Boyfriend said he "wouldn't mind" a threesome-- should I be mad?

I said to my boyfriend "I hope you wouldn't want to have a threesome" and he goes "I wouldn't mind it- only if you wanted to". I got really mad and said he wanted to sleep with other people and he said that's not what he wanted and that most guys would say yes to a threesome if their girlfriend wanted it. I'm still really upset. Is it right to be mad at him and hurt that he said that? Or was he just being a typical guy? I feel like he doesn't love me if he would sleep with another girl even if I was the one who suggested it. What do I do? :(
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  • well I can see why you are upset but you did ask him for his opinion and he gave you the truth so you can't really be mad him for telling the honest answer because if he did lie to you then you would be even more mad when you found out he was lying so?

  • Didn't you hear what he said. He only wants it if you want it.

  • Well... I think you have the right to be mad, but I would of left him.

  • Nah.

  • i wouldn't mind I think

  • Damn, you're getting a lot of sh*t from people! Get ready because here's another! Well I think it was you who was in the wrong and you're boyfriend said " Only if you wanted to." So yea, you can be hurt but you shouldn't take it out on him! He was just being honest, very caring of your feelings and yeah he was being a guy! But come on he is...well...a GUY! <3 Just My Thoughts <3

    • Yup ^^ don't you just love guys for being guys ;)

    • Yep! Aren't they just perfect!? lol

  • yes, you should probably get your gun out & put a bullet in his back.