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Sexual Health Girls, would you date a Male Stripper?
Anonymous
I recently started dating a girl I really like a lot! Primarily, I am a graduate student, but I Strip for extra money. I have been dating a girl for 6 weeks, only recently 2 weeks ago told her I strip.. She wasn't thrilled but didn't seem too upset either. Tonight, I am performing at a Male Revue. She is going to go and see me Strip. I will be fully nude for about 20 seconds in one scene tonight. How would you feel if a guy you were dating stripped?
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I really like to hear more thoughts, I am actually really nervous having her in the audience tonight!
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So like any other ladies want to share thier opinion? It would be appreciated...
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What Girls Said
(61)I would say no. But only because I'd be worried about faithfulness, stds, and also I wouldn't like his body being anything but mine.
I wouldn't like it at all. Anything that involves my guy in a sexual situation with another person is a big negative. And I've been to one of those "revues" . . . women get carried away and I have no doubt that an audience member sometimes gives blow jobs and/or has sex with these guys (maybe backstage, but it still happens). I've seen first hand a guy getting his cock stroked by an audience member, and that was right out in the open.
i haven't met many stripper guys, but those whom i did meet left me with the impression that strippers are weird, and that they assume all women want the same things.
no i wouldn't. i wouldn't want my man to show other girls his body like hell no that's mine!
I honestly wouldn't judge too much, i would think that maybe try and look at another job for awhile, even if it is low pay, you could probally do certain hour shift or do it on certain days ^-^. I hope it went well for you.
No I wouldn't be very happy. To watch my man look deep into another girls eyes and tease her with his body... it would be same as if I did it to a block. It would be like watching a partner cheat on you without the sex.
How did it go by the way?
Haha It would be extremely weird.
But I guess it's much safer than dating a girl who's a stripper.
... yes lol.
It is so adorable that you are and you go to grad school... It would be one thing if you were only planning to do that with your life but the fact that you have a nice body appeal and you are getting higher education is a plus, plus, and plus. I am sure she is glad to have you! In fact, this is probably unethical but I adore men who are attractive to the point that they can capitalize off of it in any way, it's... different? lol Best of luck!
Thanks! I don't know if she is all that happy to have me today. Last night, she did not know how to digest seeing our show. I know she's not happy but I don't know how upset. We'll see
Aw no way >,.
Well, I'm in college and I would be into the whole thing xD I mean, if you have friends in NY in the same situation hit me up or you can just message me in general lol I found some male dance routines online and I found them sexy but humorous with the cheesy costumes and music... not to mention the 50 year old women that were most of the audience lol
We haven't spoken in detail, but she did mention she did not like other women touching me. About the last 30 seconds to minute or so of my last dance I do fully nude. Some of the women that have front row seats right next to stage like to touch my body when I am close. That kinda bothered her and more so when I did not have a g string on...
Lol, yeah a lot of the routines are kinda cheesy but I don't really take myself to seriously. We have a good mix of ages in the audience. The 50 year old women are often the best tippers though, LOL
Oh I saw routines where they where not qite touching any of the guys! I suppose that can be upsetting but you should just tell her to look at it as ''look at what all of these women can't have but it's all mine for free hahaha' :D or better yet just say' Babe, do you know how much people pay just to look at this?' jk jk 30 seconds though? That is a lot and from what I saw there is hardly ever nudity, you must have a crowd..
Just hope that one of your friends moms aren't in the crowd...( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Yeah... New get a good size crowd. In regards to full nudity it's usually only done during the last dance or two of the night. If the crowd isn't that rowdy it is more kinda like a peek which might just last 5 seconds or so... Not that long, but if it's obvious the women are really enjoying it the DJ will mix in another song and the fully nude part can last up to a couple extra minutes. I'd say 4 out 5 times the crowd wants extended nudity. Only one guy usually gets naked per show though. Gotta give the ladies a reason to visit a second time, lol ;)
;) Aw lol It's probably more so for the bods than the D though lol. So how much would you say you make in a night? like a really good night. And are you in NY? I would totally go to your show. And I'll cover my eyes at the nudity >.<
I totally wouldn't mind ! As long as only I is receiving the private dances ! Otherwise I can get possessive :P
no hurt feelings but I would totally dump you!
because if I really liked you I wouldn't want to share you!!! <3
so if you really like her, don't break her heart and make that show your last!
hope you come to the right decision 'kiss, kiss'