Can men get turned on by tickling their girlfriends..? =/

My boyfriend and I were just catching up on a late morning nap recently. We were both clothed, nothing dirty was going on and we were just sleeping. Anyway he started tickling me around the hip/waist area and under my arms/ sides of my body. It was just really normal tickling. And I was trying to do the same to him, so we were both having fun and struggling. This went on for about 5-10 minutes. We were both laughing a lot. I accidentally brushed past his thing down south - he had on boxers and obviously no underwear underneath - and I realized his thing was standing and his front was slightly wet! It wasn't before. I'm surprised though, we were just tickling and not doing anything that was remotely sexual, why the wetness? =/
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  • LOL

    We get turned sometimes even just by being near a girl we like. If we're tickling you, we'll most definitely get turned on by that. I'm not saying it happens all the time, but it does happen a lot when we're tickling someone we think is hot. Guys are very physical, so really... being in the same bed, even just by tickling you will get us horny.

    • so its the physical touch you get from the tickling that turns you on? and I'm most certainly NOT hot! really I'm not. thanks for the answer! (:

    • Yes, pretty much. If I'm sitting next to a hot girl, and we have to squeeze together to that our arms touch, I'll probably get turned on unless there's a BIG reason to distract me. And sweetie, this might make you like us males a little less, but the honest truth is that if you weren't hot, he wouldn't be going out with you. =) I'm not saying you're like a freakin' supermodel, but he most definitely thinks you're attractive.

    • hehe. ehh. attractive as in face-wise - yar. because erm, that's how we met. the staring and all in the office. haha. fun times. hot as in body-wise... nah. at least not to me. LOL. thanks! :)

  • just goes to show you that chemistry and excitement are part of your relationship! Sounds great !

    • thanks for the answer! (:

Most Helpful Girls

  • Anytime opposite sexes are messing around with a lot of body contact and there is a sexual interest it will usually turn you on.

  • To some people, tickling is very erotic!! It is a huge turn in! Do some research, I think you'll be shocked.

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  • My husband LOVES being tickled mercilessly. It turns him on so much, so I play along and try to be almost mean, restrain him, tickle all his most sensitive spots and he’s like a little kid confessing dirty secret fantasies and squirming. I feel SO powerful when he’s naked and I tickle torture him

    • I love women who enjoy making men squirm!

    • @Billlewis I’m vicious Bill! Once restrained I own a man. After orgasm, tickling is nearly painful, so I make my men confess ALL their dirty secrets or get tickled all night!

    • Oh my goodness! Do you enjoy teasing, as well? I'm referring to sexual teasing and frustration. Thanks very much.

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  • Guys can get turned on tickling women. I know I do.

    • But do you get turned on being tickled?

  • I know it's an old question but yes it's fairly likely a fetish for him.
    It could be that he enjoys tickling you, or teasing you.
    Or it could be the other way around, he enjoyed being tickled or teased by you.

    as for the main question " Can men get turned on by tickling their girlfriends?"
    yes, they certainly can.

    • We can too!!!

  • It can be very erotic.
    No clue why by I get very turned on when being tickled, especially on my feet.
    I had a former girlfriend that loved being tickled and tickling me.
    We would take turns tying each other up and combining tickling with sex.
    One time she took one of her nylons off and put it on me and I have never been so ticklish in my life.
    I came so hard it almost hurt., when she finally let me.
    She liked being tickled on her feet when she was having an orgasm.
    She said it made her orgasms more intense, so I was only happy to oblige her.
    I have been with many women that enjoyed being bound and tickled, and tickled during sex.
    Is it for everyone, probably not, but if someone enjoys tickling or whatever they like why not indulge in it.
    Better sex and more frequency works for me.

    • where have you been all my life? I hope you are single and live near by! I have been looking for 10 years to find someone that shares my passion for tickling. I love to be bound to, and I got off just having my feet tickled. And yes, nylons definitely intensify the feeling! And I have tied a few guys down and tickled them, and they taught me how to keep them hanging on till it almost hurt! But didn't... lol

    • @Ticklishone Same back at you. Do you also like getting your toes sucked and feet licked? I'm pretty much cover the whole foot fetish category, tickling, worship, footjobs, shoes, nylons...

    • Yes...

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  • To me, it’s extremely hot to tie up and tickle a girl for 2 reasons.
    It puts me in a dominant place, and that’s very hot for me

    I know it sounds cruel, but I love seeing girls struggle and laugh uncontrollably.
    So yes, it’s SUPER hot.

  • Yes I get very turned on by tickling my girl

    • Does she reciprocate? And if yes, do you like?

  • I know the feeling, it's tottaly normal :) Because... there are SOME guys who just love tickling... and feet :)

    • Sign me up... lol Some if us women get turned on by it to!

  • lol. it is called fetishism sweetheart. i have it. most boys have it.

    • Oh no!!! Most guys like this!!! Tickling us? Lord I’m doomed.

  • He must like tickling you he definitely really likes you and finds you attractive also the reason why it was wet was probably because he was turn on by it a little comes out when that happens

    • Yep 😁

  • Definitely a big turn on. Touching and being touched by someone we like=awesome.

  • Erotic excitement from touching and being touched. We produce the same fluid you do, the clear or milky leakage we call precum. I get that just looking at pron. You ought to see what happens when we do oral on you. Flood city.