Women, if you were men would you care about women's body count?

[marish01]

I mean when it comes to dating and marriage

I would care for too many reasons.

I'm not sure if I can remember them all but I will do my best to list them.

1) I'd feel physical disgust knowing so many dicks have been inside her.

2) I'd feel moral disgust knowing she let so many dicks inside

3) I wouldn't want to share my life with a woman who thinks sexual intimacy is nothing special and sex is not tied to sexual love

4) I wouldn't want my daughters to be promiscuous too because of being fed with the sex positive preaching from her mother. A promiscuous woman who embraces her past will teach her daughters that sex is fun and it doesn't matter how many men they sleep with as long as they are safe.

I wouldn't want to date or marry such a woman. Not even bang lol

[Anonymous]

I am a man and I don't care about a woman's body count. The average man's hands are dirtier than his penis, both physically and morally.

Sex can be special, tied to love, and kept to a monogamous committed relationship, and that relationship can end. I don't expect a woman to never move on and have a new relationship if her first one doesn't work out.

I grew up scared of sex, of masturbating, even of "impure thoughts"—but as a teenager I obviously had a sex drive. This led to several extremely unhealthy behaviors just to cope. Sex is dangerous, but morality-enforced abstinence can be too.

[marish01]

When a woman lets so many random men inside her it shows her low self esteem, poor views on intimacy.

[Opinion Owner]

How many is "so many"? Why is etting a man have sex with her any worse than letting a man bully or boss her around?

[marish01]

Bully?

[Opinion Owner]

Make fun of her or insult her or things she cares about. Bully.

[marish01]

It is possible to prefer a woman with a low body count without bullying women with a high body count

[Opinion Owner]

I know that. I think letting a man bully you or boss you around shows lower self esteem than having sex with a man you want to have sex with. If anything, having a higher body count just means you have lower self-control.

[marish01]

What do you mean by letting a man bully you? And having sex with a man to whom you are nothing but a hole shows no self respect

[Opinion Owner]

I already explained what I meant: Make fun of her or insult her or things she cares about. That's bullying her. Letting a man treat you badly is the biggest sign of low self-esteem, and he doesn't have to have sex with you to treat you badly. A woman can have sex with a man because she wants to though, and that is not necessarily a sign of low self-esteem—especially if the man is someone who treats her nicely and cares about her. She can have sex with him just because they both equally want to have sex, and still view each other both as equals and as valued partners.

[loveslongnails]

Do you realize how absurd it is to ask one gender, or even one PERSON, to think as if they were "the other gender" or another person? It's not possible to do that with any credibility. What you've done in your 4 points above is reiterate your current mindset and position as a woman and state "I'd still feel that way as a man because of... my morals". So, it's wishful thinking at best in an unimaginable hypothetical.

You, me or anyone else, have zero idea what it would be like raised from a child as with the other sexual reproductive organs. We have NO idea how 30+ years of experiences and societal influences would make us think.

[marish01]

You wrote this long comment just to say it's impossible to say what one would think if they were the opposite gender?

[marish01]

How being a man would make me approve of filthy female behavior?

[loveslongnails]

You think that's a LONG comment? LOL Some of us don't speak "text" all the time, so yes I did write that "long" comment.

[loveslongnails]

You're just proving my point. Thanks. lol

[marish01]

I want my man to have the exact same view on female promiscuity

[loveslongnails]

now we're off the subject of your question, so I've given my answer already.

[marish01]

A dick instead of vagina wouldn't change my moral views.

[loveslongnails]

You have NO clue who'd you be or how you'd think if you had been born with male parts, RAISED male somewhere in the world, in whichever society. Your whole conversation here is saying "If I switched bodies NOW and became a man with my current mindset intact, would I think any differently?" Well of course not under those parameters, but that's not really the question. LOL

[marish01]

Raised in my culture. I said if I were the opposite sex. I didn't say if I were born on a different country from different parents.

