Would you ever date a pornstar?

[Anonymous]

and would you watch her videos when you're in a relationship with her?

[taleswapper]

Yes, and yes. What boggles my mind is the idea that a porn star (or any other woman) would date me. But that's never stopped me before. I don't really value sexual exclusivity. But I find watching a woman give herself over to passion, even during casual sex, quite enjoyable. I could even be on the set. My issues would be with her safety (both personal and medical) and her pleasure. As long as she's enjoying it, have at. Safe, Sane, and Consensual is the key.

[Jason888]

I agree with all you say. It would be pretty amazing to watch her enjoying herself on the set.

[AD240pCharlie]

If she's still active, then that's a dealbreaker no matter what. However, while I don't think that I would be interested in a former pornstar, I wouldn't let her past stop me from being with her if I really did like her.

[PrinceyPru]

I mean personally, I'd probably be willing but I'd want to have a say in which jobs he accepts (like which people he had sex with), also this is assuming they're male, but same with females probably. I've been friends with sex workers before and honestly it's just another part of life?

[wankiam]

thats a very mature veiw

[PrinceyPru]

Thanks. I'd also want to know from the start of the relationship. I would only feel offended if he kept it a secret from me. Then I would feel like it was cheating because I did not consent to him sleeping with other people. I'd be willing to consent, but without asking and being honest that's when things are crossing the line.

[wankiam]

yeah its very important to be clear from the start. im the same about being upfront about my porn addiction.. it puts a lot of girls off but its a huge part of my life and it isn't fair to hide it

[PrinceyPru]

Yeah definitely. That way nobody is hurt or anything fat into the relationship

[wankiam]

indeed and have to say i learned the hard way where i did hide it and we both ended up hurt. my last girlfriend was a sex worker and when we met we spent the whole night being honest about ourselves

[PrinceyPru]

That's good! I mean gives u also have a slight porn addiction and stuff and I'd definitely want to be UPenn about that since that kind of thing with most reasonable guys kind of weirds them out

[wankiam]

thats interesting... if you ever want to chat further about that please dm me sometime ;)

[PrinceyPru]

Haha I'm nervous to since we have a pretty big she gap and I don't want it to look like you're getting in a minor if those heckin FBI agents or whatever come around. Hahaha

[wankiam]

oh yeah lol... wasn't coming onto you though ;) we can chat here if you like

[PrinceyPru]

That winking emoji says otherwise in my teenage culture lmao.

[wankiam]

ha ha but im cheecky not creepy

[PrinceyPru]

Lmao. Y'know, you remind me of my dad. You both have that kind of cheeky humor to you

[wankiam]

how does a 'slight' porn addiction manifest itself? are you sure its addiction and not just occasional fun

[PrinceyPru]

More like in a recovering porn addict but I've been getting better haha

[wankiam]

did you use it a lot. i got into it young as an escape from a poor childhood

[PrinceyPru]

When I was younger I was extremely obsessed with porn but I've actually become very desensitized to it since I've already seen all the crazy and extreme stuff. I'm starting to lose my interest a little, but it's been taking a few years haha. I'm much more of a "sex/masturbation" addict since I'm hypersexual. It's really about though because it makes it so that it's hard to live my life normally.

[wankiam]

im a chronic masturbater so i get that... i just decided this is me though so gave up fighting it and hey, some girls dont mind. though most do

[PrinceyPru]

For the most part my problem is that the whole sex drive thing makes it nearly impossible to function like a normal person in things like school so I have terrible grades because i can't concentrate, I can't sleep very well at night because my vagina says "that's not allowed" no matter how many times I might masturbate that night, etc. It's just been getting in the way a lot haha.

[wankiam]

i was just the same and now its even worse lol

[PrinceyPru]

Rip, I hope I'll be able to get a job. 😩 At this rate I'll just be a horny homeless kid

[wankiam]

maybe get a job in sex work then lol. my ex did it because she was a sex addict

[PrinceyPru]

My biggest problem is that there aren't any places nearby and I don't have a car and stuff. (And unless it's a business or something if be afraid of catching something and stuff. )

[wankiam]

and you are only 17. my ex worked in a massage place but would have sex with most the guys.

[wankiam]

how often do you masturbate? i wonder if fighting the urge is what makes you lose concentration in school etc

[PrinceyPru]

Ah man, multiple times a day up to around twelve or so?

[wankiam]

thats a lot for a girl... not a bad thing though. im ten a day and i have a sex doll too

[PrinceyPru]

It is a lot haha. It's only bad because it negatively impacts my quality of life but I'm sure that if I had a boyfriend and I was able to actually get satisfied instead of just a "quick wank before eating some Cheerios and being frustrated and exhausted" I'd probably feel better tbh

[wankiam]

kinda different for me... i like to wank just as much when i am in a relationship. yes it impacts my life, for example this weekend i have loads to do but i know all im going to do is wank off but im too old to care anymore so rather than a quicky to ease frustration i will be taking my time and loving every stroke ;)

[PrinceyPru]

My problem is that I'm one of those kids who have to basically okay the "mother" role in the house even though in the youngest in my family. I have to do all the cleaning in the house, cook for everyone, do random tasks for my mom that she could and should easily do for herself, etc. So I'm a really stressed out and busy kid with little time. 😫

[wankiam]

i have to try to do 60 hours a week at work but the weekends are mine. you won't live at home for ever

[PrinceyPru]

Hopefully... Then again hopefully that doesn't mean I'll get kicked out either lmao. Tbh I'd probably be more into the idea of sleeping with people if the folks who live nearby didn't basically shun me together as a town. (Not including people who are way older or younger than me)

[wankiam]

you have it all to look forward too

[PrinceyPru]

True, true. I'm still afraid that I won't make it in life since I'm but gonna pass highschool and stuff. But hey that's what the GED is for right haha

[wankiam]

i fucked up in my last years of school but later in life college was the way to go

[PrinceyPru]

Oof I hope I'll be able to go to college.

