Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Would you want oral the first time you have sex with someone?
DizzyDesii Editor
Asking for a friend... I feel like im a little biased in my answer. Like first time i had sex, oral didn't even happen with him. He asked but i was too nervous and didn't allow it. I considered it 3 months later bt backed out last minute because I was hurt he had already did that with my best friend when we broke up for like a month. As for my second partner, we 69’d long before we gave in to sex. I honestly think that made me a bit more nervous though 😂 I dont mind giving but receiving just gives me butterflies. For my third (and hopefully final partner), I honestly think I’d prefer to receive sometime after we have sex (but not the first time when we have sex). However, i’m still down to give oral some months before we have sex. I know i’m confusing 😂🙈 This is why i told the person not to ask me for advice on this question cause i’m all confused and biased #FeelFreeToList #DirtyDesii
I want oral long before the day we have sex
Vote A
I want oral the same day we have sex for the first time
Vote B
I had oral the same day we had sex for the first time and i liked it
Vote C
I had oral the same day we had sex for the first time but i did not like it
Vote D
I dont want oral at all
Vote E
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Dammit i forgot to choose mho last night 🤦♀️
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 77Oral is suck her breasts and eat her pussy until she cum... That's it right...
It's part of foreplay... And make her ready and comfortable for penetration I feel
Oral is mouth on privates but yea
Woman like nipple play very much
Yea i do
I’m confused with A. How can you have oral without having sex?
Oral is a different form of sex. Im asking would u want to go down on eachother the first time you have penetrative sex
Ya, I suppose that could be considered different than having sex. Well than, I guess I’m good with it coming before marriage if she wants and she looks insanely promising as a future wife. I would definitely want it throughout my marriage in addition to whatever else.
Oral: not at all for me.
I understand
Except for two or three maybe, all of my sexual relationships started with either oral or manual.
Ohh i see
Oral isn't a 'must' on the first time.
I AGREE
I will do oral only if I am in love
I agree
It depends on the person, I’ll receive and give maybe the first time
Okayy
Before if possible
Like same day or way before?
Way before if possible. Like gradually work up
I don't know what to vote... i'm not big on the idea of oral for me... but i'd give it before sex and on the first time... but i don't really want it for me... maybe my mind can be changed
I mean its not all rhat. Neither is sex. Yea its good but not as hard to go without it as people make it
intresting... people do seeem to think its better than sliced bread
Yeah it's good to know sexual experiences all around, to test the waters in a way
Maybe so
Definitely. 😛
Lol ok
Receive no perform yes
Ahh ok
nice going down on each other and pleasing their desires
I won't have sex until 3 months in. Everything but me inserting my penis in her below the waist is fair game though.
I won't have sex until sometime after 6 months in but im ok practicing oral by like month 3
3 months is how long she has to wait, unless she's a virgin, then it is 6. I will wait until she's ready after that time, but no more than 2 years.
Hell yeah I'd definitely want it
Lmao
For me, oral is foreplay to sex. I want to give her oral and get her really ready for what comes after. As for receiving I think it would be the same, as foreplay. I can wait for sex until we have dated a few times it doesn't have to be on the first date. But when we do decide that it is time then I am going down on her for sure...
LOL Ok
I would want mutual Oral that way I could tastes as she cums inside me multiple times
I personally want my lover to cum inside my mouth multiple times. So I can taste how sweet she is inside as I look into her eyes and swallow.
The Eyes Are A Window Into Your Soul. I want to see her eyes as she cums inside my mouth
oral is great but i am someone that has to reciprocate the pleasure to the other person
Yea but for this question would you want to have first time sex the same day you first have oral
yes and i would devour her pussy at the same time.
Damn
is that bad?
No its hot
ok, i am really bad at it as i have not had much time to figure out how best to eat a womans pussy... truth is that i just love eating pussy
Long before
I agree
Alright
I just want oral every day, both given and recieved lol
Lol i bet