Do you kiss the girl after she gave you a blowjob?

My girlfriend gets mad because I don't kiss her after she gives me a blowjob because I think its gross. Guys, do you kiss you girlfriend anfter she gives you a blowjob and girls do you want the guy to kiss you after the blowjob?
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  • Why wouldn't you? It doesn't matter whether you came inside or outside of her mouth. It's your penis and semen. By the way, she is your girlfriend. You should take that as an appreciation from your girlfriend because she didn't mind to give you a blowjob. Anyway, I give my boyfriend blowjob whenever he asks. He loves to come inside my mouth and asks me to swallow it (I don't always swallow it but don't mind either). He always kisses me after I give him a blowjob. I meant the "french kiss" not just like a peck or just "lips to lips". He never rejected when I kiss him after a blowjob. That shows me he really into me and appreciates me. I also kiss him after he went down on me. Basically, we kiss the heck out of each other after oral sex.

  • I understand why a guy won't kiss me after a bj, and honestly it used to bother me but then I realized that it really isn't that big of a deal. I usually wait a little bit and then go get a drink of something sweet or brush my teeth if I'm home. Although the guy I have been seeing always kisses me after I give him a bj and it really makes me feel special, the fact that he can just man up and kiss me. Me on the other hand, I love when a guy eats me out and then kisses me. Their is something strangely exciting when he kisses me after tasting me. But really, its okay. Your girlfriend shouldn't get mad. Just be sure not to avoid her lips too long after.

  • Honestly, your girlfriend is right to be upset that you won't kiss her after.

    If you dick is so gross that you won't kiss her after she's put it in her mouth, why the fuck should she put it in her mouth?

    I'd be really upset if my boyfriend refused to kiss me after a blowie. A nice kiss tells me that he appreciates what I just did for him. When you don't kiss her, it sends the message that what she just did was gross and demeaning and you don't respect her / respect her less for doing it. It makes a woman fee used and unappreciated.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Absolutely! She even sucked it out of me when I finished and then swallowed it. That was one of the hottest things I have ever seen. I had to kiss her. Think about it, your penis is just skin and you should keep it very clean if you are letting your girlfriend blow you. You should definitely kidd her. It is not gross at all!

  • Seriously.. I'm a dude, and I don't understand how it's gross to this.

    It's your OWN DICK man. The human mouth is dirtier than any other body part.

    I could understand if it was another man's d***--and you were doing a threesome.. But this is just irrational fear.

    • You can always clean your d*** before sex, if you're worried about hygiene.. And have both of you use mouthwash or something.

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  • My boyfriend didn't kiss me the first couple of times I gave him a bj. I had never done one before and he hadn't had one before, so he was completely disgusted by the idea and it hurt my feelings but I didn't say anything about it because it didn't last long. After a few times, he loosened up and kissed me kind of automatically, without thinking about it. It didn't bother him and he's continued kissing me after without any problems. I think you're just thinking about it too much

  • I like it when a guy kisses me after a blowjob - and I honestly don't see why he wouldn't. I'll kiss a guy after he's been down on me. I'd find it a bit of a turn off if a guy didn't want to - like - 'oh right, so you think that's gross, but it's perfectly fine for me to do something you think is gross - but not you, great' - that's what I'd think.

  • Yes, my guy kisses me after I give him a BJ, I personally would think it's a turn off if the guy doesn't want to kiss me just because I gave him a BJ...

    • but its gross

  • of course - if she's gone down on me I'll do almost anything she wants!

  • I do kiss her afterward. If she can suck your cock, you can kiss her afterward. Or aren't you a gentleman ? ;)

  • If you don't kiss her, how are you ever going to snowball?

    • THIS!

  • I kiss the guy regardless. not even thinking about it. but its a turn off when the guys constantly like no no... I'm just like really?

    • but I don't do come in my mouth...

  • my boyfriend does not like lip contact after the blowjob... sigh... but I don't force him..its ok.

  • Absolutely. I love kissing her cum filled mouth. It's very erotic.

    • I actually get very aroused by French kissing her mouth when it's full of my gooey warm sperm. I even let her transfer my cum into my mouth! It's really intimate

  • my boyfriend won't kiss me after a blowjob either except maybe a quick peck on the lips. I know it bothers some guys and I understand ,its not a big deal if he doesn't want to. I still kiss him after he goes down on m,e though

  • I so kiss her after she goes down on me. Idc, its my cum...

  • if you can't deal with the thought of having to kiss what's touched your cock, why should she have to do it to start with

    • well, that's why I am glad I am not a woman. I would not want to give a blowjob.

  • I don't even give a damn about bjs and have never finished that way..idk..if she just had me in her mouth then no big deal..if I actually finished in her mouth?... the idea would not thrill me at all...I am hetero not bi...and some of my female friends have not wanted to kiss me after I went down on them..but this isn't a popularity contest anyway..that is between you and your woman...(:

  • Hell yea afer all he was guy one that hopefully got the greater plesure out of it. I'm alway sure to kiss him after he goes down on me.If you think it's that gross why would you expect her to go down on you . After all it's your d***?

  • Absolutely... I have no problem with tasting myself.

    How can I subject a girl to it if I won't do it myself?

  • i sure do, its not that gross unless you came in her mouth and she wants to kiss you but she lets me kiss her after I go down on her

  • I will kiss my wife whenever she wants to kiss me.

  • Absolutely

  • Yes I would

  • I have kissed women after a blowjob. Doesn't bother me at all.

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