Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health +1 y
How Do You Suggest Plastic Surgery To Your Girlfriend?
Anonymous
My girlfriend and I have been going out for like a year.We have had sex and everything.I'm her first,she isn't my first,I've been with other girls. She has small boobs,but her areolas are a little too big for her boobs,and it is a turn off. And her labia majora is a little big,it isn't like hanging or sagging or anything like that,it's just,i guess you could say,"fat".Lets just say they aren't thin I guess,it isn't like the girls in porn and like the other girls I've been with So,here's my Q,how do you suggest plastic surgery to you girlfriend.Without hurting her feelings or making her insecure,how can I suggest plastic surgery to her? Like areola and labia surgery?If you're going to say I'm an a** and I'm asking her for my benefit,well think about it,I'm her first and I'm not attracted to it,what are the chances of another guy liking or being attracted to her when she's naked? So how do I suggest it?
0 1
What Girls & Guys Said
22 10Honestly just break up, can't you just accept her for who she is instead of asking her to go under the knife? Whatever way you ask her, she'll definitely feel hurt, she might even break up with you and she'll feel insecure about it after and she might never date anyone after your opinion. Pornstar boobs are just one type. There are so many other types of boobs in this world. The real ones. You could totally date a pornstar or have just sex with a slut. Don't hurt real people. I'm really sorry for talking to you like this. Every guy says they hate sag and big areola breasts. Is there any real guy out there who will accept a girl as she is? What a dark world.
why don't you get surgery to get that brain of urs fixed?
For some reason I don't think your girlfriend is the one with the problems...
Not every girl has that perfect porn star look, so if you want a girl like that then you had better start looking. If you feel the need to tell your girlfriend that she needs to change her body becasue she isn't up to your standards then I can tell you now she can do much better than you.
Oh, as for how you should suggest it...
"Babe I'm sorry but your areolas are too big, it just looks akward...and your labia majora is too fat, it's all weird looking. It's not sexy. What's gonna happen when you leave me, I'm concerned other men won't find you attractive, you don't look good naked! But if you get surgery you'll be absolutely perfect...well maybe a boob job would be nice too...and your chin, we can fix that, maybe get that cute nose I always knew you always wanted"
That should go well. It's exactly what ever girl wants to hear!
I love your sarcasm But I agree. For every imperfection you're calling her out on,there's about two for you that she isn't talking about.Why?Cause I bet she's the girl who's madly in love with you and would do anything in this world to please you.And you knowing that,are taking advantage of that and are trying to make her into a plastic porn star. Great
As if you are so perfect. How would you feel if your girlfriend asked you to get plastic surgery? Your not the only guy in the world, I'm sure there is someone out there who thinks she's beautiful the way she is. She deserves someone who will love her for who she is and not for what she looks like.
You're an asshole you shouldn't have her change so much because she isn't good enough for you.
Are you going to pay for it?
Well,idk.I'm 16 and those are the two things I hate about my body,i also have the same problem.I'm considering getting plastic surgery when I'm 18,my guy friend says guys aren't that picky or particular about a girls body,but I guess you all are,so now I'm really considering plastic surgery after reading this,i'd hate to be a turnoff to my boyfriend.So now I'm really thinking about getting areola and labia surgery now
I guess you could sit her down and just tell her what you told us,of course,i think it's rude that you're talking about her like this on the net,but whatever
Pls don't do something because one jerk on a website didn't like it. Trust me, giys are picky but not abt that stuff. Do it because You want and not just to please some1 else.