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Blow Jobs... I need help.
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Every time I see a question about how to give a blow job, people answer with "go with instinct". I have never given one, but I want to for my best best guy friend. I need step by step. Details. For a first timer. Nothing too kinky and sexual. The first time blow job. Please help me. I have NO idea where to start, is it awkward when you get on your knees?What do I say? Etc.
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36 42You don't necessarily HAVE to get down on your knees to give a blow job. It's just one position from which to do it. Just massage his d*** until it's fully hard and then engulf his d*** in your mouth being careful not to allow your teeth to contact his d***. Start a sucking action on his d*** with lots of tongue action. With your lips concentrate as much friction as possible on the ridge area of the glans of his d***. As you begin to taste pre-com increase the frequency of your in/out actions with your lips on that same ridge area of the glans. Keep going and going a little quicker as you taste more pre-cum and soon you will have a mouth full of sperm. A good touch after that is to swallow it as opposed to spitting it out.
A: take control
B: just suck it, and when he is getting ready to blow, then you suck it and pull it with all your might.
C: after swallowing his cum, take some time to catch your breath, then have him eat you out
The main thing is to keep your teeth to your self. Use your lips and whole mouth. If you can go all the way down, it's perfect. Use your tongue too.
He's an answer I gave to another women on this site. It's kind of step by step. Let me know if it's helpful.
Your Answer
Good question. I like your straightforward attitude.
Start slowly, just the hint of a kiss. Let your hand glide up and down my shaft, like you're gently moving all the sperm up.
Then wetter, longer kisses, strokes up and down. When your reach the head a quick lick, it feel so good. But make me wait. Quicker, harder licks and your hand pressure increases, the tempo is faster. They your full lips glide over the tip, jus the tip and your tongue swirls and swirls. Your hand is pumping, firm quickly.
but make me wait, more swirls of your warm tongue. Then your mouth sucks me in. As much as you can take. Hold me there. Let me sense the beauty of your wet, soft mouth. Your tongue starts up my hard shaft, your hand grabs harder, jerks faster, your tongue is insistent licking up, upward, urging the come out, into you, all for you. Your mouth sucks, up, down again you tightly sucking with your full red lips tight on me now. Harder faster it's building, it's too much to hold harder suck me jerk me. Don't stop.
I explode hot cream into your mouth, all for you.
Swallow? It's wonderful. But at that point, you've me so much that final taste, that compete love and acceptance of my seed isn't necessary. But I want you to suck it all down, all, sucking jerking, swallowing me.
Does that help?
How about you? What do you want when a man goes down on you?
You give him a hint of a kiss where? the head or just on his body? please explain this was very helpfull just confused about that part
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OK. First timer huh? Then just to clear the air... you suck, don't blow. Ha Ha.
First thing is TEETH. You CAN use them but be careful... like a light grazing. When a guy complains about teeth it's more likely a scrape with your back teeth on the head... which can kill the moment... or front teeth dragging along the shaft. Nibbling and lightly nipping though can be nice.
Other than that, nice suction on the down stroke is good. Rolling it around in your mouth with your tongue is nice too. The warm enveloping feeling of a full deep sucking stroke is probably the best feeling in the world though.
Oh and balls. Don't forge them. They like to be invited to the party too since it really is all about them in the end!
Ask him to guide you, ask how he likes it. He won't be offended, quite the opposite. Nothing more satisfying for a guy to know he's turning a sweet innocent thing into a dirty little minx.
Make sure he's about to get fully stiff. Plenty of dry humping and touching his crotch before you get to business. If there's alcohol in his system, he might not get it up fully (been there enough times, so embarrassing)
Start with using your hands. Just one hand on the shaft. Then maybe use two. Just touch his head. Nothing too rough on it though.
Then use your mouth. Use your tongue to touch his head. Learn to deep throat - practise with something by yourself to make sure you have control of your gag-reflex.
use a little lip barm before you start will help incase any chapping. the first time you go down do it slowly, and build up a good speed and rhythem, that suits you and him. antoher good tip is to hold the bottom and move it up and down insinct with your mouth action, this helps make it feel like deep throat (if you didn't wana go that far) also pay a lot of attention to the head, this is most sensitive part, maybe give him a hummer, this is where you humm well mmmm around the top, you can do this normaly bu including it as your going down agen, just moan a little. be carful if you decide to use your teeth because drag too hard and you will most likly hurt him, insted lick up the sides and around the tip. also use some hand action on his bollocs, most guys tend to feel like there getting left out.
I know exactly how you feel lol... but my first time I had no one to tell me... just a guy sayin do it haha... ok well maybe be sitting down on a couch or a bed or something and while making out slowly move your hand down to his pants... he will most likely be hard from the kissing so you won't have to "find" anything... rub it a little and he will get the idea.. if he doesn't go to get his pants off then while still kissing take both hands and go down and work them off yourself... after getting them off rub it a little more... start kissing his neck and slowly go down... kissing his chest stomach and so on... don't stay in one spot. with every kiss move down.. when you get down there just put it in... go up and down and make sure you're mouth is wet... a dry blowjob could be very bad... make sure you never scrape your teeth against his penis.. he may not like that much lol...just keep it wet and moving.. maybe a moan every once in awhile. I hope this helps you some! -JoaHelp
Put the **** in your f***ing mouth blow and hold your breath at the same time there!
Use his and my answer and then you'll be the master!
1. It's already pretty kinky if you think about it.
2. start by unzipping his fly and put his d*** on your mouth.
3. you don't need to say anything; you're already doing enough lol.
4. for techniques just watch porn... that's not a joke I promise.
lol @ the dudes .. f***ing pros lmao
A lot of good advice has already brrn given so I'll just say don't just suck but lick also Run your tongue up and down his shaft or treat the head like an ice cream cone
Simple things to note:
-pay attention to the head
-Don't neglect his testicles
-Figure out what you're going to do when he's about to cum, before hand. also make sure he warns you. Because, While I personally wouldn't know, I doubt it would be pleasant if you're expecting to finish him off on your chest, to have him unexpectedly bust a nut in your mouth.
as for what to say:
-make sure he's enjoying it.(odds are he is)
-ask him what he wants.
-anything relevant at the moment otherwise don't stop sucking, it can be a bit of a buzzkill.
just watch some p*rn. type in fellatio on youporn.com and watch a few. just do what they do. except if its deepthroating, that's trashy. but the romantic ones. it sounds perverted but it wil make you pro.
What you need to to do is start making out, and then slowly go down to his lower stomach and kiss there for a while and lick back up and get up and look him dead and the eyes do the same thing but this time unzip his pants and stuff, and the rest is like sucking on a popcicle.
go gets yourself some nice banana hmmmmmmmmmm and practice :-)
HA YES! DONT FORGET HIS BALLS, PLAY with them but don't queeze them hard :-D
there is not a correct way. most guys wouldn't care how you do it really. the point is that you are doing it. :]
YOUR BEST GUY FRIEND! WTF. lmfaoo
anyways its not a big deal, just don't use your teeth.
Cuz she's an amazing friend
Lol
best guy friend/ are you sure you don't want to save it for boyfriend? I can't help you, I've never done it
Cuz she's an amazing friend
Wow. I wish I had friends as cool as you.
Yeah, those kinda friends are awesome. i agree.