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I am attracted to my brother! Why are me and my brother attracted to each other?
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I just wondered. Its not supposed to happen or be natural but me and my older brother are attracted to each other and very much in love past a brother and sister relationship. We have been this way since we were in grade school. I don't really know where it all started and how but its just always been this way. All I did know is that it was wrong and it had to be hidden. I am not going to lie we have done everything as far as a sexual relationship. He is actually the only guy I have been with and the only guy I have wanted to be with. I live with him and we are free to do what we want in the house because its just us. Nobody has ever suspected anything or asked and we put on the face that we live a normal single life. We will go on dates with people and tell family and friends that we have "this boyfriend" or "this girlfriend." But at the end of the day we go home together. Its getting to the point that I feel like people are going to start to wonder. With us getting older, I am 20 in a few months and he is 22. What are we supposed to do? We want to be together but we know that society will never except it and either will the law. Why did me and him live this life? Sometimes I wonder what normal life is like and wish I would have been able to live it.
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Just to let everyone know. I know that a lot of these situations stem from molestation but me or my my brother have never been molested or abused. It just happened
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10 31if she's ready for sex why not
Wear protection
I have a very easy fix move to the woods away from family if they don’t except it I recommend telling them if they don’t except it cut contact from them if they do move away from friends that have problems with it or don’t tell them and honestly if you don’t tell people they won’t know you look similar big deal tons of people do so there is literally no problems unless you be stupid and go preaching about it as long as you don’t you can live a happy life have kids to if you want only 50% chance and even if there is problems normally not that bad. If nobody agrees with it as I said move to the woods cut contact and live peacefully in a small town and don’t tell anyone and they won’t care.
If you don't admit to it, you should be fine. There are not many places in the world that would accept this arrangement, you might as well stay in the west.
A little history here. My sister and I are 2 years apart. She's older. We grew up Military brats. Except instead of changing assignments every 2 years our dad go reassigned about every 18 or so months. And they went ahead and shipped the family and household goods etc. We were in San Diego coming back from the islands and we were waiting in the car for dad to do something official. My sister invited me to feel her cootchie. We had seen each other but touching, well not yet. Here's where it started. She was 11 an I was 9. We made a habit of it when she was babysitting me. Yeah. We liked it. Eventually we got naked and found out how and we screwed. With all the broken relationships and the fact that we didn't even know most of our family It's no wonder we gave up on other folks and looked to each other. We were already fulfilling each others emotional needs. Mom thought it was nice that I kept an eye on my sis and our friends just figured that we had no interest in romantic stuff because we or the other person would be gone in a couple of months anyway. We eventually quit when the family settled in after dad retired.
You are not alone, I am acctually in a very simmular situation with my brother. None of us was harmed in our past yet we both still fell in love and have a very active sexual relationship. We live together now and some people question but we dont care mostly. This is actually common and should be normalized, people should not live in fear for loveing who they want too. Check out full marrige equality website it has helped me a lot, what you are exsperiancing is called Consanguinamory. You are welcome and valid, in the future you will no longer have to hide yourselves.
This is not uncommon going through something similar the half sisters are the ones that are flirting and seems wants to go all the way if I lead them on; but I don’t , they are attractive one is married the othe is a single mother with a rich boyfriend , she is the that wants to go all the way most because at 43 years she exposes her private parts to me in her house all the time I don’t think this is ; you guys should just stay away from those that are very conservative
I'm jealous! I've always wanted to fuck my sister but the bitch won't let me 😢
my opinion is dont do it. it feels like its so sick. we still have kind of have a sick bond. but i guess im still sick cause i think she's hot and were both over 40. this is my biggest mistake. i just had to vent
F yeah hopefully you 2 breed too I would love to stick it in my sister she is a smoke show like WOW 😲😳😲😳😲😳 and yes I would love to breed mine 🥵🥵🥵
its normal to lust as a teenager. I saw my 16 year sisters breast numerous times and I was 14 years old. I always got an erection. those were the only real breasts I had ever seen besides tv. I tried not to look but I was raging with hormones. She knew I was looking. She got a kick out of it but we never crossed the line. I know how you feel
So do you let him Cum inside you at all when you both DO do All of those Sexual things with/to one another? I mean I'm just a Curious person and and just Wondering that's all, and since you both ARE doing All of that stuff with/to one another DO You Ever go as far as letting CUM on you (r) body at all or do you both keep it "Safe" and wear protection (like you wear/use a Condom)? I mean like I said I'm just a Curious person and am/are wondering that's all.
Well it certainly is not normal. I would advice you to go see a psychotherapist. If nothing else helps, and if both of you can't live without each other, then I suggest continuing the status quo. Just don't make any babies, and be careful of the law. In the US, almost all states have laws against incest in their statute books. Good luck
I figure, as long as you are both consenting adults, do what you please.
I agree with many of the others in that this probably happens a lot more than people like to admit...I don't think you're sick or that it's unfortunate or anything like that, it's happened and that's the way life is. I have no such feelings towards my sister, but think I can relate all the same. In some ways it might be a good idea for both of you to date someone actively. I doubt it'll break the connection you seem to have, but who knows. Another thing you can do is visit a psychiatrist for advice, as they of all people will be able to offer advice and understand...A last option? You could move somewhere where no-one knows you and live openly as a couple (married maybe to explain the same surname). Whatever you decide, good luck and good lives...
It happens more than people admit. For heaven's sake, don't make any babies. And the social stigma probably isn't worth it--find a way to break it off if you can.
well, I would say its normal, but I would stop before someone finds out. I would move ot if you can and don't give him a key. hope this helps! ;)