[loveslongnails]

Try, really try, and grasp this point; You have NO idea what growing up as a MALE would be like - not in your culture or any other. You are simply projecting your current mindset into a body with a dick, because that's what you want to believe. You really have no idea what it would be like.

[marish01]

Males are not different species. They are human beings too.

[loveslongnails]

Did I say they were a different species? Good Lord! You just aren't grasping how ENTIRELY different growing up male would be from how you've grown up. You seem to think that everything you now believe would be exactly the same, only you'd have a dick. You believe you'd THINK in exactly the same way. Well, "believe" what you like.

[marish01]

I wouldn't be a cuck like you considering how well my parents raised my brother.

[loveslongnails]

When you know you've lost an argument, "people with your intellect" resort to statements like that thinking they're superior, or that it will hurt the person. Your opinion of my life choices is meaningless to me, and though you attack my character, or lack thereof because of it, you just put your own lack of character on display. Contrary to your belief, "character" isn't ONLY about your sexual choices, Marish, except possibly in your little bubble.

[marish01]

Why would I think I would hurt a cuck by degrading him? After all cucks love that. I brought it up because that side has a lot to do with you answering my question. If I said I wouldn't care about women's body count were I a man you wouldn't object it

[loveslongnails]

There you go speaking for "all" of some group again. LOL And you know SO much about cucks, don't you, other than that one thing. I would like to say you're obfuscating the point, but I'm not sure you get it in the first place. One more shot: IF you said " I wouldn't care about women's body count were I a man"... I would have said the EXACT same thing and made the same point; that you'd have NO idea what you'd be thinking if you had been born male and spent the first 34 years of your life in "X" society. Summing it up for you, when I see a question or proposition start with " Women, if you were a man" or "Men, if you were a woman", it's got zero credibility with me, no matter what the latter part of the question is. It's a joke that makes for silly entertainment, not any sort of logical discussion.

[marish01]

"IF you said " I wouldn't care about women's body count were I a man"... I would have said the EXACT same thing and made the same point" Nope. Your issue is my disgust for female promiscuity. If I said a positive thing you wouldn't lose your mind

[loveslongnails]

And now you're telling me what I'M thinking and you've made it personal, but since you went there: I have told you again and again, I don't care about your views per se, or what you find disgusting. What I find annoying is you how often you degrade people who don't share your views on morality. But back to the question, and still, you refuse to get the point. Re-read this part until it sinks into your head: " When I see a question or proposition start with " Women, if you were a man" or "Men, if you were a woman", it's got zero credibility with me, no matter what the latter part of the question is." Had you said you'd have no problem with female promiscuity if you were a man, I'd have laughed to myself and thought "that's DOUBLY absurd". LOL You can believe that or not, I don't care. I made my point; I'm sticking to it and not all responses are "about you personally".

[4ngelic]

yea would care to some extent. like if she has a non existent to slightly (stress on slightly) high it's all good. anything more it would be a no from me

[avery58]

Yes and I already care about men's body count

[Samantha36]

Erm iv no idea. Our brains are wired differently

[Berethor]

Hos are disgusting, who want a woman that had a lot of dicks inside her? I sure don't.

[wiltingrosepetal]

This is a very strange post for a woman to make, isn't it?

[marish01]

I expressed my moral views.

[marish01]

I explained why a woman's body count should matter

[dustybiker2]

No. The relationships people have had formed the person standing before you that you like. Take those away, those experiences and you change the person.

[CrabCakes11]

I would not and do not care. Having sex with other people doesn’t make one’s sex life with their partner less special

[marish01]

It does. If intimacy is special you shared only with the special one

[CrabCakes11]

No it doesn’t. I’m sorry you’re that unstable

[marish01]

Unstable? 🤦‍♀️ How is valuing intimacy unstable?

[marish01]

If intimacy is special you would share it only with the special one

[CrabCakes11]

Thinking that intimacy is a finite resource is a mentally unstable thing to say. You might want to look into your attachment style. It’s probably an anxious attachment style.

[CrabCakes11]

Why?

[marish01]

Calm down. To me intimacy is special.

