For me, that wouldn't be very different from finding p*rn, because it clearly serves a similar (if not identical) purpose and the focus is still on other girls. To me, even though the content of those videos is significantly less sexual than actual p*rn, intentionally watching a video for the purpose of seeing a girl's skirt fly up or the camera zoom in on her chest still seems like watching p*rn to me. In fact, since those videos feature "real" girls, it's more personal in a way and could even be harder for some girlfriends to handle.
I don't mind if my boyfriend watches those videos OR p*rn- it's completely normal- but I have to admit I wouldn't be overjoyed at coming across the evidence. I don't have a problem with the fact of p*rn and I understand that it's normal to watch it while in a relationship, but I still prefer to keep it a private individual thing, unless my boyfriend and I agree to consciously incorporate it into our relationship. I personally see that as a respectful and considerate thing to do.0 1 0 0The girls in p*rn are real to, the only difference is it's a job. I agree it should be a private individual thing, but I was just wondering what reactions would be.
I understand that they are real people, but that's exactly what I mean- they ARE doing it as a job. They're acting, not representing themselves as private individuals. I know that some of the videos in your links did involve acting, but some were more real-life.
So does the real life make it worse then?
It's a little better because its not nearly as raunchy but the girls that hate p*rn hate it because there are "other women" involved. Some of us require complete devotion and some of us give that same devotion to our partners. Another issue is that a lot of p*rn stars portray artificial flawlessness while you're average girlfriend (even the 9/10s) are highly insecure. Basically, how offended would you be if you and your metaphorical girlfriend walked by a gym and she stopped to gawk at the hotties in their little shorts, working out. Even through the glass, its an insult to your partner.
0 0 0 0So, even though the girls in the videos are not artificial flawless p*rnstars, but real women. It would still offend some girls, since the guy is still looking at other girls.
if I found p*rn I would watch it, read it, and look at it and when I got the tingles id be ripping his pants off.
0 1 0 0So, you would watch your guys stuff?
heck yea! I enjoy p*rn. watch it all the time.
What do you think of my stuff, the non p*rn stuff?
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That stuff is pretty tame. Some of those I wouldn't even think twice about watching at work. If a girl had a problem with that stuff, I'd venture to say she had some major insecurity issues. My girlfriend has seen a picture of me holding a naked Jenna Haze (actual real p*rn star) in my lap and she thinks it's great. It really depends on the girl.
0 0 0 0I have to ask, how did you end up with a naked p*rn star in your lap?
Funny story, I had never been to a strip club before, and my roommate at the time saw that Jenna Haze was coming to a local strip joint and he suggested we go (I had no girlfriend at the time). Finally I conceded and we went. After Jenna Haze performed, she was in the back and you could meet her for $10 or $35 to meet with a pic, so I said what the hell. We talked for a minute, and then she got on my lap and someone snapped a pic. She wrote me message on the picture I dare not repeat and then signed it.
Cool story.
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2 0I don't care what he jacks off to in his free time, as long as he's not meeting up or sexting other girls.
0 0 0 0i wouldn't mind finding p*rn on his computer... I mean, I think it's really unrealistic to think a guy doesn't watch p*rn :/
0 0 0 0What do you think about the stuff I watch?
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