It's something you should be proud of. You're a virgin because of your core beliefs, and whether those beliefs are religious or not, dedication to deeply held beliefs in a society that demands you shape your beliefs to suit them is rare.
Dedication to your beliefs in the face of a society that ridicules Christians in general and tries to humiliate anyone who left their teen years as virgins is a powerful trait that will take you far in life.
Don't go out and throw that away over pressure from pop culture, strangers on the internet, and the people around you. If you disregard one aspect of your core values it will start a downward spiral from which you may never recover.
Sleeping around isn't cool. Stay strong. Wait for the right person. I'm not saying g they have to b ur soulmate or husband/wife or w. e. Just make sure its with someone u know and trust and who makes u feel safe. Having a bad first sexual experience can set the tone for your entire future sex life. Trust me.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You can have conversations about it and tell him what you want, but if a guy isn't naturally dominant, then, at best, he's going to have to fake it, and most non-dominant guys can't fake it well. Others won't even be able to fake it badly - they just don't have any dominance in them, and if that's your guy, you're just going to have to accept him as he is.
Dominance (or submissiveness, or any kink/BDSM-related "orientation") is not something most people can change - they are who they are and they'll always be that way - so, if that's something that's important to you, then you need to seek it up-front, when you're single. You can't expect a non-dominant guy to become dominant, anymore than he could expect a 5'9" tall girl to become a petite 5'1" girl.
He sounds like a good guy otherwise, so talk to him. Maybe he's just lacking in confidence, or is afraid to let his dominance loose, and you can help give him that confidence. But you need to also be prepared to accept that he's just not a dominant guy, and maybe he'll never be...
What. why would anyone hate you for being a virgin? You do you. Have it when you are ready.
Nope it’s a persons options to what they want.
it’s about individual choice.
what I do sort of hate is when things like religion prevent girls simply living life.
would be nice if Bible etc had a paragraph in about guys not having sex and remaining pure. It does seem that religious guys have no problem fucking around but for girls...
so yeah simply not a problem what an individual decides.
No reason to like or dislike that. It is a choice that each of us makes.
Figure that out on your own time scale there is no rule that everyone has to have sex by a certain time. And I totally respect your decision to wait for an appropriate match because it's a wise decision. One I wish I made when I was younger. Because I had sex young at 15 and ended up in a toxic relationship that took a long time to completely get over. And that kind of emotional trauma is not something young adults need to go through
Also remember that the internet allows the loudest people to be heard more than others. So when we see people being hoes and manwhores on the internet we're really only seeing the worst examples because the loudest most toxic people get more screen time than the average more rational folks.
I wish you good luck and I hope the right match comes along soon to give you the opportunity to have that first time in an environment you feel comfortable in.
No I would not hate you at all
No one should be hated because they are a virgin and if you want to wait that is your decision. They can either respect that or kick rocks.
I, myself would prefer someone that isn't a virgin because I like someone with a little experience and knows what they like. I would still have sex with a virgin and explore her likes and dislikes but prefer someone experienced.
You should lose your virginity when you are ready despite how society views it or religious beliefs. I am not religious so that has no play in my life or decision making.
Nah.
Hate? I wouldn't hate anyone purely because of their sexual preference.
I would not hate you. But I may attempt to talk you into activities that do not involve losing one's virginity but are physically enjoyable and may result in orgasms.
Seems like people in the US treat sex as an accomplishment of some sort... and they treat virginity like a burden.
Trust me no one would find it remotely weird that you're still a virgin if you visit non western countries. They might actually think the opposite especially if you wilfully withheld sex for moral reasons.
I thought it came from not having sex.
Nope. Be proud you are. Those who hate you is considered envy. Is your decision to whom you will spread them. If a guy gets mad simple wasn't meant for you. If a guy goes by your personality and doesn't care about sex, cool.
Is there men out there with that mentality. I want to say "ish". You have to really get to know him how he was raised and values.
I personally I am a sex machine 🤣. Nope, I'll pass. Do i hate? Nope, for me i am more like a 4-6 month dating, after that, booty action 🤣. I remember a female at my day job asked me. When you date must have sex? I told her not really but if gets to extend time and both have feelings. She wouldn't give it up between 4-6 months. I am done. She laugh 😂. Later she wanted 😂. No date it was just for fun. 🤷♂️.
No. Why would I hate you for not getting laid?
Are you willing to walk the bases in good time to keep a relationship going?
I wouldn't care
There is nothing wrong with it. I would rather have a virgin girlfriend than one wih a big body count any day.
You will find a guy you like and you will get to know each other and it will just happen the way it is supposed to happen for you.
Would you hate me if I told you that I don't give a fuck?
No not at all
cool. I don't hate you either.
I don't see a reason to hate you for it. Its your own choice.
The coolest ones do NOT sleep around.
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