I know there's a whole bunch of guys who fully support this and wish more girls did this, but... slow down, girl. If you are asking 'is this sexual', I doubt you fully understand the implications and repercussions of just going around giving guys random blowjobs.
You may have given him a great memory that he'll happily look back on for years to come.
But what about you? Why did you do it? Why act on random thoughts - not thinking? This can create a lot of confusion. Not to mention how they see you, but how you see yourself.
Blowjobs have become this thing that girls do for guys they hardly know (and notice how it's a one-way transaction.)
Ask yourself why you did it, why you want it. Such as:
It's not nothing. Don't fool yourself, or let the casual commenters here convince you into thinking it's nothing.
There's nothing wrong with intimacy and sexual experiences amongst adults. But you're not there yet. So be careful. Think, then act. Don't act, then think.
I also used to see it as less sexual then just sex. Which lead to me being way to generous with handing out bj's to guys who really didn't deserve one. It only backfired when i had to tell my boyfriend how many guys I had sex with and he got to hear from someone else that I didn't include the guys I blew :s Most people definitly see it as sex.
In my humble opinion i disagree a blow job is not sex and as a man i am not going to count the number of times my girlfriend has shook someone's hand how many hugs she has given out or how many bj she has done or how many times she has had sex thats is just stupid imho
@vald9inches Sir, ignoring the stupidity of equating sucking a cock, with shaking hands or giving a hug for a second here. You just answered by saying “A blowjob is not sex” ! So what? Nobody asked, or even asserted that a blowjob was sex, she asked if it was sexual. I mean if ORAL-SEX is not sexual… what is? Now back to the stupidity of equating blowjobs with shaking hands and hugging. Have you ever shaken someone’s hand… in front of you mother? Have you ever hugged your mother? D’you know of ANY reason why it would be wrong to shake moms hand? What about shaking your father’s hand? You see where I’m going with this? I mean if hugs and handshakes are just about the same thing, as blowjobs right? Let me ask you this, do you believe that there is anything wrong with a man in his 30’s getting a blowjob from a 13y/o girl, and by 13, I mean JUST, like she was 12 less than 18hrs earlier! Is that okay? would YOU personally be okay if she just walked in and started doing that to you? I mean, you said it wasn’t a sex act, so why would you go to prison for something, that is as innocent, and meaningless as as a handshake?
@CrazyGirl2 i can understand how you feel about this and your point of view and i mean no offense but what you are asking me really depends on what part of the world you live in where. For example in Europe or france its normal to kiss your mother and father on the lips and other parts of the world are even more open minded then that. All i am saying is counting this stuff is stupid i dont judge a girl's value by how many times she has had sex before she met me that is just archaic thinking.
Of course it is sexual, but sexual urges don't necessarily mean there are romantic feelings. I think you need to be honest with yourself and analyse your feelings for him. If it was just lust, it's just lust. If there is more, you will have to consider whether he has feelings for you. And, if he has feelings for you, but you don't have feelings for him, find sexual gratification elsewhere or you will just hurt your friend.
If you are interested in him romantically then tell him. If you just like sucking his manhood then ask him if it's OK to just do that once in a while but you don't want to date him. Most single guys will not get up set if their female friend wants to occasionally give them a blow job just because they want to with no strings attached.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!blowjob is sexual without a doubt of course it's different than coitus but sometimes you just can't help yourself and you want to give someone head just to engage in something intimate like that i mean he did cum in your mouth and your hardly friends
Yes, oral-sex is sexual.
While it isn't sex it is sexual most definitely.
Are you serious? Naturally a blowjob is always sexual.
Yeah sort of like,
genital touching is about as sexual as you can get.
even doing it yourself (touching) outside in public, it’s sexual.
Of course it is sexual. What to do? Tell him you enjoy that and he can expect more!
You must be a great friend to just give him a bj out of the blue. Did he enjoy the orgasm? Do you want to be more than just friends? Do you want sex with him?
Talk about a great friendship, what a lucky guy. On the other hand you should smile & keep things business as usual & continue to be a wonderful friend to him.
Is a sexual act sexual?
Does a bear shit in the woods?
Depends on if you're doing it for enjoyment or nutrition.
I'd love to add some extra protein to your diet, vaginally preferred
@justaguy173 you better talk it over with your mom first since she get first dibs.
Well duh. It's called oral sex as one of its many names. It's indeed sexual as you aim to give your partner sexual pleasure through it.
A blowjob is definitely sexual. If it weren't, he wouldn't get hard for it.
Well according to Congress a blowjob it’s not considered a sexual act... Ask Monica Lewinsky
So why you do it?
Fluid is exchanged. That makes it sexual. Open-mouth kissing is sexual.
What should you do? What do you want to do? Do you want a relationship with him? Voluntarily performing oral sex seems like a pretty strong indication of interest.
What made you do it? It's a sexual act yes, and he'll now be confused probably. You should talk to him about still being friends (or whatever you want it to be), just so you're both on the same page. You're a great friend though! lol
It's good to see women giving the men around here a run for their money with regard to asking dumb questions.
Yes, of course.
How can it not be
Yes!!! Very sexual.
Umm yes it is sexual. No one goes around sucking cock for no reason.
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