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Would you start dating a girl who had premarital sex but wanted all future boyfriends to wait until marriage?

I’ve seen a couple girls who say they had premarital sex and later decided waiting until marriage is a better approach. So now they don’t want to have sex again until they’re married. But it seems like waiting for marriage with one person loses a lot of its significance if you already lost your virginity to another person. And generally guys who want to wait for marriage want to marry virgins. If I were a guy and a girl like that wanted to be with me, I would be thinking “Why should I have to wait when those other guys didn’t?”
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The rule is save your virginity for someone that matters, which is essentially saying save it for someone who you know you will marry. The only difference between this and saving it for marriage is when you do it with that person.

    Personally, I don’t think saving it for marriage is such a good idea, but save it for someone who you truly value and get along well with before you become intimate.

    And you’re completely right, it’s ridiculous to expect any future partners to wait for marriage if you’re not a virgin.

  • Just an observation: first two (even few) marriages doesn't last beyond 5 years.

    So what's the point of waiting?

    In fact it leads to more heartache, perhaps kids to the broken home, and a baggage of legal settlement. Realistically speaking what for?

    Not that I want to be pessimistic, but its the truth about marriages since, I think, Y2k. 😪

Most Helpful Girls

  • People change and grow throughout life. People that can't accept that will struggle to maintain any real relationships.

    • Are you Yoda level yet?

    • @Oric50 haha what?

  • No, I generally make it a point not to date crazy people.

    • Generally? What is an example of an exceptional level of crazy?

    • @Oric50 I mean… if they are really hot.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Nice to see you back online.

    NFW I'm waiting. I wouldn't even date a virgin that wanted to wait.

    Giving up your V card: Avoiding a lifetime of misery ↗

  • Sure, it'd be a novel experience, and gauging from what's stated, she isn't one to stick to her convictions, so waiting until marriage might be waiting until you take her somewhere real fancy, like applebees, for lunch, with a motel real close. Because that kind of crazy is the kind I don't want knowing where I live.

  • Probably not. I'm going to choose what I do with my body. Not up for discussion.

  • No I gotta have some ass premarital.

  • Lol if he was my boyfriend he wouldn't be waiting cuz like that would mean I'd be waiting:-(

  • No, I'd be too busy laughing at the hypocrisy of it all.

  • Not me. I would be thinking "Wow, she's got some religous hangup about sex. Or just has a low sex drive. I don't see this working."

  • Your sex life with a spouse will be a major part of your overall life together. It makes zero sense to me that we check all these boxes to make sure we are personally compatible with someone before marrying them, but leave this entire section blank?

    I can't imagine marrying someone without knowing them equally as well sexually, and also living with them to make sure you aren't marrying someone you can't live with.

  • I respect her decision but id not date her

  • I would want her back story. Did she hook up until the day before she met me did she or do stupid things at 16?

  • I agree with you. But it is some than that for me. If i can not open up and be allowed to express my love to a woman sexually and she doesn't express to me sexually then will not be a good marriage at all. Just my position.

  • HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

  • HAHHA it doesn't work like that. premarital sex means virgins until marriage. Its like smashing a car into a wall and saying I dont wana scratch the paint now. nowadays if a girl doesn't get a good D.. She'll go and find it somewhere else while you as a man are falling the rules.

  • Generally, guys who's into waiting till marriage might be less interested to date a woman
    like the ones you mentioned.

    But sometimes their character might attract those guys.

  • Does she suck cock?

  • If I get along with her yes.

  • Probably not

  • No.. not for marriage

  • Yea I would

  • To much baggage already

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