Can a man fall in love with you through sex, or do men just fall in love with the sex?

It may sound confusing so look at it like this. If you like a girl and you to haven't known each other very long but you know you are interested and she is too, can she wow you with her sex and seal the deal. Or do you tend to not take her seriously anymore? Lets say you met a guy and y'all have talked for about two weeks he really likes you, you like him you two talk constantly. You met up just not on date just in public places. On the first date you decide to show him how much you are really feeling him ( I hate to be arrogant but I know my sex is bomb!) .. so you decide to give it to him. He says things like that was great that was the best, can this seal the deal between y'all or does this break the deal. Does he look at you differently now? Is this in a bad way or a good way? Or does he keep talking to you only because of that? What do you think?
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Its funny how this question was directed "towards guys" and the guys seem to feel a little different from their post below then the women.. Too bad I'm a woman an think the same way you all do! I guess that's why I needed a man's opinion!
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  • in the future, make the guy work for it. it will make it seem like you are less easy which is a good thing. most guys tend to not want long term relationships with girls that are easy

  • Ever heard of woman having a mentality of a man I have to admit I use men for sex and I judge them as easy .. Face it if you are willing to sleep with me and agree

    To everything I say and laugh every dumb jokes (which I'm fully aware of and doing so to 'give you' the upper hand$ that's just say you are deperate to get laid... And you pass judgement on mr?! Ha! I have my fair share of feministic views .. The whole falling in love thing but I keep myself in check... These days are not like the old days when men cherish good women.. They are only good for one thing and when that's done I don't real want to put the effort of hoping there's a gentleman out there. So to answer your question falling in love is out of the equation when it comes to physical...

    Wham bam thank you sir!

  • with the sex

  • no its good to get sex out of the way to see if you have "sexual chemestry" if he like it then yes you are good. just don't give in to it all the time . then he will jus see you as a booty call

  • If a guy already likes a girl, sex can definitely seal the deal. But if he didn't really like her in the first place, he'll just stick around for the sex. The way to tell the difference is how he acts when you're NOT having sex...

    • Thumbs up!

  • Dudes give LOVE to get sex... Girls give SEX to get love... it's just how things go

    • No I give sex to get sex. My feelings vary depending on the guy.

    • @WBOTB There are guys i can have sex just coz i want sex and nothing more so yeah we can also give sex to get sex and thats it

  • If he likes you, he liked you before you two had sex. Every guy will vary. I have heard from guys that they will completely rule out a relationship with a girl if she gives it up too soon. But I know from my wonderful 2 year long relationship that started with a one night stand, that it isn't true for all of em!

  • men just like the pleasure

    that is a bad relationship