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How to tell my guy I want him to dominate/rape me during roleplay.
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I have been wanting my guy to to this for ages. We have steamy sex, and it can get rough, but how do I tell him I want to role play rape? I know it sounds weird, but I have a always wanted to do this. I want him to do unspeakable tings to me. So how do I tell him I want to have such extreme sex?
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I am not into painful sex! I am just into the whole blindfolding, and hand cuffing. I just like it when a guy can to dirty things to me, where I can not do anything to make him stop.
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23 20maybe you should push away a tiny bit and make him get frustrated so he'll get mad and then do that to you.
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Try blindfolding him first, and asking him to blindfold you for round two. Take turns being in charge. Women in today's society are so caught up in juggling everything, from work school and kids, we are biologically programmed to take charge and plan things. The fantasy of not being in control is a very normal one for most women today. It allows us to focus on the moment instead of thinking about other things during intimacy.
I love this fantasy idea too. My man and I have talked about fantasies many times but unfortunately every time I mention this rape fantasy he doesn't care for it.
I would just start talking about fantasies with him and mention it ask him what he thinks of it. Good luck!
Tell him you want him to come over one day and just dominate you. Tell him you would fnd it so hot if he ravished you while you pretended to fight his advances.
I've always wanted that too, only I couldn't find the words to tell my ex when we were dating.
OMG I know exactly what you mean. Not RAPE because that isn't something to dream about, but there is nothing hotter than a dominating guy. I want to know the same thing. I tried the blindfold and handcuffs with my boyfriend and he just giggled and is so not that type of guy. Although I think most guys would get the hint with the handcuffs and blindfold.
jus tell him!guys are mostly up for stuff like that unless they're softies soo I don't know jus try and see what he says.
Well there's an assload of answers that I didn't read so what I'm about to say has most likely already been covered in every way humanly possible. Yet I don't care so I'm going to say something anyways. Not that I have any personal experience but I do plenty of theorizing and that's got to count for something. Try getting a pair of cuffs then before sex (before he enters the room) get nude (or if you like the whole rending of clothing then only partially) cuff yourself and when he enters the room start acting vulnerable in a sexy kind of way. Or start struggling and roleplaying the restrained captive. Hope that helped :)
either tell him or do this and that what I learn in my life
During foleplay, show some sign of struggle, try to push him away and you getback at it
at this point I think he get the idea what happening and he'll start acting along
as things get heat up and he is inside you
moan from top of your lung
it really get the guys up
tell him straight up that you would like to try it like that some time, he'll probably like that idea and will be up for it, unless he's kinda shy in bed already, then he might not like it as much but its good for him to try it if he is shy because it will make him open up to taking control more often
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just tell him that that is what you want and I'm sure he'll comply. if he's a good boyfriend , he'll do what need to be doneto please you
If he's anything like my boyfriend he'll surprise you by how much he gets into it once he knows that I want it. There was no hint of this when we first started dating, but he's become totally dominant in bed. It's awesome. He's so creative with it. I never know what's coming. He's always taking me and saying things and making me me do things that I'd thought would just be a fantasy. He's so forceful and sexy and he's even gotten okay with me telling him no or that I don't want to, and then making me do it anyway.
i feel similar I want to come home be shoved up against the wall (I do like some pain) told there is nothing I can do about what's going to happen and be taken really really rough
when I self pleasure I can't come unless I imagaine a situation that is basically rape its sick but nothing else normally works
Omg, when I self pleasure myself, that's what I think about! I don't think its sick. I think you and I really just enjoy rough sex. I am seeing my boyfriend for the first time in two weeks. he has been away on buisness! But I think I may text him and say that I want to be shoved up against a wall, and stage a rape... I don't want to be raped in real life, but its my fav fantasy. As for pain, I don't mind it. I have to admit, I kind of like pain. But for the people who think I am into sadistic
Sadistic stuff, I am not. like I don't want to be cut/stabbed, etc. Its just the idea of being completly taken advantage of trills me. I don't think I am weird. I just think I am really sexual!
Tell him you want it really rough. Just tell him what you like, everything that you wrote hear. I'm sure he'll be up for it. He's a guy, not being stereotypical but w/e! he has probably thought the same fantasies or worse
i no exactly what you mean! don't listen to these guys, there's nothing wrong with you, its ROLEPLAY, its not like you would actaully get turned on by being raped if some random guy did, its your boyfriend who you are attracted to and are in a relationship with...what person whos sexually attracted by their boyfriend wouldn't want them to take control sometimes! why don't you try it on him?...like next time your hooking up say in a flirty way "want me to do unspeakable things to you" and more likely then not he'll say what, and you sayd "well you'll find out" and then start doing your thing, more likley then not he will reciprocate if he's into that kind of stuff
there are shy nice guys, and there are assholes
a gentleman does not want to harm women but spoil em
I advise finding an asshole to date, you'll get yer wish.
Dude. It's a fantasy. Are you stupid or something?
I agree obviously being dominated is something that she has fantasys about so what
i wish you were my girlfriend lol.
it is kinda weird but you gotta admit, it can be over the top HOT and Fun :)
Just tell him before hand NOT before having sex... rape is a touchy issue and if he's not up to it.. then you might ruin the mood so don't talk right before sex... anyway, just tell him what's acceptable, have a safe word lol, umm but you must MUST tell him straightup what you want and let him understand what you want, if he loves you he'll understand and if he really loves u, he will rape you. ;)
Haha thanks. Damn right he better rape me. I don't know it just seems so exciting. He has said things, like he wants to throw me down hard, tie me up, and blindfold me. Once I was handcuffed, but he didn't pin my hands down. I really WANT to be Dominated!!!!
Tell him EXACTLY that and your wish is your command :)