Would you "disrespect" a girl you're having sex with, if you knew she'd get turned on by it?

[MorningStar69]

Would you get turned on? I put disrespect in between quotation marks, because not everything gets me going. For example, I love being called names, referred to by said names. If I'm giving you head, no need to warn me when you're about to cum, take over anytime you want, hold my head in place even if i'm tapping out. I also like the guy to be selfish, orgasms should be earned, I like to be seen as a tool to your sexual satisfaction.

[ohshee]

You know what I really think you for this question because when I'm with the girl I always trying to make it all about her and I just realized something let's play pretend for a minute let's say you were giving me head and usually I only like that for a few minutes because I want to be in control because it makes me last on her and I like to take her down the path that she might not have ever been down before but I just realized something reading your question it would still be making it all about you like I said let's play pretend you're giving giving me head and if I was to grab a hold of your head and just forced all the way I guess my pelvis is my cock is down your throat and I'd be calling you my little fucking slut suck my cock and blah blah blah I take it out and just slow motion and dragging across your lips up and down your cheek future and just the way I push it back into your mouth it would still be making it all about you and I like that I never thought about that before because it's something you enjoy and I can feel that you crave it sometimes no I would never disrespect any girl at least for any of the reasons you just named to me that's a turn-on and I can read a girl's face her eyes the way she breathes the color of her cheeks The Way She Moves the way she moans and there if there's something that you might not like I would know that in a heartbeat and I would change it up in a heartbeat

[Lliam]

I'm not sure what you mean by "disrespect".

I don't like to degrade women. A woman who likes being used hard is a rock star. In fact, it's natural for lusty women to get off on that. Frankly, I love nothing better than using her hard, pinning her, grasping her, positioning her, lifting her up, pulling her hair and swatting her ass.

I have total respect for a woman who can take me on and fuck like that, so it's not natural for me to treat her like just a fuck hole. I want her full participation; to use me to get her own rocks off. I want to make her cum until she's helpless.

Dirty talk is erotic. I love it when she gets off on saying things like "My pussy is so fucking wet." "Dig inside me with that cock!" "Fuck me harder!" "Don't stop!" "Oh my God! You're fucking my guts!" "Cum in my mouth." And I like talking back.

It wouldn't occur to me to call her degrading names but I could do it within limits if that was her kink. I don't think of sexually active women as whores or sluts. But I suppose I could play along if she got off on it. "Swallow my cock, bitch! Take it all!" "You're a dirty little slut, aren't you?" "Ya like being used like a whore?"

[Ninani]

I like being used like that too, but the name calling is off limits. Nothing better than receiving compliments while choking on a cock.

[lambrini]

I usually start calling the girl a slut, whore or bitch when she gags on my cock

[Ninani]

I'd stop and kick you out if you started that without my consent.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Once in a while I like that. But not for real snd only if I really trust the person.

[MrOracle]

I'm a Dom, so I'm pretty used to girls wanting these things, and, yeah, I'm fine with it, though there are certain lines I don't cross. For example, I don't choke, because you can cause permanent damage to someone or even kill them, but I'll hold a girl by her neck if she likes that - I just won't be applying pressure to her throat or her jugular veins. But humiliation and dominance? Dirty talk? Spanking, hair pulling, etc? If she likes that stuff, I'm happy to oblige her.

[Markm3212]

You are most guys dream girl lol your SO is one lucky guy

[SitBackRelax]

No, because it’s not who I am to treat a woman that way

[DaveJord]

Yes I would if I knew it was Okay. Because then its not really disrespectful if you like it.

[TheorionMage]

A rare fetish preference, ... not entitled to know 'why' it "floats yer boat" but
if that aspect of B& D submission make you happy. Bon appetit!
There's a Dom for EVERY Sub, "DEEPER, yah groveling cum slut!" <3 ;)

[ChrisMaster69]

I have in the past yes, as that was one of my partners (collars) kinks.

Did I get off on it no, it’s actually hard at times to do, this is what top drop is.

where you do something to your partner, that at a core level hurts emotionally and afterwards you feel that sink.

Degradation is a very heavy part of BDSM and really needs a lot of aftercare, it’s one of the most emotionally damaging parts of BDSM.

Its also something that really needs discussed, as @ninani says things like name calling can be off limits with some, whereas physical may be. Then with others it’s the other way around. Which is why it’s important to really understand your partners kinks and not assume.

[NHI2017]

Yes, Done this with a couple girls over the years.

they get off on the idea of being degraded

[NetSapien]

Thank you for clarifying "disrespect" lol

I would do anything my girl asked for, with in reason. I'm not going to hang off the ceiling fan and yell like Tarzan or some weird shit.

I am also pretty dominant when engaged in sex. I will grab hair, position my way, my rhythm takes over, turn a blowjob into a facefk, etc. So 'disrespecting' is fine with me.

[The_Maphio]

Of course. I very much respect and cherish my wife's company and support, but since she melts like snow in August when I call her "whore" during sex, I tell her that quite often. She even apologizes to me for making me say so, what a sweetheart.

[DonkeyDan]

It's not something I'm overly comfortable with but if it's just light humiliation like you described and it's what she liked I'd probably be OK with it.

[bsann2015]

Nope I couldn't do it.
I have too much of a conscience I could not be cruel or mean to someone I really cared about.
We all tend to fight and see things we do not mean when it comes to anger however to intentionally inflict pain upon another just because you think they enjoy it is not something I could do

[Barry88]

It's not what I would normally do, but if I knew she would like it that way, for sure I'm going to give her that.

[AviatorTom]

Not all women are like you, but some are. I dated a few like you after my divorce. One liked it when I called her names, told her exactly what I was going to do to her, and them do it. It was a turnon for both of us.

[t-8900]

I wouldn't been date said girl tbh. But that's just me. Not into any forms of degrading tbh.

[t-8900]

*even date

[EroticArab]

Since you used quotation marks for "disrespect," then yes. It does turn me on when it turns her on. In fact, I can't "disrespect" a woman I don't profoundly respect. Because if I disrespect her for real (when we are not having sex) and then disrespect her during sex, I would feel like an asshole and I hate feeling that way. What you describe, though, is extremely sexy and it turns me on a lot when it is willingly given by the woman I'm with.

[humpbackjack]

Of course if that’s what she’s into and it’s a huge turn on

[exitseven]

I could do this but no physical stuff like spanking or handcuffs.

[bowenw]

Yes, but only if she was into it and specifically asked for it, otherwise no.

[FilmGuy93]

Hell no. I know for a fact that the instant things go south, she'll find a way to take that shit out of context and use it against me.

[humpbackjack]

Dude you need to get the hell out of that relationship as fast and as far as you can and as peaceful as possible cause she’s dangerous

[FilmGuy93]

@humpbackjack Trust me, my dude, I am single! lmao

[Wester1967]

No. That's street business. I won't do it and I'll die alone happy having never done it. Sue me.