[wankiam]

i only did it years later to get more tech qualifications in a field i was already working in

[PrinceyPru]

Ye, makes sense. My biggest problem is that most jobs I want they want you to have a certain level of experience even for things that seem like starter jobs. I also have pretty much no jobs where I live since they're basically all taken haha.

[wankiam]

no rush... i didn't get serious until mid to late 20s

[PrinceyPru]

I feel ya. I'm just in a rush because of my family pressuring me a lot

[wankiam]

you need to go at your own pace though regardless of what they think

[PrinceyPru]

Yeah, definitely. I'm really hoping to just study for the GED so I can relax more and mor not have to deal with the stress of hailing school and having everyone judge me (in front of my face)

[wankiam]

thing is take tame to discover who you are and then if people judge, ignore them. i dont give a damn anymore what people think of me

[PrinceyPru]

Ye. I love of know who I am and who I want to be, the hardest part is getting there though. I have a lot of obstacles to get past haha

[wankiam]

indeed but dont see your sexuality as one of them

[PrinceyPru]

Well at the moment it is an obstacle until I can control it and not let it control me. That mostly just takes therapy and willpower though and I think I can manage that pretty easily

[wankiam]

thats true and i must say that i had to focus more on other things after i left home and school. its only in more recent yesars i have allowed it to take over again and thats because i want to be a wanker now

[PrinceyPru]

Ye. If I had the time and stuff I'd love to indulge and whatnot but I have to focus more on my future at the moment. I'm just simply at that age where I'm going from "you're a CHILD" to "YOU'RE AN ADULT AND YOU NEED TO DO THESE THINGS" rip

[wankiam]

perhaps but keep time for yourself too. its all about balance

[PrinceyPru]

Haha I try. These days the only time I have is like tonight, it's almost 5am now and I haven't slept 😄

[wankiam]

so have a good play now before everyone else gets up ;) its 11.40 here

[PrinceyPru]

Haha I plan on it.

[wankiam]

good girl... take your time though. no good just having a quicky. try edging

[PrinceyPru]

I tend to take a long time when I'm able to 😋

[wankiam]

same. i like to get right to the point of orgasm then back off so when i do finally give in its huge

[PrinceyPru]

It's never worked for me in making it more intense, but at least it lasts longer and I'm having a good time lmao

[wankiam]

well its all about what works for you. can you cum and then keep going?

[PrinceyPru]

Yeah, but I often get tired since it takes a lot to get me to get there. Someone's I have to just stop in the middle of it because my arms are in pain or something haha

[PrinceyPru]

Then I just take that as a hydration and snack break

[wankiam]

i get like that too sometimes... usually when im having a viagra wanking session. a two day erection takes some work

[PrinceyPru]

Haha I don't even need the Viagra I just have an eternal erection. Ah the lady blue balls

[wankiam]

i dont use viagra to get hard.. im always aroused but it makes wanking feel even more amazing

[PrinceyPru]

Fair enough man 😁

[wankiam]

anyway... have a good one however you do it ;)

[king_patato]

No way, too weird. Webcam model maybe if it's just her in her videos. Still an odd thought, but meh.

[Jason888]

Yes I would I would love watching her videos and would even enjoy watching her being filmed having sex with a guy (or guys).

[Buckzor]

Nope

[rxm_bxl]

Yes. And yes.

[joe_3885]

@rxm. bxl do you have snapchat?

[wankiam]

yes and yes

[JayCasper777]

Me dating a pornstar is like normal dating.
Dating means fucking and watching TV buddies lol.

[nickyBBB]

Nooo

[Mexicoman101]

I would probably not date an active pornstar unless she was irresistably hot. If I were dating one, I probably wouldn't watch videos of other men fucking her. I would watch the lesbian videos if they had those

[Shadow0Walker]

Why not if it's OK for me, If you feel like its not OK don't
It's what you feel not what you see.

[hellacray]

Nope

[Stringer]

Hmmm... If she is willing to date me, then there must be something about me that she wants... Sure, why not!

[Naydyonov]

no I would npt

[Tomsta]

Yes and yes porn is faked anyway and as its a job its unlikey to make her want the guys she stars in porno's with

It would require an adjustment peroid for me though

[YOUTOOSHOULDJUDGE]

Never in a million years.

[Elementis]

Bad idea, bro. The sex would be good, but you'd be a cuckold every other day unless she quit her job.

[Rick912]

I would. Just because you might not agree with her job, she may be a great person and won't be doing that forever.

[WelshBoy6491]

I think I would

[bipolarmilly]

I dint think I could not much self confidence

[Deukalion]

I have date an escort if it sounds the same. But watching her videos sounds weird to me.

[fredrick89]

Yeah