Would you let someone take pictures/ videos?

Would you or have you taken pictures or videos while having sex?
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  • We do this some times for fun. But we both know that they would be deleted if we split up and they are only for us and won't be shared without both agreeing. It requires trusting him, but I wouldn't be in his bed if I didn't already.

    So far, nothing has been shared or found by others to my knowledge that I didn't approve of. We let some friends see some of the tamer "boudoir" poses once after the topic came up and we both agreed on the specific pictures they could see.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Wayyyyy too risky! Especially in this day and age.


    If things go wrong or bad between you two, you have a fight or disagreement.


    They may show or share with their friends, and who knows if they will then share as well.


    Once that pic or video is out there you can never get rid of it. Who knows who will see it. Family, relatives, perspective employers etc.


    It is never worth the risk!

    • Also illegal to share it.

    • It’s never stopped anyone though!

    • Also dangerous to keep loaded guns in the house or drink and drive and yet people do it all the time.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I wanted to have my wife's best friend video us fucking, and for some reason, lost my nerve. The wife showed her girlfriend, plaster of paris molds of my penis that she made, a month before and the girlfriend seemed to like that. I had my chance then to ask her, but later thought my wife would not have the nerve to do it even though she did not mind me taking pictures of her pussy/breasts et cetera.

  • Absolutely. I see no issue in it. And it would be great to jerk off to that rather than porn because it would be to my partner and I'd also know it was me that was in it rather than another dude.

    The only concern is trust and I've had no issue with that with my previous partners. But I have never done it myself sadly.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Absolutely not. That's a hard no

  • NOO NEVER...

  • I've heard too many horror stories about it being used for blackmail. Besides, I don't trust any partner that I have to keep that purely to themselves.

  • My husband has a few vids of me

  • Yeah, a few times. It's a great way to learn and improve things later, plus it's hot.

    And if that person later makes that content public (because they got angry or whatever) it would only look bad for them.

  • NO! NEVER!

  • No, absolutely not.

  • I've done videos with my ex wife, but I wouldn't allow it unless in a serious relationship.

  • No way.

  • Yes I let someone take pics and videos and I've done the same for them

  • I encourage every guy I hookup with to take all the pictures and videos he wants. It’s so hot feeling like I’m their personal porn star

    • Chances are that those pictures and videos are all over the place now. But it sounds like that appeals to you. Since that is okay with you, I applaud your doing so.

    • They are and it REALLY turns me on

  • Yes, I've done pics and videos

  • No thanks private things should stay private

  • I have a couple videos and pictures if me masturbating, but none of having sex.

  • Yes but at least for a while it would be mandatory that my face is censored

    But dude if you wanted to film or take pictures and f****** post it on p****** I'd get down with that

  • Yes and I have quite a few times

  • Nah that's not my cup of tea

  • Never, I would not want it to get out into the wild.

  • Not unless my face was hidden. I've made one of PIV only.

  • I would love to make a sex tape with my husband. I know a lot of people are against it, and actually a lot of Arab husbands are too (with the risk that it would get leaked and somebody else could see their girl get down and dirty). But ultimately I'd love to do it.

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