Would you have sex with someone you didn't trust?

Would you have sex with someone you didnt trust?
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For myself, I never could. I don't view sex as taking something from the other person. Not even pleasure. I see it as a mutual giving of yourself to each other, and I couldn't give myself to someone I didn't trust 100%
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  • No. I would have anything to do with anyone I didn't trust. I either ignore people I don't trust or I'm very superficial with them.

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    • My pleasure

  • NEVER... Nooooooo wayyyy 🙅 Not happening!!! Thanks for the invite 💖

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  • So... Take a person I didn't trust and give them access to some of my most sensitive and vulnerable body parts? Then open myself to blackmail? And the risk of unwanted pregnancy?

    It'd be faster to just chew on a grenade.

  • Don't trust to do what?

  • I did once, no never again!! Didn't start without trust, but once it got to the point the trust was gone... Killed the good sex feeling... How can you testing be your sexual self with someone you can't trust... Answer for me: I can't so it killed what could've stayed a good thing

  • I wanna say no, but i stopped trusting that first ex and we still did shit for a while. So i prefer not to but ig long as we’re inna longterm relationship with at least love then ig so

  • If I was single I would. I'd let any woman suck my dick and I would gladly fuck the ever loving shit out of a hot babe who wanted to get her rocks off, as long as I could be assured that she didn't have an STD. But I wouldn't consider them for a relationship.

  • Of course no.

  • I’ve trusted everyone I’ve had sex with at least in some sense. I might not have known all of them for super long, but I’ve trusted that they will listen to me and change what was happening if I asked them to, and not do things I was uncomfortable with. I’ve been with a guy who was vastly stronger than me (I’m a petite little wimp) and who had some rougher preferences in sex than I did at the time (choking, that kind of thing) but I felt comfortable and never felt unsafe because I knew that if I said I didn’t like something, I could trust him to stop immediately. I was acutely aware that if he wanted to he could hold me down and I would not be able to budge, but I trusted him enough to know he wouldn’t.

  • Nope

  • Never. I can't even fathom it.

    • Me neither

  • Not for me, I'm not looking for a one night stand but a serious life partner and by that point I trust her

  • Trust is fine, but I am not gping to do an FBI background check.

  • I totally agree

  • Well yeah... It sex! I mean I ain't going to open a joint bank account with her...

  • lolololol uh, yeah?

  • There's variations of trust. What type of trust are you talking about? Trust them not to physically hurt you? Trust them not to lie about STDs etc? I mean the answers will vary depending on your definition here.

    • True. So what are your limits then? How would it work in your case?

    • Well in my case not being into casual sex I'd née dto truts that he's a steady kind of guy in all aspects. But someone that may only want something casual doesn't need to truts that he doesn't cheat etc.

    • Yeah, I'm not into casual sex either. And it's true that you wouldn't need to trust someone not to cheat if you're only having sex with them casually. But I suspected everyone who looks for a high level of trust in a sex partner would also be the same people who don't have casual sex

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  • Never

    In the past once or twice. But never again.

    • So hear yah there!!!

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    • Same. Did it once

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  • No, I wouldn't. But I once built a false sense of trust from familiarity rather than genuinely learning someone. A mistake I won't make again.

  • No, not possible, trust is a huge thing for me. I need to know the person and have a foundation

  • Sure. I'd wrap it up for sure

  • Yea if i needed to

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