First, a few corrections:
"We had arguments regarding me not opening up to him ( I thought FWBs don't do that)"
It's your relationship, you can do what you want. There's no rule that says that FWBs have to alienate each other.
"guys are only good for one thing"
Sometimes, it's the guy catching feelings. Sometimes, it's the guy feeling lost when it's over. Sometimes, it's the girl getting her nut and leaving. Don't make assumptions.
You have a decision to make. He has decided that despite you falling in love with him, he will accept sex with you as long as you're available. Me? This is unfair and unwise; it leaves scars. But that's his call.
Your call is, is this the relationship you're willing to live with, long-term? You don't sound exactly happy with the relationship, but he doesn't seem like he'll change it. So there are really only two options: stay, or go.0 0 0 0True but to be honest he is a good lay I just want to make sure it's just a definite friends with benefits status and he doesn't want to. Answer it because either way if he says he just want to be friends with benefits great if he wants something else great as well just as long as I get my lay... Question is does he like me? I mean I never heard of a guy accepting the fact someone is falling in love with them and go ahead and still sleep with them :/ totally confused
Everything you just told me, you told him, right?
I think he may like you. Hi might be hooked on you or your royal treasure. Do you guys do anything else besides sex? Like go out to dinner or lunch? I think if you both like each other it cn maybe work. I think men are worth more then only one thing. Some men hav more to offer then other men. I think he needs to express more of his feelings if you are saying you love him. I feel he should say it back. And that he is the one holding back. He should never take you for granted because he might lose you.
0 0 0 0Yea we do.. when we were still in school and when everything started we hang out about 5 days out of 7 days of a week.. when we graduated and have our own jobs.. we talk via IM, text, go out to bars sometimes.. or he would just hang out in my place or his place and talk.. watch sports.. without sex... I mean he called me his best friend and I can honestly say he is too to me... but I mean.. he doesn't say anything.. I'm not going to assume and be that kind of woman who would wish.. ya know?
Yeah that's true. You don't want to assume anything if he isn't saying it. I think he might be shy and afraid of taking the next step. It's almost like you guys are a couple. But he might be afraid of committing to you. He better hope that you don't get bored and move on. Because it would be his fault of not appreciating what he has and taken you for granted. It also sounds like he is laid back and to comfortable. He is going to have to be honest with you on how he feels. Communication is key.
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This is too easy. A guy isn't going to shut the door on an opportunity for sex. This guy obviously enjoys having a casual sex partner and just because you have more feelings for him than he has for you doesn't mean he is going to stop calling for sex. I think you have read way too much into all these little things thinking it means he was falling for you. He may be comfortable with you but that isn't the same as a relationship. Oh, and I disagree that guys are not capable of compassion and intimacy, but keep up these type of deals and it will be true for you.
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1 1Yeah he should had told you when you told him. He was being selfish and he should had communicated with you better. Guys try to act tough and hide their emotions. He was trying to play the fence and his cake and icecream at the same time.
0 0 0 0He likes your pu**y and wants some more of it.
0 1 0 0Well I like his c**k and want some of it.. I just want the logistics of everything clear so I just know how to categorize him in my life ... So what's his deal does he like me?
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