Blow Jobs... I need help.

Every time I see a question about how to give a blow job, people answer with "go with instinct". I have never given one, but I want to for my best best guy friend. I need step by step. Details. For a first timer. Nothing too kinky and sexual. The first time blow job. Please help me. I have NO idea where to start, is it awkward when you get on your knees?What do I say? Etc.
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  • OK YOU TAKE YOUR MOUTH AND YOU PUT IT ON THE PENIS! done...

    • Wait sorry I messed up, what you really do is you take you hand and YANK AS HARD AS YOU CAN until white stuff shoots out, then you PULL LIKE YOUR PULLING ON TUG A WAR! this works wonders! after that you BITE IT AS HARD AS YOU CAN! and then you PUNCH IT 4 TIMES......then your done! sound good enough?? HOW MANY BLOWJOB QUESTIONS ARE ON THIS WEBSITE?!?!? this must be like the 194871 one I've read today.... stick to one..........

    • Your stupid.

    • Stupid answer for a stupid question....... you don't need to know this stuff by asking on here.... ask better questions that can't be googled...

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  • Don't be afraid to ask him what he likes. I guarantee he will tell you. I personally don't like teeth on head of my d***. I also love having my balls sucked and when she pulls on my balls with her teeth holding them in her mouth feels great to me too.

  • you better google it...you will get much more details than required!

  • start with the basics... sucking.

    then when you relax you can have fun with it... and he'll have fun with it too.

    kiss, lick, stop to smile at him and look at his reactions.

    he will be grateful!

    also, my boyfriend really likes it when I initiate it... =]

  • 1- watch some porn videos

    2- be ready a lot of women does not like the taste of cum

    3- let him sit and open their knees a little

    4- like clockwork, move your head up and down

    5- like clockwise, use your toungue for giving him more pleasure

    6- as he starts to moan speed up

    7- after he cum, swallow or spit it.

    after 3rd phase ALWAYS stare to his eyes. Its stupid but a lot of men finds this amusing

  • I don't have any great tips ... get your tongue involved, do some sucking, not just moving your mouth up and down ... treat it like you really want it - enthusiasm goes a long way.

    And let me just say I wish I had female friends like you.

  • put the penis in your mouth and suck

  • 1) put it in your mouth

    2) bob your head back and forth while licking the head

    its a great blowjob by anyone's standards

    what do you say? uhm... like, sexy mouth noises maybe. sounds like it would be a little hard to talk for obvious reasons

  • hahahaah I think its so funny how all the guys are saying SUCK HIS COCK! and all the girls are like wtf? your good friend?

    Im gonna have to say if you do don't use any teeth.

  • Engage the entire package. There are several different parts at work Region A: The testicles. Ever wonder why guys are so protective of the family jewels? It’s because they’re super-sensitive, especially when he’s is sexually aroused.

    Region B: The penis. Most guys understand that an entire shaft cannot fit into a girl’s mouth without choking her. However, neglecting the parts your mouth can’t reach is a huge turn-off for guys. Girls should try moving their hands up and down on the shaft in harmony with the up-and-down movements of their mouth — most guys appreciate the added sensations.

    Region C: The coronal ridge of the penis, or the part where the shaft meets the head. The underside of the penis is highly sensitive in this region, and should be gently kissed or licked during head.

    Region D: The perineum, or the area right behind his balls near the anus, which is home to countless nerve-endings crying out to be touched.

  • Tie your hair, it gets in the way.

    don't feel awkward cuzz he will notice.

    throw him on the bed,then kissing, slide down,get on your knees.

    giving head ant just licking the head, there up and down motion to it

    and your going to drool like crazzy. But have fun with it

  • ummm...

    1. whip out his shlong

    2. put it in our mouth

    3. SUCK IT

    4. In and out, in and out

    5. SWALLOW ALWAYS SWALLOW...nothing p*sses me off more than when my girlfriend spits...if your gonna suck my 1 eyed night stick then you are going to swallow.

  • Okay hunny I'll help you. First of all you want your lips and mouth to be extremely wet. Next up wet the tip of the head. Play with the penis at the beginning get him the horniest he can be. DON'T forget to play with his balls that's key! Now once you have done all that put the whole thing in your mouth and jack it off while you're giving it a blowjob. When he's ready to come deep throat it and SWALLOW. What will really turn him off is if you spit it out. Don't be scared, do it with passion! One more thing HAVE FUN!

  • idk but if you need pratice I'm here for you lol

  • Do not listen to what people say about not doing it to a guy friend. If you trust him and you want to then by all means do it :)

    Make sure you are both relaxed and in the mood for it . Some girls hate the thought of putting a guys d*** inside the mouth along with his balls but others love it . I myself do not mind giving blowjobs to my boyfriend :) It makes him happy ! Anywho It shouldn't be awkward you guys are best friends right ? So just relax , you can do it anywhere (in private I'm hoping though)

    Try kissing him and rubbing your hands down his stomach , slowly get down on your knee's and rub his things , brush your boobs against his d*** , undo his belt/pants and take it slow. You may choose to use a condom or go without and there is also the issue of the guy coming in your mouth and whether to swallow or spit. But that's all up to you . You can caress it gently and kiss it /lick it/suck it etc , you can ask what or how he likes it, let him guide you so you can blow his mind :) remember guys love their d***s in wet warm places so that's an instant advantage their, some men love to touch your hair or push down on your head so you can deepthroat it. I don't recommend you do this on your first time. It would result in your gagging. Don't forget the 2 fellas just below , you can massage them or gently take them into your mouth and swirl your tongue around them.

    I know its not much but best of luck :) make sure you are both in the mood as well :) happy blowing ! :P

  • red light if he's your best best friend guy you don't want to go sexual because there is a high chance

    you could taint your relationship with him you ever see a movie where two friends let sex get involved then it makes things awkward if you want to take it to another level date him but don't give away the best the you have if you have sex with him when you want to dated him what would you have to offer him and if you never wanted to date him don't have sex with him and don't do sexual things with him just keep him on a friend basis level if you have sex with your friends play it safe strap it up

    • Someone who is your friend is the best kind of person to get together with. So many people get married because of a sexual attraction or jsut because they were tired of being single and they don't even know each other and they find out they don't like each other. Plus she sounds like a good friend I wish I had a friend that would do that for me

  • First ask that person wut they like. and from there just experiment while watching there expression which will tell it all. you can also go and watch some porno's to see how the pro's do it.

  • PLAY WITH THE HEAD...THE BACK OF IT ESCPECIALLY ! HE'LL LOVE IT... CIRCLE YOUR TONGUE ON TOP OF IT..

  • ok when giving a guy head NEVER let your teeth touch his you know what. make sure you keep it very very wet especially the head. once in a while put it in deep, you don't really have to though, my man loves it when I use two hands. when I'm doing this I make sure his d*** is soak and wet and I put two hands on it and start two massage it in a motion that you would do when your ringing out a wet wash cloth and I suck the head of the d*** at the end of my hand. you can try this and I gurentee he will think ur a pro.

  • You say to your boyfriend that I wanna taste ur licking penis?

    I hope you didn't mind so he say ya off course then you did it & then it may not feeling any ackward position when you are lying on your knees go on your sex ride while taking your guys penis

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