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Would you break up with someone over bad sex/ or undesirable penis size? Or even lack of sexual desire from your partner?

I'm curious about how important is sex to you in a relationship

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  • I usually never discuss things like this with you, as I don't want to violate any personal feelings you have about this kind of discussion, but in this case I will and hope that I don't say anything that would offend you.

    My "just prior" girlfriend, I decided to drop her after New Years Day. We had sex one time, rather, me going down on her, and she did nothing in return. Actually, I, for whatever reason, could not 'perform' We have been 'friends' for 10 years, and worked together with the State of California. Only time we had or attempted sex

    For me personally, the sex part was not a critical issue for me, because we did many things together, travel, concerts, Glen Ivy Hot Springs, Los Vegas, Nassau, and on New Years we went to Segerstrom Performing Arts.

    She dressed, and always did dress, like she was "homeless", and I chose to overlook it because we had many other 'likes' and I simply said, "Well, that's Maria" This time, at a formal concert, I had just had enough. She has $$$$, a beautiful home in Oceanside et cetera. I am not 'wealthy' but would have worn my tuxedo, but did not want to make her look foolish.

    I hope you are alright with what I posted.

    Bruce

    • Is the person you couldn't perform with and the coworker same person or different?

    • @Mspputiton Same person

    • Msputiton Same person

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Well if they lack sexual desire most likely yes. I love sex and want to enjoy it with my person. If I couldn't I would feel I'm missing a vital part of being in relationships. At the end of a day a good relationship is like a best friend u have sex with so if their no sex arnt we just friends? . Even if she did have eith me but I could tell she didn't enjoy it at all it would probably be a deal braker. It would make it hard for me to enjoy and I would feel bad when she took care of me sexually.

    • Or see if there is things you could do to satisfy her better. Instead of going well i didn't satisfy her i give up breaking up

    • Well there a big difference. If she just doesn't have sexual interest or a super low sex drive I probably can't fix that and tbh it's not necessary something that needs fixing its just her. If she wasn't enjoying it then that's a different problem that can problem be fix with communication

Most Helpful Girls

  • It really depends how important sex is to you. Someone who has no, little or low interest, probably wouldn't mind as much as someone who has high interest.

    I would not care about penis size, wouldn't break up over that... but lack of wanting to do anything, might be a problem.

    Of course there is those that if they don't want to do it, are fine with you getting it somewhere else, but some people don't want to do it, then turn around and say, because I am not interested you should be too.

    Seems like it would end over that.

    These are things that should be figured out though before you get together with someone, if your not similar then it would be crazy to try and get together.

    • nice

  • Bad sex? I can teach him to screw me better. Undesirable size? Meh, Im more concerned about the way it looks. If it doesn't look like something I would eventually want to put my mouth on, then sex is all he’d get. If he wants oral but I dont like the way it looks then I’d breakup but blame it on some nonsexual reason. Lack of sexual desire? Only if we’re engaged or married and he’s slackin. Sex is not something i HAVE to have before then

    • Gotcha

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I think if there's no sexual desire or chemistry then I don't think the relationship could continue. For me sex is part and parcel of a relationship and is vital to me feeling happy and close with my partner. How do you feel about it?

  • Sex is part of a healthy 365 degree relationship. There are times when no one is interested in sex due to stress. Times when one partner is more into it than the other. But NO sexual desire. Something is mentally or physically wrong with the person if this is the case. They need help.

    Unless someone has a micro penis, less than pinky-finger sized, most penises can do the job unless you're some kind of size queen who wants a jackhammer.

    Bad sex can usually be solved by practicing what you like with your SO. Ask for what you want, try what you think you'd like, and if those fail, try try again. Trying is half the fun of experimenting. The more you do, the better you'll get at it.

  • Yes I would have!

  • You get into relationships to see if you are a match. If you aren't, you move on.
    Irreconcilable differences when it comes to sex would be a game ender.

    The goal is to eventually find someone you adore and who adores you. There is no reason to settle if you are going to be miserable.

  • sex is very important to me, but so is love

  • Would you break up with someone over bad sex/ or undesirable penis size? No.

    Or even lack of sexual desire from your partner? Not unless I perceived it as a rejection of me.

  • If the spark isn‘t enough to hold it all together if would fall apart anyway.

    • Good point

  • I dated a woman in my twenties that gave the worst blow jobs ever. It literally felt like a great white 🦈 shark went down on me. 😳
    Funny thing, because she bragged a lot about her skills and how every guy she'd been with said she was the best... oh my...

  • I'd break up over lack if desire or bad sex. Those things need to be good to have a decent marriage. Penis size isn't that important to me tho

  • It's pretty inportant if we are monogamous, if the only way I'm getting laid is bye cheating then I'd probably break up.

  • Sex is important.

    Break up over penis size? I hope not. On the one hand, though, if penis size is that important to one partner, then they need to honor that thing. Have their partner up their game. But, in the end, there's no replacement for a penis and if that's what the one partner wants...

    Bad sex? No. Until/unless there was an unwillingness to work together to learn, and grown, and get together on it. Then there would be a sexual compatibility issue.

    Which is the same for lack of sexual desire. That's legitimate, no judgement about that, but neither partner should be expected to go from their extreme to the other partners. Not when it comes to sexual desire. So, that one would probably be a break up if we couldn't figure out it was something we could work through.

    • I hope not either or there would be an SR coming...

    • @PrettyPriya ... right? lmao. Appreciate the smile.

    • @prettypriya... I am confused, though, @msputiton stared at me the other day. What does it mean?

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  • Bad sex can always be improved upon with practice. Mom told me practice makes perfect... probably, not exactly the application she was referring to, but it still applies.

    I'm okay with someone who has a low libidos', as I prefer quality over frequency, so as long as they are into it once in awhile, it's all good. Besides, the person may think they have a low sex drive, but it could be they just need the right combination of buttons pushed to get them in the mood.

    Guys have to remember, we can typically Shhwing!! on a dime however, women often need more effort to get their motor started.

  • if we were not compatible.. then I would have not started a relationship in the first place

  • No why would I

  • Yes, I would definitely seek out someone else. Sex is EXTREMELY important in a long-term relationship. I can’t imagine being married to a woman who was bad at, or showed a little interest when it came to sex.

  • Thank God my wife didn't break up because of a small penis

    • Wym?

    • I would have been divorced years ago lol

    • Oh. You're saying you ain't packin

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  • I think sex is relatively important in a long term monogamous relationship you need to be able to effectively pleasure each other in that kind of relationship.

  • When two people love each other sincerely, they will find a way to please each other in the field of sex in one or another way. In the beginning of a relation the sex is not very often good because the partners must discover each other. On the other hand, when true love is missing one gets easyly tired of a partner's little defaults.

  • I won't break up over cheating but I will break up over lack of sex. A sexless relationship is just a friendship

  • I might. It would depend on other aspects of the relationship.

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