How can I stop being horny all the time?

Question

Whenever I'm around my boyfriend I get horny. All we have to do is kiss and I'll get tingles down below and I'll start getting wet. He just has to touch my butt, wrap his arm around me as he's half asleep, etc… I'll get horny.
I don't think he likes to have sex as often as I do, so how can I stop it?

GingerGuy · Accepted Answer

It's normal and natural. The only way to "stop" it is not be around him lol. Assuming he's the cause of it. It might just happen anyway? If you're worried about it and whether it bothers him... instead of trying to "stop" it, talk to him and ask him if he minds? Chances are he doesn't but if he does, they all as he has to do is talk to you about it and say, not today or right now, I'm not in the mood. Then you just have to do something else that's all. Problem solved.

summiter · Accepted Answer

You sound normal to me! How often are you two having sex? Do you go for round two or three? Maybe buy some sex toys like a good vibrator... they can be fun! Your thoughts?

SammyGurl · Accepted Answer

Sounds pretty normal, you need to be a little more vocal about your needs, if he doesn't get that hint get physical with him and jump his bones more often; then you could always just take matters into your own hands right beside him, almost gaurantee that he'll want to participate in one way or another!!

Girly1710 · Accepted Answer

Maybe if every time you think about having sex you immediately think of a crying baby it'll dry ya right up

zombiebabe · Accepted Answer

you sound perfectly normal plus i guess it will be normal for you to feel this way around your SO

Sabsies · Answer

If he's not in the mood, just go with masturbation. It's not really a huge issue or even anything wrong.

Belgie · Answer

Masturbate. A lot.

Savatar · Answer

Well, try getting turned on, and then have him instantly stop. Eventually the brain will stop assuming "oh yeah sex incoming"

blutwolfe · Answer

find another guy, clearly you guys aren't compatible, either that or pretty much tell him yourself that you want more sex

Tanisha69 · Answer

masturbate

singlebee · Answer

You can't.. Don't so yourself now :-P

Ranude2011 · Answer

if u want to get laid and if u guys live together, before he goes home from work by 5 min, start masturbating to porn, make sure he catches u, if he replies negatively be honest, and tell him that ur always horny

Gavish · Answer

personally if u want to remain in a healthy relationship buy a dildo as ur boyfriend is not horny as you and it's better then jumping on some strangers bed after getting drunk so buy sexy toys