Most women will be able to experiment and have as much sex as they want tbh. It's the finding a serious, compatible boyfriend to eventually marry that is harder. But you can play while looking and just stop things with the casual partner once you find a guy you are dating and getting serious with. Most women can have our pick of guys for sexual partners. Online dating makes this pretty easy. You can advertise that you want a friend with benefits. I will warn you that for most guys, friends with benefits just means fuck buddy. Not all guys though! But there may be trial and error there or you can just ask a male friend who is attracted to you. If you're like me and can't seem to make straight male friends who aren't interested in you (I'm exaggerating of course), then it won't be too hard to find. But otherwise, there are thousands of men online waiting for a woman who wants to explore sexually. It's actually too easy. None of my friends in their 30s or 40s have any problems with sexual or romantic interest from men - definitely not sexual. Women into their 50s and 60s are still having great sex and hell, maybe some older than that lol
Own your sexual power as a woman. When it comes to exploring your sexuality, you can get whatever you want and there's not really an age limit to getting it for most women.
giving blowjobs will open up a lot of doors for you... it's scary to meet a guy and say i'm going to have coitus sex with you in a little while but a blowjob is doable even if he's 20 years older than his picture... don't do bondage but agree to a spanking of how you wish... it could be via hands belt whip chains
I’ve done plenty of blow jobs! That’s all I meant by bondage, nothing to extreme.
or get friends with benefits i have one and i give him blowjobs often sometimes anal and i rim him often giving plenty of sexual experience... he's 5 3 and i'm 5 10 not ordinarily a guy i would go out with... he also eats my pussy and requires i wear only a short robe when he comes over... he's mostly into head if your wondering what it's like... otherwise i probably would struggle to get sex as there's a pandemic and i live in a democratic city where everything is still shutdown.
Well, I'm only 25 so I haven't had much first hand experience with what older couples do but I have heard ladies in the 35 to 45 year old range say on here that they love anal, flashing, teasing younger guys, couples their age doing some swinging etc... so I suppose pretty much anything can happen at any age. I'd think it may depend on your partner and if you make it happen. Besides you're still young and although I can't see you, you're most likely still beautiful and sexy looking. Keep yourself in good physical shape and that will greatly increase the chances of your dreams and desires coming to fruition.
Yes many people still enjoy kinky sex later in life. It's not so much how old you are, but how motivated you are to do it. That takes a sex drive, the curiosity to try things and a partner willing to try it with you. Some people lose their sex drive later in life. Others don't. So it depends on the person.
In a lot of ways sex gets better as you get older because with experience comes better sex. Find someone with experience in the kink that you enjoy and have at it at any age. As long as it is consenting adults involved the sky is the limit.
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Sadism and Masochism: the use of erotic pain during sex. When a person gets turned on, the body releases endorphins. Are you familiar?
Yes, I’m interested in whips etc.
The best way to have a lot of sex/ gain more experience is to find someone to be in a committed relationship with. It's not the quantity of partners that gives you more experience, it's the quality of the person your with and the quality of the sex you have together. Same for exploring some of the things you say you want to experience. Those things are best done with someone you can trust and know they care about your wants, needs, safety just as much as their own
I agree but it could be years before I find someone.
What's a couple years tho versus the risk of STDS, getting hurt or used by guys who will just take advantage and disrespect you in the process. That's not the best sexual experiences. It's when you have that person who respects/loves you more sheer sex not less
You are right. I’m also scared that my partner may not be into this.
I had a particular girlfriend when I was 37 and she was 31. We virtually lived together for over a year. She was absolutely amazing. I loved her with my heart and soul and our sexual exploits made even the gods envious. I never experienced sex like that before in my life.
So I'd say you still have plenty of time. You just need the right partner.
your still young, though I had sex when I was nearly 16 and for three years, I had a fling aged 19, I got to making love aged 22 with my husband, aged 35, we started to indulge in extra sex, MFM etc that is when I really blossomed out
How old were you when you blossomed?
sort of three times about blossoming out, first was when I lost or rather gave my virginity away, I learnt a lot from him., the next was when I met my husband and the third time was when we entered into sex with others
You can do what you want whenever you want however old you are, you just need a partner that wants to do it too.
It depends on your partner. So long as your partner is down for it, anything is possible. I know my mom (44) and her last boyfriend (29) were doing all kinds of shit all over the place. From public sex to things "straight guys aren't supposed to like" 🙄
I'm 24 and my ex is 22, we were doing everything everywhere. I think the only place we went we DIDN'T have sex was INSIDE restaurants...
You don't need to do the whole neighborhood to have sex experience. it really takes compatibility, communication and confidence to get there. Or you can come do it with me, I need a girlfriend.
"Lack of sexual experience"? girl I'm a virgin
I was to at your age
I think so... It's all about finding the right guy but I've seen plenty of people on here in their 30s and 40s like all types of stuff like that andbi myself would be willing to try it at least one time
You have to be very careful about public sex. My friend was having a blow-job from his girlfriend in his car, at a parking lot. Someone reported him and the police came by. He and his girlfriend were charged with a sex crime. "In most states, the laws that criminalize public sex make it a misdemeanor crime. Some state laws explicitly criminalize public sexual activity."
I think you have plenty of time. There are guys out there that love that kinda stuff. Mention it to them when dating and you'll probably find a lot of takers.
Yes of course you can.
i imagine that they do. just because i don't and i haven't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't happen
With the right people you don't want to catch any deseases.
I think you will get to do that even if you are 28 years old. But then again it will be up to your partner if they feel comfortable doing those things in the first place. I'm sure there are people in their 30's and 40's doing these things, I mean couples are always looking for ways to 'spice' up their relationship. I do think people experiment with bondage later in life, in case they don't feel the same while doing the same thing over and over again. Don't worry.
What people do as in adventure or trying new things in the bedroom is not a given
It depends on each person individually
You shouldn't worry about it unless you are looking for that type if thing
I am
As long as you don't die young, you'll have the time to experience all that you want to.
You're asking the wrong questions. Weird sexual fantasies just isn't what it's all about.
Update - just did an erotic massage on a lady and added a touch of rope- (just a loop to hold her hands - if I let go , she's 100% free). But, she didn't seem to complain - - - - -the next time she came, she brought her own toys!
How old was she?
40, give or take a year or two.
Yes. But here is the deal. A boyfriend is rare. So when you find one hang on to him with all you got.
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