Would you ever date somebody 'nymphomaniac'?

[anon1903]

A person who likes to have sex on almost daily basis

[Not_Average]

I don’t think wanting sex daily warrants the title of nympho. It just depends on what you mean by nympho I guess.

This is going to be a long answer lol. Back in college, I was pretty reckless and made some pretty stupid decisions with my health. I ended up getting heavily into bodybuilding and taking steroids. I was massive, and at a small town party school, there was a lot of opportunity lol. I went on a bit of a sexual adventure. A lot of casual hookups and ended up in a swinger type relationship. She was bi and we’d fuck other girls together. We were actually engaged. As you could imagine, it turned toxic and ended on pretty bad terms.

I could never go back to that lifestyle or date someone like that for a number of reasons.

Number one, I don’t have 5x more testosterone as the average man anymore and I honestly probably couldn’t fuck with the same power on the same level as consistency I used to.

Number two, the types of women who are down for that type of dynamic usually have a shit load of mental health issues that I don’t have the patience to deal with anymore. (Just my experience). My ex ended up cheating on me with a girl and lying about it for months.

Number three, it jaded my perception of women. I was so arrogant at the time, that I actually thought if I said the right things, I could get almost any woman to fuck me. This sort of began a self-fulfilling prophecy, and I ended up sexualizing and objectifying almost all women mentally. It got to a point where I didn’t want any relationship outside of sex with any woman. I was always straight forward with my intentions, but I knew my mom didn’t raise me to be this way. After I finished undergrad, I stopped the steroids and calmed down a bit. Having been cheated on humbled me in a way as well.

Number four, I started to develop trust issues because I vividly remember a hookup that used me to cheat. I actually casually knew the boyfriend and had no idea they were together. I ended up feeling terrible and telling the boyfriend. I just remember a lot of women who were taken that acted in ways in which their boyfriends or husbands wouldn’t like. It just led to this thought of “is that all it takes?” A muscular physique and a couple of jokes, and you’re willing to flirt or fuck me even though you’re taken? It’s taken me years of working through my trust issues, and my significant other today is amazing and has helped me with a lot of this.

Long story short... this question hits home for me because I’m generally skeptical around overtly sexual women. Having slept around with as many women as I did leaves a bad taste in my mouth. It’s not something I’m particularly proud of. If I told you my count, you’d legit think something is wrong with me. I’m much happier and more at peace today. Having a healthy monogamous relationship works much better for me.

Having an absolute sexual freak might aggravate some of my insecurities, but I still do like good daily sex. Bondage here and there. Still like it rough.

[MAC1983]

You are not a nymphomaniac for wanting to have sex everyday.

You are a nymphomaniac when you use sex in an obsessive and compulsive manner, that takes all the joy, excitement and, dare I say magic, of the different ways of having all kinds of sex, and being able to be happy in one, or many, relationships...

Let me make a analogy:
You are NOT an alcoholic if you party hard 2 weekends a month.

You ARE an alcoholic if the first and last thing you do everyday is ingest alcohol.

You are confusing someone who wants to have regular sex with Fassbinder's character in "Shame".
(note, the movie is not family-friendly! And it is kind of depressing, so only watch it when you are in a good place!)

[MAC1983]

Great film though! All the actors in it are great!

[anon1903]

Gonna watch it soon, def! Thanks

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes. I wouldn’t mind sex on a daily basis. Nymphos want it like four or five times a day. Haven’t felt that way since college when I had nothing better to do than diddle my clit all day (or let someone else diddle it if I felt so inclined 😊).

[JessicaVon]

Don't normal people fuck/masterbate daily?

[pierre7i]

You're right @JessicaVon - a true nymphomaniac wants to (needs to really) all the time !

[JessicaVon]

Now that I think about it I didn't know there was a difference between nymph and addiction. Can someone clarify that for me?

[anon1903]

Nymph complex is more of a kink and need, addiction is something you can't stop and therefore unhealthy. The line's thin but it exists

[anon1903]

Nymph is controlled perversion, addiction needs to be treates

[pierre7i]

Not sure I'm totally right @JessicaVon but normally "nymphomaniac' is more a term for female sex 'addicts', whereas 'addict' tends to refer to men

[anon1903]

That's might be true in social context

[pierre7i]

Think I might be an addict 🙂🙃😶

[JessicaVon]

I think I'm going to go with what anon said then and say I'm an addict? I fuck/masterbate at least 5 times a day. I wasn't counting but I'm pretty sure my most was 20 times. Is this something that's actually treatable?

[JessicaVon]

Today I've been masterbating for over 14hours. It's just my way of life and I like it. Even if there was a "cure" for it, I'm not sure i would look into it.

[anon1903]

Of coarse, Jessica

[JessicaVon]

So what is normal?

[pierre7i]

That's a lot @JessicaVon ! And surely that's what would normally be described as 'nymphomaniac' .. but it is a blurred distinction so 'addict' may well be an appropriate term too ?

[anon1903]

I think you're doing it excessively, Jessica

[JessicaVon]

Oh, I know I am, but I'm not hurting anyone, and I don't let it control me, you know like responsibilities come first.

[pierre7i]

That's a good point @JessicaVon - if you really enjoy having a high sex drive then why would you want to be 'cured' at this point in your life?

[anon1903]

That's all right.

[JessicaVon]

The only problem I can forsee is when I decide I finally want to get married. I don't think there's many guys that can keep up with me/mind me fucking other guys and girls all the time. I'll figure that out when I get to it.

[pierre7i]

Till the, enjoy your sexuality the way you are now @JessicaVon PS an following you, can you follow me back?

[pierre7i]

*am...

[pierre7i]

*Till then...

