How do girls feel about guys thinking of them while masturbating?

[Anonymous]

You know you're hot. And so do we. Inevitably, you're going to make an appearance in one of our masturbation fantasies. Yes, we can imagine what you look like naked, and in our minds we're directing all the action. And yes, we know you think of us in that way too. So the question is, is it a compliment or an insult to be thinking of you? Does it get you mad or turn you on? If you could go to a website and find out whose masturbation fantasies you appeared in, and watch the complete video, would you? I know it's hypothetical, but I'm just curious.

[Anonymous]

If a girl likes a guy who masturbates for her, she would be flattered and think it's hot. That's a given right there.

If a girl finds out that a guy who she doesn't know is masturbating for her, she might think it's hot or very creeped out. My own thoughts on this is... if a girl dresses in some very sexy tight clothing which shows her physical, attractive features very well, or dresses up in a short, skin-tight, sexy dress which shows off her sexy legs and butt no problem or she's wearing a sexy 2 piece bikini, is this same girl expecting no guy to stare at her and lust after her? Plain and simple no guy is going to ignore that, she's going to be in his imagination right there and than, these guys are going to rush some where privately & relieve themselves no problem. Now girls may end up thinking,"Men can control themselves", Some can, but most can't. If you ladies are okay with this, than that's exactly what's going to happen. Men will visualize you wearing something hot and sexy, go some where private, imagine you in a naughty fantasy & BAM... right there.

[Anonymous]

This is making girls and relationship nothing more than about sex and sexual objects. I know, you said it's hypothetical but still that's how most weird stuff in the minds start. I would hope that a girl other than by her boyfriend would find this all pretty stupid and rather not be a sexual object in some random guy's mind while masturbating.

[bunny420]

What do you mean by that =O

[Opinion Owner]

I mean about what I said. I don't think a hot girl would really like the idea of her being in some random guy's mind and contributing to his sexual release while masturbating. That can get pretty sick unless they're being paid for to be sex objects like on porn or sex/girly mags. Would you like your girlfriend to be masturbated to if she was hot by random guys?

[bunny420]

They can do what they want, its there mind, as long as it doesn't have an affect on how they act.

[preacherman]

Yeah, no hot women want strange men to masturbate to them, damn you better tell playboy and penthouse they are going out of business! lol

[Googleme]

I like you. the other girls said they would take it as a compliment, and I wouldn't. I'm glad some one feels the same way.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks. The girls that say they'd take it as a complement don't stop to realize that they'll never know when that's happening so it'd be impossible to take something you know nothing about as a complement. But if this guy is secretely looking at you and then going home and masturbating, wouldn't that give you the creeps? Who knows how far he'll take that. I know what the question asker is getting at because a guy will get turned on by some girl he finds hot and then masturbate. Desperate tho

[Anonymous]

That is probably the best compliment you can give.. some girls may seem a little mad.. but they're most definitely kidding and are really turned on and excited that a guy thinks of them that way. Just like when a guy gets a boner from us we don't find it gross, we consider it a compliment :)

I only wish a guy would admit that to me... I would have a fun few days after that ;P

[sexyalphamale]

Send me a picture and watch the result lol

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't want them to tell me. If they were doing it for themselves, good for them. But I don't want to know. It would kind of alarm me I guess, because I'm a big believer in the whole "my mind is mroe beautiful than my body so stop staring at my tits" thing. maybe I'm just being naive, but I suppose if it was my boyfriend I wouldn't mind, but otherwise, I would.

[Shantal2501]

I'd be really flattered and I'd consider the fact that he's thinking and picturing me to get himself off as a compliment. And I'd go to that website in a heartbeat lol I want to see what I would be doing or what would be going on in that guys ideal sexual encounter haha =P

[vice-chix]

I think that a guy that thinks about me during their "alone time" is sexy, sexy, sexy! I absolutely would LUV to visit that site!

[senior03fp]

I find it as a compliment that a guy would think of me at that moment. It really turns me on too. If I could go to a website and found out everything, that would be AWESOME!

[DREWHOCKEY27]

It would be sexy to have her watch while I jacked off while I think of her. Then to have her watch just how hard and much I cum just because of her, would be hot. I used to fantasize about my hot sales manager while I got off and then I finally got my wish and was able to sleep with her and told her about my fantasy. She gave me a hand job because she wanted to see how much cum I actually shot. While she jacked me she fingered herself and as soon as she saw the first long thick shot of cum fly out the big shiny mushroom head of my shaved cock, she came instantly. She rubbed my cum all over her tits and belly and came over and over while I rubbed her clit with the head and shaft of my cock. She came so many times that she just shook and trembled. I finally stopped after she came 13 times. Swear , this is true, 13 times and I never even got inside her. So friggin hot.

