A bj three days ago that you didn't even finish? I'd be going up the wall too. You do realize that a guys sex drive is entirely based on cumming right? That's the ENTIRE point for a guy, so not finishing... his balls probably have been purple for 3 days straight.
And not enough time to have sex? You can't take 20 minutes out of your day? Really? How much time do you expect him to take out of his day to listen to your emotional crap that won't matter in a day or two? You said right in your question that he's really giving and always wants to please you, but you can't return the favor?2 1 2 0I know it's not what you want to hear but I doubt this is fixable. As a guy, there is nothing worse than always being horny and having a girl who isn't. It's not just the lack of sex but the emotional pain of knowing he is not wanted as much as he wants her. That will manifest in serious problems, sooner or later.
As others have said, it;s not your fault nor is it his. It just is what it is.1 0 0 0You're welcome, and fuck you too.
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No person is right or wrong. You're just not sexually compatible.
0 0 0 0Either you need to want sex more (or be willing to do it without resenting him) or he needs to want it less (and do so without resenting you).
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1 7If he's 18-24 like you, he ready, willing, horny all the time...he needs a release like once every other day...just hormones.
0 0 1 0Wow he is a whiny smothering little boy! I can't believe you put up with that! I would think that as a girl, you would get tired of his desperation very quickly and lose interest in him. I don't have any advice on how to work it out.
1 0 0 2You need patience. It's only been 90 days and for sex probably less than 30. Things mellow out, actually.
0 0 0 1A miscommunication you say? What was it? Curios.
the texts that I took as sarcasm he meant sincerely. mostly that type of miscommunication. its because we were talking about this via text when we can't tell tone or mannerisms. the moment I told him that sex still hurt for me, he realized he thought he was being a bit of a jerk and he never saw himself as one to say that kind of stuff (asking for sex or expecting it)
Ah, the problem that was never a problem. Good ending!
It's pretty simple. He's young with extremely strong hormones. It's like telling a lion not to attack an antelope. He's going to do it anyway. He's going to keep hounding you for sex. If the relationship is that important to you, you'll have to find a common ground. Find out the minimum amount of sex he has to have and try to compromise. It works.
0 0 0 0It's easy to see why he'd feel that way. You wonder why he'd want sex after a bj 3 days ago, where I'm guessing he probably didn't come because you had to stop (which would only have made him mire frustrated)? Seriously? I need it at least every couple of days, and I wouldn't say that I have a particularly high sex drive. Honestly I feel sorry for you I you can't see that lol.
0 0 1 0i don't have the time to have sex every damn day. I'm a college student working hard for good grades in a high-demand major. also, the only places we can have sex is in the dorm which is stressful as hell because roommates walk in all the time or get pissed off when we sexile them causing more issues. he was fine for 18 years of not having sex and now that he's had it, he needs it all the time? he's not in a demanding major at all and had plenty of free time but I don't. I need him to get that
Fuck that..
He has a higher sex drive than you .
0 0 0 0Your sex drives are nowhere close.
Pretty much non resolvable.
Having sex during college is about as easy as it will ever be in your life.
If you -wanted- sex frequently you would make time.
I'm not trying to blame you. But the issue isn't being busy. It's wildly mismatched drives.
The only bad news I have is his sex drive sounds average, not high. High drive people your age want sex multiple times a day. So I fear you will run into this a lot.0 1 0 0I don't think this can be reconciled. I think you simply want to take your leave. You're not going to change him and he is not going to change you.
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