[marish01]

Thinking intimacy can be shared with random people indicates an immature impulsive nature.

[CrabCakes11]

Sure thing. The insecurity is palpable

[marish01]

What insecurity?

[CrabCakes11]

The relationship insecurity. Try watching less hallmark romances too

[marish01]

Explain what is relationship insecurity. You are making up things that have no explantion for the sake of putting the word insecure lol I have talked to people like you lol. I know in any occasion when promiscuity is disapproved you said they are insecure.

[CrabCakes11]

You seem so insecure about your relationships and intimacy that the idea of your partner having sex with people before you makes you upset. I don’t know if you’re afraid of being abandoned, not being good in bed, or not being loved as much as the previous people or something, not my problem. Please work on your grammar.

[marish01]

Mentioning grammar or typos shows I made you bitter with exposing your nonsense. It makes lots of sense for a man to care about women's body count. If a man respects himself he won't even consider having a relationship with someone who thinks a random man can fuck her. It shows her petty character

[CrabCakes11]

lol ok. Let me know when you get over whatever issue you have

[marish01]

Sorry but having morals is not an issue

[CrabCakes11]

Morals. Lol. How is having consensual sex immoral

[marish01]

Casual sex is immoral to me.

[CrabCakes11]

Why is it immoral?

[lilBigPotato]

My view would be the same as now with guys. The gender should make no difference

[exitseven]

@marish01. Really good question and really good answer.

[LiamS95]

I totally agree.

[DrPepper12]

I don't understand this obsession with body count it's all in the past. The person in front of you is your present and future. And, it's not your pet! It's the past of the person that you are currently with an interested in. They may have been a different person then maybe not but it really doesn't matter

[marish01]

Not past if she embraces it. Past if she regrets it

[DrPepper12]

Why not embrace it? If your well read or well travelled wouldn't that be a point of pride too? I hear you but there's nothing to regret or apologize for

[marish01]

I meant PROMISCUOUS past

[DrPepper12]

I guess I'm of the opinion every person and interaction has a lesson to impart in building the life you call you. Promiscuousness is just part of the journey for some.

[marish01]

I wouldn't want to date a person who has that journey.

[Mark987]

I find body counts shouldn't matter unless it's ridicously high, I am over 20 in my life ( I think), and I have been with women that have had more. I find the more sex someone has the more adventerous and fun it is.

[Badgirlnatalia]

@Mark987 weird how judgmental you are about age gaps then. Get a grip.

[Mark987]

@Badgirlnatalia how did I judge? I don't think it should matter lol

[Badgirlnatalia]

Oh really message me

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said armenian girl 😊👍🏻

[nawtee_me]

I will take them all off of your hands then…. I do not care about body count at all.

[rebeliouse]

1. why is it disgusting knowing how many dicks have been in her. do you have any issue with a cock thats been covered in lots of different vaginal secretions?

2. why would u feel moraly disgusted in how many dicks been in a vagina. again do you have any issue with a cock thats been in a lot of different vaginas?

3. maybe she did thing sexual intimacy is something special and maybe she loved a lot of men in her life. again shoe on other foot what about a guy acting this way if he has sex with many women not thinking its intimately special and not tied to love?

4. isn't sex supposed to be fun would you teach your daughter that sex is a dirty filthy thing and not to do it?

[marish01]

1) Never said male promiscuity is fine. But I rather him gaving had been in holes than others in his holes 2) because she lets them inside. It shows her character. Does she care whether tge men that fucked her care to know who she is? Only women with no self respect don't mind it 3) the fact she had so many men already shows her views on intimacy. 4) Did I say marital sex is filthy? Did I say sex with love is filthy?

[rebeliouse]

why is 1 any diff between man and woman? again why does that diff for a guy if he dont care what he stuffs it in does it not show the guys views on intimacy maybe all the guys the girl has had were love that didn't last

[marish01]

Because he goes inside her. She lets men inside. A man doesn't let women inside.

