BIG! penis... Small woman.. Will I/she be able to handel him sexually?

[Anonymous]

So this guy and I really like each other.. We've started to talk about sex... We're both experienced and that's not what I'm concerned about.. We started off saying that we both agree that we like to have passionate sex often when were in a relationship.. Like nearly every day. He's nearly twice my size which I'm use to (he's 205 lbs 6' tall).. He warned me because I'm on the smaller side that he has a 9" penis.. I'm 5'2" and average at 110 lbs.. When I was younger and less experienced I had a boyfriend with hefty 8" maybe a little bigger and I remember feeling like he was too big and it sometimes hurt.. Now that I'm a few years older and my body is use to having sex and I'm not as ridiculously tight as I use to be.. Will I be able to handle sex with a huge penis? Will I be able to handle it nearly everyday? I'm sort of intimidated.. I'm use to guys who are 6-7.5" can I damage my cirvix?

[Scoopie]

The length of the penis isn't that big of a deal (no pun intended... well, perhaps there was). The penis will simply go as far as it can. The width/circumference or girth is what's important. So the actual size. If the penis is wider than your vagina, it's obviously not going to fit. If it barely fits, it's probably going to hurt. If the penis isn't too wide, then it will go in easily. Trust me, if it's too wide it's going to hurt and there's little you can do about it. If he's just too long, he simply shouldn't thrust it all the way in.

FYI: I really think you should start measuring every penis from now on, because if you're used to 6-7.5" you either have a gift of picking out only guys that are (well) above average, which is 5.1-5.7" (95% CI of 4.23-7.53") or those guys have been lying to you.

Source: link

[Asker]

I work in fasion/ design/ architecture.. Neadless to say I measure things verry often at work and can easly eye ball a size.. I dated one guy who was below average.. It was ywan bad! Guys with big hands/ feet in preportion to a smaller nose usually are bigger down there... It's not always the case but my taste has helped my luck.. maybe to much this time... I'm scared! He has big feet, hands and a small shnoze eeepp

[Scoopie]

'Guys with big hands/ feet in preportion to a smaller nose usually are bigger down there." There's no science behind that whatsoever. Like I said, he can't go deeper than you're vagina allows. Tell him not to thrust in all the way with force, but just as deep as he can get. And if you're scared, then go find a smaller guy.

[Asker]

link

[Scoopie]

Sorry, that's no science. Read the disclaimer, it even explicitly states that most scientist assert there is no relationship between penis size and that of someone's feet, hands or nose. As it also reads: it's for entertainment purposes only. Plus, it only says something the the length, nothing about girth. Give me a link to a published science journal paper instead.

[Anonymous]

only one way to findout ;]

Also, the sizes you state make no sense. Every girl thinks she is having sex with these massive dongs even though less than 1% of the world population measures over that and that most guys are between 5-6 so youd assume that an "experienced" women would be most use to that size as its the most common.

[Asker]

lol no.. out of the nine guys I've been with... 5 of them were more than 7 inches.. It really hurt.. the first 3 guys I slept with were big.. I was not happy about it and walking the next day sucked... Big guys are perverted and like little women.. at least in my case.. when I was 98 lbs in late hs and in college boyfriends were big guys who thought it was "cute" how small I am... BS they just want a girl they can play with and toss around in bed

[Anonymous]

At 8 inches you better find a way to take it. The vagina is stretchy so it will hurt a few times and you will be fine after that. Use lots of lube. I lost my virginity to a guy who was 8 inches. best I've ever had that's one reason why I only date guys 7 and up

[KingsOfleon88]

I can bet anything he told you it was 8 inches since about only 99% of men Lie about their penis, and what you thought was 8 inches was probably just average size. Hate to burst your bubble

[Scoopie]

Cheers to that!

[Opinion Owner]

I measured his penis when it was fully hard. From the top of his penis to the bottom of his shaft (on top not on bottom)

[KingsOfleon88]

How convenient, awesome at pulling out lies...lol

[Opinion Owner]

im sorry to burst your little bubble that men can actually be larger than average (gasp) I know its hard for you to believe since you are obviously below average and your insecurity shows deep by thinking someone is lying. Yes I measured his penis. I told him it was big and I wanted to see how big. He was down for it. Sorry you have to be so insecure in disbelief

[KingsOfleon88]

Once again it's cool you fabricated that little story...lol..when there are experienced women who won't even take 8 inches, and as a virgin you did...and secondly, if penis size is the only thing you think that makes good sex, you're probably not as experienced as you want to make people believe

[Opinion Owner]

Yes as a virgin I took it. wow every vagina is different. Yes I lost my virginity to a guy who is 8 inches (gasp omg omg its not possible) I don't date small guys under 7 so just get over it. if you think I'm lying oh well go bask in your sulk elsewhere. I'm still with the guy who is 8 inches and I refuse to date anything under 7. Bigger d***s feel better and hit more places. Go be insecure elsewhere because I am not the one to deal with it :) bye

[KingsOfleon88]

Saying "I only date guys 7 and up" is the male version of saying "My penis is 8 inches long"...

[Opinion Owner]

I only date guys 7 and up. I don't date guys smaller than that. I have a 5.5 inch POCKET electric razor. Why would I want something that can fit into my pocket?

[Sexydncr]

You go girl ignore him he's being insecure and annoying. I've legit had a guy with an 11" d!ck... I measured... Twice to be sure. He felt so good after I got used to it

[sexyasianboi26]

Your vaginal canal is only 3 inches long and can expand..

Its gonna be painful for you I'm sure, just make sure you use some lube.

[WoIIie]

Well my 13 inch penis was never a problem for smaller girls.

[KingsOfleon88]

Yeah dude, everyone's E-penis is AT LEAST 13 inches and irl, everyones' a Minimum of 8 don't you know

[Asker]

lol verry funny..

[danik23]

you will not have any problems!

[Anonymous]

i highly doubt he is anywhere close to 9 inches

[Opinion Owner]

as for the women I date, I only date women that have ff t*ts or above...

[Anonymous]

It can definitly damage your cervix but isn't it thickness that you should be worried about? if he's long and thin then you can just let him go in what you can take and it would be as if you are having sex with a smaller one.

I am personally 10 inches and tell girls I am 11 inches

[Asker]

I'm really hoping that he is 8" and not 9" and I'de rather girth lol.. not a chode but I hope it isn't thin and long!

[Opinion Owner]

he might even be less

[Asker]

if he turns out to be 7.5" I will literally do a flip.. and some other happy gymnastics lol

[Opinion Owner]

isn't the thickness a worry not the length? what if he's thin and long. he could just not go as far in