You shouldn't finger yourself before having lost your virginity . BAD CHOICE !
It's ought to pain because you haven't had something in your vagina ( not even a dlildo I guess ), so you would feel the pain .
You should have sex before you finger because sex would get you stretched and comfortable ...fingering is just gonna give you pain till you don't have sex since you wouldn't be fully stretched untill you don't have sex .
So, don't let him finger you till you have sex or else it would continue to hurt you :)0 0 4 3The main event is not your Vagina. It is your clitoris up above. He should "warm you up" by flat handing (circles) the entire upper half of your Vag/Clit area (plenty of lotion). As you get aroused, your vagina will expand and become wet. Then he can insert 1 or 2 fingers at the same time he is rubbing you up above. You will have painless pleasure then.
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You are probably just nervous and tense and not relaxing down there. And since you are a virgin having things in your vagina will hurt. I was fingered while I was a virgin and it hurt.
0 0 0 0You felt pain because it was your first time and your muscles weren't relax.
Also where his nails long and did you make sure he washed his hands beforehand?0 0 0 0You're stretching that's all. It hurt for me too. Just wait till you have sex lol Now that, my dear, is pain.
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1 2he should bj for you , insert your vagina when you turn wet
0 0 2 1just try to relax. go with the flow :). you're probably just not used to it, I used to be like that, but then I got used to it! if it hurts just tell him to go slower or to rub your cilt aha
0 0 0 0This is false, to the utmost degree. Sure stretching it out would most likely be very beneficial. But the fact is if inserting something as small as a finger hurts that much. Imagine something way bigger. Now to be fair im a dude and I don't know much about the female anatomy. But this is common sense. If something small hurts a lot, somthing big will be torture.
Best luck to op. Maybe talk to a gynecologist, or maybe the answer is in the comments I don't know. Tho I'd take the knowledge of a trained professional over someone on the internet. Good luck.0 0 0 0I was trying to reply to anonymous (25-29) but this is my first time using this website, and I have no clue how to delete a post.
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