[rebeliouse]

but the man has been in a woman how is that any different to a woman letting a man in? he chose to put it in and it could be dirty or not healthy

[marish01]

A man let so many women inside him? No, right? He put it because women let him inside.

[rebeliouse]

a man puts it in so many women not inside the man but he asked the woman to put it inside even if its dirty or unhealthy

[marish01]

He puts it in women's body. Women are the gatekeepers

[rebeliouse]

but still he chooses and what if he puts it in a lot of women surly thats as bad as girl letting lot of men in both are high body count

[marish01]

Letting them in is worse than going inside of them.

[rebeliouse]

why is it any different?

[marish01]

Because the one who has a hole lets the other in. He touches her cervix.

[rebeliouse]

but he touches it with his penis and he gets her body fluids inside his penis

[marish01]

Inside his penis? Lol

[rebeliouse]

why lol? how do you think a man can catch diseases from a woman?

[marish01]

I didn't mean diseases. It is the fact that a woman lets a man inside not the other way around

[rebeliouse]

so its ok for a man to put it in every woman that lets him? not matter what age he could be 20 and she 70 or condition could be dirty filthy or have diesease

[marish01]

No. I meant male promiscuity though filthy is not as filthy as female promiscuity.

[rebeliouse]

how is it any different

[marish01]

How is ot the same?

[rebeliouse]

its the moral of the person to have a lot of sex before marriage boy or girl

[MasterKS]

i am looking for girls point of view in this one.

[that_girl66]

I wouldn't do it

[marish01]

You wouldn't date her or you wouldn't care aboit a body count?

[that_girl66]

I wouldn't care about her body count

[rebeliouse]

care to dm @that_girl66

[that_girl66]

Can't

[rebeliouse]

why not? just follow me then u can

[Anonymous]

I don't care about a woman's body count.

[marish01]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because I have my own share of counts, if I care about partner's counts I'd be applying double standards.

[marish01]

So you would get dusappointed if her body count was low?

[Opinion Owner]

No, I just would accept it if it was either high or low. Maybe if I were inexperienced myself I would've cared more about that matter.

[marish01]

Feeling moral and physical disgust for the idea of dating promiscuous women has nothing to do with experience but has to do with high standards and values.

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't say anything about feeling disgusted, I just would be embarrassed if I were inexperienced and she was for example very experienced and have high body counts, so I think I'd be hesitant about getting in a relationship with her.

[marish01]

Ok but many men who care about body count do feel physical disgust knowing how many men has been in those holes

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of these men have some insecurities, and those who don't are a bit too traditional.

[marish01]

Feeling disgust for a used up pussy means having self respect and being a germophobe.

[Opinion Owner]

I think that ridiculous, assuming people shower and clean themselves after sexual encounters.

[marish01]

Women clean theur vagina and cervix with soup and water?

[Opinion Owner]

No, the outer parts.

[marish01]

Does the penis touch only her outer parts?

[Opinion Owner]

No, but it's not as bad as you think it is, do you think that the fluids stay there?

[marish01]

For a while. Do you know the slut you want to bang wasn't banged on that same day?

[marish01]

Would you drink from a cup if you knew someone peed into it though the cup was washed?

[Opinion Owner]

First of all we aren't talking in case of hook-ups, because that's different, but in case I meet a girl and she had sexual encounters in the past, like I myself did I'd be okay with it, I didn't say I'm going to be with a woman who was with another man earlier on the same day. You can't feel disgusted with sex or you will never be able to get intimate with anyone ever, it's different from the cup example you gave.

[marish01]

How are you disgusted by the idea of drinking from a cup where pee has been but are not disgusted by a hole dicks have been?

[marish01]

And, have you not had a hookup?

[Opinion Owner]

No, I haven't had hook-ups or one-night stands, but short term relationships yes I have had. It's totally different in my opinion drinking from a cup that been peed in than having sex with someone who had sex with others before, and I think most people will agree with me, it's not possible even to compare the two things.

[marish01]

But the cup is clean

[Opinion Owner]

Gotta be a very sexy cup