Don't girls want to hook up JUST as much as guys do?

What's the deal? If they're attracted to you and (so I've seen on this website) most girls like sex just as much as guys, why are girls hesitant to hook up?
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  • Guys have a physical need to have an orgasm. That is what relieves the intense desire to hook up. Might have to do with the pressure from built-up prostate fluid or something related. But it is an intense need to get a release. Once you get that release, you feel fine. Until the next time...!

    • bullsh*t you can jerk off. stop blaming biology. you want sex because you want sex, you don't need it.

  • I feel like girls get judged more than guys do if they want to just hook up with a guy. I know for myself, I did it anyways and my friends were pretty harsh about it.

    • I completely agree. I'm out of a serious 2 1/2 year relationship & have been having a (safe, smart, etc) fantastic time but was worried how people viewed me. I've 1 friend who's pretty judgmental, but all my other friends--male and female--agree that I'm doing nothing wrong. And the guys, friends & otherwise, say the same thing: "why is it OK for me and not for you?" I know that some guys out there might view me as a slut. I think its who you surround yourself with, and I'm lucky for who I've got.

    • I never really understood the whole "girl friend judging girl friend" for them doing sexual things. The ONLY thing I'm worried about is STDs, and girls who sleep around generally would have them. But I wouldn't care that you had sexual fun.

    • thats good that you don't judge for the fun, I wish more people thought that way. as for the STD thing, I'm kind of nervous about that so I tend to ask the guy the last time he got tested, and I get tested regularly, even if its up to date I'll just do it if I feel like it. I gotta tell you though the number of times a guy has tried to talk me into not using a condom has been way more than I ever would have thought. Usually its, "Oh come on, it doesn't feel as good, please?"

  • Because we're freaked out your only wanting the sex not us

    • its not like we see only a vagina. It's the whole package that's sexually attractive

    • Well that's nice to know but most girls don't see it that way. Guys don't always make it clear that they want US and not just sex. Feeling used sucks the big one. We fear it. Plan and simple

    • he is asking about JUST SEX, this is not about why don't girls want to have sex with a guy who will warship them and love therm forever. hes asking if girls say they like just sex, as much as guy like just sex, why don't they have more just sex. read the post.