Would you consider a handjob sex?

After talking to my girlfriend, she said to me that getting a hand job is considered sex. But I thought only intercourse was considered sex. I don’t believe a blow job is sex either. So do you feel like a handjob or a blow job is considered as “sex”?
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  • I think it's not sex. Blow jobs and going down, I consider sex.
    Hand jobs are what I consider sexual relations. It's "Indecent liberties," ass the law sees it;
    which, when unwelcome, uninvited, and non-consensual, is molestation.
    If i put on a latex glove and shake your hand, it's the same effect as with a condom.
    This brings to mind fisting, or fingering orifices. Is that sex? Or is it just kinky fondling?

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  • that one worked well for Clinton... did it? lol

    "I did not have sexual relations with that woman"

Most Helpful Girls

  • They're all sexual acts, and they all are considered cheating. But I agree that I personally only consider intercourse as sex.

  • Yes all sexual acts... if ur girl got ate out by another guy is that not sexual?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • A hand job isn't having sex, otherwise you could have sex with yourself. But also, it is a sexual act, otherwise you'd just be giving them out to your friends. lol

  • All three are considered sex

  • It’s a sexual act, but not sex.

  • If you can pay for it it’s sex.

  • I don't consider a handjob sex.

    • I agree can you help me out please? I need some advice, struggling a bit... I posted a couple questions on it.

  • Handjobs and blowjobs are not sex

  • I wouldn't say that an HJ is sex

  • Not sex.
    A form of a sexual act.

  • Its a "type" of sex such as oral but its not intercourse!

  • It is sexual intimacy (hopefully) resulting in an orgasm. Yes, I do. But that means nothing regarding your virginity.

  • Yes I do.

  • I only sex intercourse as sex

  • A handjob doesn't make the cut. Neither does feeling up some boobies or fingering.

  • Sexual activity but not sex

  • It’s on the line and it depends on your and your partners agreements. It’s dangerous territory

  • It’s a form of sex in my opinion

  • floor play but not real sex

  • I consider as sex in that I get a sexual pleasure

  • No... handjobs and blowjobs are sexual acts, not sex.

  • If you're 35 and still asking questions about handjobs you have worse problems than that.

    • Lol, I actually burst out in laughter reading that xD

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