[xxangel1990xx]

haha this is a great question, if there was a website I would definately go and check it out-would be really interesting to watch! I wish you could do that now lol.

[bunny420]

This is like my only anonymous question. =O Guess who I am? :P

[bunny420]

Wrong question... haha

[xxangel1990xx]

Hahaha, the age range should have given that away. And once again, no uppy. Ok-every time you see an answer of mine give it an uppy! Ok?? It's quite simple! loll.

[Darknessman]

I could give it to you just add me on Facebook Rodney Christensen

[Afrodite101]

4sho, it might creep me out a little lol but curisoity would keep me looking

[NirvanaCobain]

well I wouldn't mind as long as you didn't tell me "i can picture you naked right now" lmao that is a bit creepy

[bunny420]

I agree with that :)

[Asker]

So, you've never looked at a guy and imagined in your mind's eye what he would look like naked?

[NirvanaCobain]

I actually never have haha I guess girls don't really think about stuff like that. Sweetie girls just care about oh shit does he like me? what is he thinking of me? crazy phsycotic things guys would consider silly to think about

[Asker]

So then, what do sweetie girls like you think about when you masturbate? Are all the characters in your fantasies faceless? Given that the human mind can't imagine that which it has not experienced, at the very least you would be thinking of a composite of individuals versus a single identifiable individual -- which would mean someone you knew or saw is playing a role in your fantasy. Or are you going to claim you don't fantasize or masturbate? :)

[NirvanaCobain]

Lol I don't as much as when I was a bit younger but um we just think of anything we think is hot at the moment. A super hot guy, a famous guy we proably can't have or something like that haha

[Asker]

I could never figure out the "a famous guy I can't have" thing. Why not fantasize about someone you could have?

[NirvanaCobain]

Lol good question.. I have no idea. But that like asking you why masterbate about jessica alba or something. cause they're hot ;)

[Asker]

True. But the difference is a guy would do anything to get her, while it seems a girl would pick a celebrity to make sure she would never get him :) and if she ever did meet the celebrity she'd go into a screaming frenzy scaring him away :)))

[NirvanaCobain]

Haha don't worry I'm not one of those psychotic screaming fans :]

[pinklady84]

Its is a turn on in my opinion. It is very complimentary. I would love to know who masturbated while thinking of me. Although I wouldn't want to watch the actual action

[Darknessman]

I do lol

[Dazzled]

Very sexy. As long as I liked him. Otherwise it creeps me out. I would pretty much live on that website.

xxx

[bunny420]

Hey. wait a minute.

Are you the same guy that asked what guys masturbate over? lol



Having fun are we, I certainly am ;P, your talking some funny shit lol

[bunny420]

And if you are, I wondered if you meant material for this :P just wasn't sure how you'd use it lol

[blondfrog]

Wow girls think so much differently than guys I guess that is why they are called opposites in the end it doesn't matter its your mind and your safe in your own mind no one knows what your thinking of I have masturbated to some chicks here on GAG I have a very high sex drive and the picture of their face has made me climax

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wrqpg2-iHFI

[Bunni26]

I think it is hot and would be flattered, If it was anybody besides my boyfriend would be creepy and I wouldn't want to watch unless was anyone but him! But I am sure most guys do it to everyone but their girlfriends!

[stepcoll1]

i honestly think its hot... my boyfriend has told me that he even says stuff like "god stephanie mmm this feels so good." so hot.

[Anonymous]

I think most people would at least deep inside feel flattered if they found out someone is thinking about them while masturbating. I mean, it basically means you are as hot to them that you could stand in for some top models in their thoughts😉

But at the same time I don't think there are that many that would like to receive the information that someone thinks about them while masturbating. Unless you were my partner I would not like to hear anything about me being in your dirty thoughts... okay maybe if we have been dating for a little while but still isn't a couple it could be fine, if we at least have talked about sex.

[Anonymous]

i definitely would.

[Anonymous]

I think it's a compliment but as long as it stays a fantasy it's good. I wouldn't bother with the website, I would rather e doing something else like eating or sleeping lol

[Anonymous]

Compliment.

But do guys really fantasise to the point of climax? I thought they were visual creatures and so fantasising is just a warm up if anything haha.

I wish my guy would fantasise about me more but he has to watch porn. I'm not mad though; I understand how guys are and it's nothing personal.

[alpinestars-2002795]

Acutally we do do it to that point you'd be suprised..

[bunny420]

It just takes longer most the time... lol

[mich_student]

If I have a girl I love and we have sex, my mind if on her. I usually will not masturbate if we are together. But when we are not then I will and think of her. It is more of a compliment and respect. If a guy you have is watching porn that is a problem.

[Anonymous]

i would not mind at all. it wouldn't turn me on, but I would not get mad.

and I would defenatly watch the video.

[Darknessman]

Would you watch me lol