm without even touching her dirty bits just from sexual touching, kissing, and anticipation.
    I enjoy making a girl orgasm when she hasn’t before. Or giving her one of the three main types and her never knowing she could.

    The penetration part of sex is actually boring to me.

    • I don't know he's kinda boring...

  • yes, i love it, if i can't have foreplay my boner goes away.