Best position for first time sex?

My boyfriend and I are close to having sex for the first time and I am terrified of it hurting. I want to do it, and I really want him to be the first guy (and possibly the last) that I do it with. But yeah, i have a really low pain threshold so...
which position should we use? (he has already done it once in the past with another girl).

And also, if you have other tips, please name them! I'd be very grateful.

missionary - but you control him and give him "orders".
Vote A
girl on top - so you can lower yourself on him at your pace.
Vote B
from the back - why?
Vote C
other - please comment!
Vote D
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  • It's not so much the position, it's how turned on you are at the beginning, as well, as using synthetic lube too...

    But honestly "planning sex", isn't romantic at all. It's creepy in fact

    I'm not saying "rape" is any better, but, planned sex, isn't cool. That's why this question sounds forced, and creepy

    • ? It's not planned, I'm just saying that we are close to doing it and asking for tips. sheesh. planned would be "we are doing it tomorrow at 10pm". And honestly, for a first time, I'd rather be ready and not taken by surprise and regret it afterwards.

    • It sounds planned, like I said

  • Leapfrogging 😂😂😂😂

  • With you on top setting the pace, but if you do missionary grab hold of his balls and if he goes too rough give them a squeeze

  • My first time was me on top while I lowered my self onto him.