That's flirting to a girl. To a guy it sounds like she's calling you gay, but to a girl it's flirting. She might be wonder IF you're gay, probably because she likes you. Try saying something about a girl like "i used to have a crush on such and such celeb" or something about a date you once went on or something innocent like that so she knows you're into girls.
I always meet guys I like, but only SOME guys are obviously gay, a lot of gay guys are really masculine and I just can't tell, so fill her in subtly, but she's probably just flirting with you and actually it sounds a lot more like she's trying to make fun of "Will" by saying he's gay than you.0 0 0 0Yeah, it's confusing. She knows all about my ex girlfriend, we've talked about that stuff before (past relationship things). I also once told her that I like her, so I was wondering if maybe she was trying to scare me off by telling me she thinks I'm gay. I don't know, maybe I'm paranoid. I just really like her and want her to like me back.
Hahahaha NO! then she does NOT think you're gay, and she wasn't trying to say you were. She was teasing you and flirting with you. Guys sometimes get all weirded out by possible "gay" remarks, but girls, esp this girl does NOT care about that, she's just hinting that people are gonna find you hot enough to bang, thereby hinting that SHE finds you hot enough to bang. xD
Thanks for the feedback. I'd really like to believe that she likes me like that, BUT when we first met, I asked her out and she turned me down. She said she wasn't ready to date. She's complicated because she's a single mom now. Then she goes and becomes friends with me and says stuff like this. I also feel I get mixed signals sometimes because sometimes she seems very nervous or uncomfortable, like maybe I creep her out. I'm just SO confused.
Yeah you gotta talk to her because the fact that you work together may be complicating things. She doesn't want things to be weird, just assure her that you're going to act nice and normal no matter what she says, then ask her about it.
0 0 0 0Oops this was supposed to be another comment lol. no worries on the comments, I just thought it was funny how much stuff was behind this! lol trust, me you're going to save yourself a LOT of time and energy by just being more straightforward in a nice way instead of trying to guess what's going on.
Thanks so much for your patience. That's not the half of it though, there is so much more. I actually did try to find out how she felt because her actions indicated she was becoming interested. That's when I asked her how she felt about me. I then told her she didn't have to answer if she didn't want to and she just said, "OK". No matter what I do, I still don't know for sure.
Ok. then I suggest you let this girl go because she's being weird to you. She's not being straightforward and that's weird if not cruel if not dumb! I mean she works with you and you like her, you at least deserve to know the truth. Personally I would never want to date someone like this who is so wishy washy and doesn't know enough to tell you what's really up.
I don't think she thinks you're gay, I think she meant it in a teasing way. But make sure you fb page says you're interested in women not men
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She's pulling your chain, putting you off-balance, seeing if you can be rattled.
Nothing fatal, but you could have been smoother: "If you were there, we could all have had roofies and had the most forgettable threesome ever!"0 0 0 0Its possible that she thinks you are gay. I haven't read anything that would make her seem like you're not gay. Maybe ask her out?
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