I would feel the same way if it was me. The fact that he is asking for a threesome right after you got back together seems a bit shady to me. I would not do it in this instance if I were you and think of the possibly disastrous effects it could have on your friendship with your best friend! It would be terrible if something like this came between you. Its one thing to have a threesome, its another thing entirely to have it with your best friend. You are right to be on your guard. I think the best thing you could do is be honest with your boyfriend about your concerns and see what he says. To be honest he's probably thinking how great it would be to be able to be with two girls he's attracted to...that's primarily what's going through his mind. Other people's feelings are not going to be high priorities in this instance.
0 1 0 0cause he wants to be able to have sex with your friend without any drama from you. I bet these nice guys on GAG are thinking "damn I can't get a girlfriend but this douche can ask for this crap and she's actually considering it and all she wants to know is if he really wants her too? SERIOUSLY?!"
i'm right there with you guys...it's astounding. even as a 19 year old I would have been like "hey moron there's the door and if she's dumb enough maybe she'll be your girlfriend"1 0 0 0aww the 1st time getting back? ummm kinda questionable
me and my guy had a 3som with my bff but it was my idea. it was fun and we both were involved. if you do get into it don't watch suck her nipples, eat, make out whatever. if you wana talk and private ill be online for a bit0 1 1 1umm not all girls are into what you mentioned. she can be in a 3 some and just watch.
a 3some is no fun if your just watching
I agree I wouldn't want to just watch...it would make me feel jealous or like the other girl was more interesting
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No insight into what he is thinking, thought I can guess.
But for you, I would run like the wind AWAY from that. I just don't see how anything good can come out of this. If it was your fantasy too, maybe, but it clearly isn't. I don't actually know too many women where it is their fantasy (none that I can think of, truth be told).
I htink if he can't accept that you don't want that to happen, that it is time for you to move on.
You don't have to take that rubbish...1 1 0 0Well it is sort of my fantasy too...as long as I feel like I'm an equal or more important part of it than her.
Not sure what to tell you then... I think that it is playing with fire. Good luck with it...
While I do believe that he just wants her friend... Your comment about girls not liking 3somes.. off base. I've actually enjoy sharing guys with my best friend...
It could be all those things but he definitely wants to have sex with your friend. Maybe just once, maybe he actually likes her more than you.
I'm amazed by the amount of girls here that actually consider the idea, I would be shocked and absolutely rejective of the idea to share my girl with another guy. Fantasies are just fine, but I don't want to hear that one.4 2 0 0I reckon lol
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3 3I think he just wants to be with your friend..
you are a bit of an after thought her...
Now, if you want to be in a 3some with her...
then you need to decide if you are OK with this...1 1 0 0he prob wants your friend. but if your OK with it, do it.
0 1 0 0Clearly he wants to have sex with your friend. Is this something your even interested in? Don't do it just to please him.
1 1 0 0I know he wants to have sex with my friend...I just don't know if that's all this is about. Is it only a way to get to her or is it about both of us too? It is something I'm interested in if I'm part of the fantasy too, but I don't want to be used just so he can have sex with her or if he's going to completely ignore me once he gets her into it.
Since you seem to be a bit insecure I think it would be better to try this with someone you aren't interested in dating.
Probably because your friend is hot.
0 0 0 0What a sleazy douche. I'd aim higher for a boyfriend. ** smh**
3 2 0 0I had a threesome with my girlfriend and her sister.
1 1 1 0Did you find yourself wanting to focus all your attention on her sister or was it equal? Did you want to do it just because you really wanted to f*** her sister or was it just having to girls at once that was so appealing?
They did it with each other and I did it with both of them. Winning all around.
she did it with her sister?
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