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Average guys should not get with girls that had bigger?
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this is about penis size average sized(or smaller) guys should not date or get with girls that had bigger if you drove a Ferrari would you ever want to go back to the Honda civic? NO in that scenario the girl would probably cheat so the guy should just not date her to begin with agree / disagree ?
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21 22exactly what is considered big and what is considered small. Some women are not concerned with length but prefer good girth. i am 7.7 inches but have great girth according to my deceased wife. She said there was nothing pleasant about having your cervix beat up all the time and many women she say they prefer girth.
i personally don't think size matters its not about the size its about how well he works it . I've only been with 4 guys but I've had smaller and bigger and one of the smaller does much better the the bigger guy so it all depends how he works it
Oh wow this is dumb lol
1st how is the guy meant to know if she has had bigger
2nd sometimes it can just be about the size of him but that's only when there is no emotional connection which would be hardly ever cause why would you date someone for know reason but I would never cheat because of the size that's crazy talk
So totally disagree
By asking obviously
Yeah this internet stuff is crazy toxic and imature.
Based on the time it takes for the vagina to widen. Girls who have had bigger widen their vaginas faster and. It's a defense mechanism I guess, to make sex easier. Hence: "loose vagina"
Exactly were is the spot may i ask you females?
There are WAY to many variables to this, to even begin to get an accurate answer. Vaginas are not all the same size either. No way to know beforehand. Being with them on a regular basis, such as married. You can tell after the fact. If she's banging someone larger behind your back though. Beyond popular belief, the ol’ “It goes back to size” is not completely true. The walls dont. The opening does. So another variable. How often with someone larger and how much larger. A 4” dude to a woman thats been sleeping with a 9” dude for a while, is different than if she had once or twice. Cheating as some ladies have stated is rarely because of size. Its because of not enough attention, people pleasing issues, trauma which causes the to sleep with people to feel loved, etc. The do not think like most guys. The absolute biggest problem is these days both genders (generally speaking, not all) think its fine to sleep with whomever whenever they want. Being single, it is. Except after about 5 partners, sex starts becoming exactly that. Just sex. Detached from emotion. Then when you are ready for something serious, that very important part is missing. Destined to fail. If a male or females partner in a serious committed relationship is only ever “ F. Me” and never “making love” get out now. They are emotionally immature and WILL cheat on you. Plus your emotional needs won't be met. Both sides stop being hoing around because its a socially acceptable addiction and everyone involved will be fine.
This is SOOOOO true. It's why you don't date sluts. Can you imagine being in bed thinking you're punishing her and the whole time she's laughing inside and thinking about her ex with 9 inches pounding her.
Good ever finding that girl
It's funny how the OP stated a completely logical statement, and then all the female respondents went and stated exactly what he was trying to avoid (the relationship response, the "motion in the ocean" response, etc.). The poster was simply and specifically stating—for example, hypothetically—if you were marrying a man, and you had the option to choose between him having a larger penis (7.5"-8") vs. a smaller-average penis (4.5"-5"), and NOTHING else about him changed (same skills and effort in bed, same personality, etc., etc.), would you REALLY say it didn't matter and that you wouldn't care about the last penis for the rest of your life being small/average when it could be large? Or, would you choose the larger penis?
A true story... i know of a guy who was very well endowed and plus he was a ladies man and when he had sex with females he would have them crying for him to stop. Anyway, once it was known throughout our community that he haved sex with a certain female, all of the other guys would avoid that female just because he has torn them up. Most guys don't want to lay up with a woman knowing that a bigger guy have been there before him. He could do something that they will not be able to do to her. I personally have ran from females that have had sex with guys that are hung like a horse. I can't compete with them, so i walk away from those type females, No matter how much she may like me.
so you want to know d size I'm size zero
huh? where is the logic here? penis size is one of the last things I look at for a guy I want to have a relationship with.
but talking about I guess I've only been with bigger? um I have to say that I don't care about how big he is, it's how he thinks and his personality, his attitude and manners.
it really is how he works it.
The last two guys I was with were 8" & about 5.5". The smaller guy was king of the castle, pants down!
In my experience you shouldn't date a girl who's dated black guys for that exact reason lol
Been with both and its not the size its how they use it size is not what makes a man good in BED!
Yeah but most women still slut around and sleep with guys like that
@random_hero a lot of guys sleep around too tho, and sleep with big breasted girls like Lisa Ann
If d***s are like cars then my d*** is like the rolls royce, not too big, not too small, but just a little bit under 7 inch with decent girth and a nice big head which looks like it has been sculpted by Micheal Angelo himself.
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link I suggest you also look at page 1 of that article.
You can't tell if she's had bigger unless she confides in you, which she won't.
word spreads fast
where, at college? people go around telling everyone how big their d*ck is? only idiots do that.
girls tend to gossip about whos big and who they slept with
I don't know how she can tell that he's big unless she has slept with multiple people. In that case, average is still awesome.
You are correct. Women really aren't honest :)
Men tend to tell their friends which sluts they've been with.
So my point is, word does get around. Sluts are often easily identified especially on a college campus.
I was talking about gossip about penis size, not gossip about who has been labeled a "slut" and who has not. Sheltered white boys are quick to label any girl who they have been told has slept with another boy as a slut, even if that is the only boy she has ever slept with. This is why fooling around with anyone at your college is a bad idea. There are no secrets.
Girls don’t want to hurt the guys feelings, so they sometimes lie, no harm really. Just get a bigger dildo to enjoy together as a couple and all is well