Big boobs vs small boobs & big butt vs small butt?

Why do girls always see things in a black and white view? Questions are always "Big boobs or small boobs?" "Big butt or small butt?" "unhealthy skinny or healthy chubby?" Why is it such a black and white view...like there's no middle...?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Dont let this mainstream sh*t get in your head. There is no universal standard for looks, ethics or anything else. I know that I am atracted to cute blondies with skinny body, medium boobs, flat stomach and a normal ass but that's my fantasy of perfection. What I find perfect is exact opposite of what someone else, even my friends find wrong. We all have different or similar taste but in the end whatever the flavor, the fact that we have them makes us feel human, not cloned biomechanical robots.

    Some people are so poor that all they have is money.

  • Why doesn't people put more focus on the face?

    You could have the best and perfect D cups and a "JLO" booty, but if you don't have an attractive face, there is no way in hell I would talk you.

    All that "Which would you prefer, Cute but chubby OR Ugly and skinny?" Why can't it be this?

    "Which would you prefer, Cute Face on a chubby body OR a Cute Face on Skinny body?"

    That is fair, but people who disagree obviously have low self esteem and their insecurities are messing with the part of their brain that handles logic and reasoning.

    • Because they're so insecure they choose not to assume it's their face that's keeping them single so it must be their t*ts or ass

    • Oh , without a doubt, Of course guys determine a girls bust size/Waist & butt measurements as a deal breaker.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think it's a girls' thing, more of a people's thing, in general.

    To me it's my boobs and everybody else's boobs >_>

  • I wish girls would focus on what other qualities they can offer. lol

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  • It think it's because that's how they see things with guys. They have their "preferences". So they assume most of us see it that way. They aren't completely wrong, the ones who have this black and white view, there are a bunch a dudes who do see it this way but not nearly as many as they think.

  • Does insecure ring a bell?

  • I feel the same. People in real life hardly have the preferences they state online. And why have a preference against a certain type of body part? Seems kind of silly.

  • There is a muddl...gray.small boobs big butt big boobs small butt..usually girls get one or the other its rarely both I consider that the middle

  • Most of them are not black va white. They are loaded questions. They are light grey vs black. Or dark grey vs white.

    I.e. a petite girl without much curve asks if you prefer her or a 250 lb girl.

    The 10 lb overweight girl asks if you prefer that, or a fur covered anorexic.

    • this is indeed a good point

    • very well put

  • I prefer big boobs, but yeah I totally would prefer a middle ground with butt... It's hard to say, but when you see something you like, you know. Definitely not something massive like a Kim Kardashian booty tho... lol

    I think there are actually a lot of guys that prefer something in-between, not just both extremes, however there are still plenty that do.

    • I think the problem with it, is these girls often think extremes. Like with big boobs, they're thinking F cups or with big asses they're thinking Nicki Minaj

    • It could be... they definitely don't have to be THAT big, but I mean, Kim K and Nicki Minaj have certainly set a new standard on what a big butt is, for example, being popular figures in the media, so who knows?

    • Wait so you like big boobs but you find a big butt unattractive? Aren't they both equally good? I mean when they are both the same amount bigger than average. Get what I'm saying?

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  • How else do you wan to describe it?

  • ...inbetween in both, well I prefer a medium to big butt though.

  • The QA is looking for approval. That the other one is "wrong" and she's the definition of beautiful

  • because people just want a scale of good to bad and if you can define the ends they can piece together the rest, like a left is on right is off kinda deal.

    • i also assume most people assume things to work on a linear function like one apple weights a pound and ten apples weights ten pounds kind of thing

  • cause guys don't recognise bra sizes or pant sizes, all they know is big or small

  • your preaching the the choir sister