[JessicaVon]

@pierre7i of course

[heymynameisMatt]

Actually I've pondered asking on here how I would find myself another person like me. I'm sad every day because I wanna have sex at least 3 times.

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

Should ask my husband this question as he married one lol

[minuteman12]

@ashleytaylordanny Are you a nympho?

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

@minuteman12 you caught on quick lol

[minuteman12]

@ashleytaylordanny I’m glad I did.

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

@minuteman12 have you read our story? Look through my posts you'll find a link to it

[minuteman12]

@ashleytaylordanny I couldn’t find it. Can you message me the link?

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

@minuteman12 https://www.literotica.com/s/the-soul-trinity

[Lliam]

I lived with one woman for over a year. We had sex a couple times a day on work days and sometimes for hours at a time on days off. She was always ready, even for a quickie. She was highly orgasmic, too. At some point, I found her dildo and discovered that she found time to masturbate when we weren't having sex. That just increased my admiration for her. Her entire body was erogenous, she was uninhibited, could orgasm from tittie play, and was adept at bringing me to ecstasy.
She was a truly good person and was totally monogamous with me. That time with her was a highlight of my life.
She passed away from a sudden medical problem a few years ago. But I will always love her from the bottom of my heart and will never forget her.
So, to answer the question. Hell yes I'd date a nymphomaniac.

[OlderAndWiser]

A person who likes to have sex on a daily basis is not necessarily a nymphomaniac. In fact, most people who want to have sex every day are not nymphomaniacs. Google "nymphomania" and learn more about that diagnosis.

[OlderAndWiser]

Response to update:. Did you Google the term?

[Tyrael]

Sure. As long as they're faithful I don't see an issue.

[ushagomez]

Every day is just normal.

[Warmapplecrumble]

I agree

[aieeazumui]

@Warmapplecrumble are you all serious?

[Warmapplecrumble]

@aieeazumui I actually want it multiple times in a day.

[aieeazumui]

@Warmapplecrumble 🤫🤔🙄😲🤨 multiple times a day! That would be physically taxing for one man to do it... isn't it?

[ushagomez]

@aieeazumui Well me and my guy enjoy when we wake and before we sleep every day. No problems with that for us.

[aieeazumui]

You mean twice a day on a daily basis? 😲😲😲😲😲🧐 What about his erection and sperm quality?

[ushagomez]

@aieeazumui Always good.

[aieeazumui]

His semen would be quite thin watery and he'd have painful penis this way

[Warmapplecrumble]

@aieeazumui it's good, he doesn't ejaculate always

[iseekpinetrees]

a lot of people think they want this until they've had it. Then they tell u to stop. Or lose interest.

[ohshee]

For me i love that and yes i would but i never new if you did it every day thsts what you were called well it's cool yes I would date her in a heart beat I love making the person im with feel like she's never felt before so yes I welcome that is this you by chance I think it's so cool if so

[Lite3000]

It's when you are so horny you need to do it multiple times a day, and masturbate multiple times a day if you aren't having sex.

[Apple1996]

Nypmhos are a little more crazy then sex everyday. I would say everyday is pretty normal if you're not horny everyday something is probably wrong.

[BCA6010]

Isn't a nymphomaniac someone who has a pretty much insatiable sex drive? I doubt we would get along well.

[Kiss_Me]

It would be fun for obvious reasons, but someone that wants sex THAT much is more likely to cheat on you. What happens if either of you have to go out of town, or work late?
I'll pass.

[lokeshdh000]

Neverugh I might have sec with her if I am very excited that particular time. But nymphomaniac is not reliable for dating. But exceptions are always there. We might find a nympho who is more reliable than an average person, but that's not the case usually!

[slatyb]

That's not a nymphomaniac. That's totally normal.

[JessicaVon]

Exactly!

[slatyb]

@JessicaVon I can still do it literally morning and night.

[jshm2]

Not again.

While yes the regular sex is good, it's the other habits that are off putting.

What you seem to forget is that the "compulsion" for sex also means other habits are heightened too.

[GingerGuy]

I'd love sex daily so sure. If fact, where are they all? lol

[Kaneki05]

I don't think so. Been with someone who literally hurts when they cannot have sex is a bit concerning especially when i know i don't want to have sex all day everyday.
Then they would probably just cheat.
wouldn't be helpful. And from the answers i can tell not many people here know what a nympho is... which is where it actually hurts not to have sex. Not your just having sex for fun... Nvm it makes them super impulsive and reckless with there actions so your chances of getting a std from them due to them sleeping around with others is very likely. And they cannot say no to sex so if anyone asks them or gets into it with them it's a done deal. It's just kinda the disorder that means you must cheat but it's not really cheating since it's not there fault. But eh to complicated for me.

[Lite3000]

Physical pain? I have talked with a nympho and she didn't complain about pain. Sex is fun to nymphos. To quote a real nymphomaniac, "I like sex!" And they have brains just like anyone else, they can say no to sex with people they don't like. If it's with their partner, they probably wanted to have sex with them anyway.

[Kaneki05]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypersexuality

[Kaneki05]

patient.info/.../sex-addiction-including-hypersexuality It's more of emotional pain my bad for saying psychical but i have know someone who had a problem with it which had bpd and she said the pain felt physical which i am sure it does when it mentally hurts really bad.

[Kaneki05]

because it causes trauma to not have sex as weird as it sounds.

[Finchie40]

As long as she is faithful and loyal to me then hell yes lol

[Finchie40]

She loves to have sex a lot , wants it every day sometimes more than once a day that’s a nympho , and again I wouldn’t be complaining as long as she was faithful to me and not going out screwing other guys

[Avicenna]

Sex daily doesn’t make someone a nympho, but I have had a fling with a nympho. Was fun.

[Abby_Winters]

Yeah i think that i could date someone who was like that

[Agape93]

Yeap