Will my boyfriend mind if I don't show him my breasts?

So I absolutely hate my breasts. I dislike every single thing about them, and sometimes I'm scared they are far from 'average,' but I'd rather not list everything I hate about my boobs on here. I'm very anxious to show them to my boyfriend due to my insecurities, so I straight up don't show them to him. But I feel like I'm robbing him from some sort of 'experience' by keeping my boobs hidden from him. The worst part is that when we eventually decide to 'do it,' I still refuse to let him see them, and I feel like he's going to want to see them during the deed

Do guys mind if their girlfriend won't show him her breasts? And is there anything I can do to get over my insecurities bit by bit?
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  • how do you know you he's your boyfriend if you've never had sex

    You're literally just proving guys and girls can't be "just friends"

    • I dated a guy for 3 years, no sex, there’s more to a relationship than just sex. Physical intimacy minus sex, and very obviously — an emotional connection 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @WhatTheHeckkkk hahaha, no, hun, you didn't. that's not a boyfriend. you're funny

  • thats a deal breaker, fix your issues

  • He’ll mind as we fantasize about them. But why do you think they’re bad?

  • I think you should speak with a therapist. Hiding your boobs from your boyfriend is guaranteed a recipe for disaster.

  • Yes he will mind

  • I would mind if my women would not show me her breasts or not let me play with them. Bit by bit is a real good plan. List all the things you don't like in least dislike to most dislike order. And convert two of them in to positive affirmations in that particular order starting from least disliked things. Tell those positive affs to yourself every day for a month how ever you can quiyely softly loudly then work on next to things. If you need help converting in to positive affirmations, I can try.

  • Baby if he loves you dont worry about breast

  • Its best to talk to him about you not being comfortable showing them.

  • if he loves you, let him love you like this

  • Sure I guess

  • He will i think
    Let him rate it
    He may say it sexy
    And u can make it bigger

  • It would bother me because I love breasts and I doubt he won’t like them

  • Any breast is better than no breast to your lover

  • it's your body your choice

    • just explain to him how you feel. i'm sure he'll understand

  • Are they flat or saggy or something like that?

  • I would break up with her