Girls, do you have sex drive? Why do girls have less interest in sex?

often heard that men have a high sex drive and men think about se quite often. sexual thought comes into men's mind all day, all time even every minute. men want sex constantly everyday and men have a greater interest in sex and women have no interest in sex. girls always report that men always talk about sex and they don't like this topic. they also report that guys always want sex and it's hurt them. i also heard that women are not visually turn on and don't desire sex if her lover don't kiss them. women can stay very long time without sex. sex isn't important for women and women only have sex only for money. they only desire sex on the time of ovulation (3 or 4 days in a month). women don't attract to a unknown person though he is hot. so, girls tell me is sex very unworthy thing? it's our problem that we want sex? do you hate a guy who want sex and who talk about sex?

i have a girlfriend and she never talk to me about sex. when i want to talk about sex she don't like this and if i want to sex with her she reject me. i feel guilty for that. why i am wanting sex, it's my problem that i'm a guy, i think about sex, i get turn on by hot girl, i masturbate. what's wrong? why you don't like sex, why you have less interested in sex?
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  • I am a man in a girl's body then! =)

  • not everyone is the same, i love love love fucking way more sexual than my boyfriend is. everyone is different

  • This is myth girls of the newer generations talk and think about sex a lot more than fake social studies indicate! It’s going to come down to the individual what their independent sex drive is like. I have a very high sex drive my mind twisted a bit when it come to sex I’m more open to things others aren’t. I’ve dated hot guys I was attracted to who had very low sex drive obviously we didn’t connect. I’ve know a lot of my girlfriends who dated guys who as they put it was prudes. Most guys are actually more insecure about sex than girls and uncomfortable. I grew up in a small town me and my girlfriends would go to the lake skinny dipping. We would bring guys with us it was normal either only one or none would join us. While they was all excited about flirting they was very shy sexually. I found girls are less insecure about skinny dipping that I found also guy who wasn’t was more secure sexually and funner. So while you might be going off statistics the facts are very different. If you go to a adult sex shop your going to find 80% of the sex toys or more are for women. They stock only what they are selling so you need to find facts in actuality

  • Yes, I do. But man do not. Their penis is always too short.

    • Am I allowed pictures here❓

  • Yeah some women have low sex drives but that doesn't mean we aren't interested in or don't enjoy sex. I have a low sex drive but it's not like my vagina is numb. I still very much enjoy sex whenever I have it with my boyfriend. I just don't need it every day but if he did then I'm not saying no because I also enjoy sex.

    • Oh and by the way, not all women only have sex for money. Those would be called prostitutes and not all women are prostitutes. Also the only time we want sex isn't during ovulation. I much prefer to have sex out of the days of ovulation since I don't want kids and don't want to risk it.

  • I have high sex drive, I masturbate couple of times a day and I own a rather big sex toys collection. I like all sorts of porn too.
    The problem is chemistry with men. We don't feel it with quite often, our sex drive is picky when it comes to chemistry and physical attraction. I don't speak for every women, only for me and some of my friends. I have a type; my hormones go wild for strong, muscular, dominant men. My first instinct is to be "taken" by a man like that and to submit to him. It's really, really shallow, but I justify it on mother nature and our animal instincts. Just imagine a pack of lions - the alpha lion is the strongest, has most scares and has endured so much just to win. He is feared and respected by other male lions, and highly desired by female lions because he's alpha. The only way to become a new alpha is to beat the current one, so male lions train and hunt and fight each other. The one with most courage will challenge the alpha and sometimes win. Females think "oh he beat the current alpha he is even stronger! come mate with me, I want your cubs!".
    I know we are not animals but I think it's still engraved deep into our instincts to be sexually attracted to alphas. In this time and age human male alpha would be fit/muscular, healthy, good looking, confident, rich, popular social status, admired by other men and wanted by women. And such traits can be shown without an ounce of personality, he would just need to show up and exist. I can't help but feeling aroused by his presence, without even talking to him or knowing anything else about him. He needs to have something that I admire him for/envy and my instinct is to be the one he shares it with and to be known to others herds that I am his alpha female, that he chose me. And if he's willing to challenge the odds and risk losing his precious title (by fighting to win me over) it's pretty much a done deal. I'm guilty as charged there.
    But, as I said, we're not animals, we look into personality as well, which gives the final call. Now alpha means nothing if he has a crappy personality. We can still be attracted to him but it's a real turn off when alpha disappoints you on personality test. Some women give in too fast to alpha without testing his personality, but sooner or later they end up disappointed. They still might enjoy sex and all the things his title is giving them, but we can't maintain happiness only on that, since we're humans.
    We evolved so that we would put personality before alpha title (at least we're trying) because we know that true alpha of modern age is actually a man with great personality who loves us and treats us good. So by prioritizing personality over sexual attraction, we are giving up the chemistry. It's the price we pay to feel loved. We drastically lower our sex drives to keep good men with us, because if our sex drive was making the decision we would be with a bad boy who's good for nothing but sex. That's why women seem like they are not interested in sex; they ARE, but not in the way you want them to be with you.

  • I would say because of the pressure put on women to be modest they hide/lie about it. I have sex on my mind quite often! I would love to try it, and it sounds pretty great! I would honestly say women have a HIGHER sex drive than men, but are low key about it!! Lmfao!!!

  • Girls defiantly have a sex drive. I could honestly go for days. The fact is that girls dont like to show that side of them. We think about it quite often

  • My boyfriend thought he is the God of sex... Until he discovered how horny I am. In my opinion girls can have sex much longer and often than boys and a lot of them love to talk about sex. That topic just turns them on.

  • Honestly I don't think that's true I myself have a very high sex drive as well as quite a few of my girlfriends, my problem with this is that men say we don't want to have sex with them after only 3 days and think that we have no sex drive we do we're probably having sex dreams about you every night after the date but how is the girl to know that a guy wants more than sex if she puts out that soon

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