I am SUPER insecure about being uncircumcised?

[Anonymous]

Title says it all. I am 20 years old and never had sex. I've only had 1 girlfriend a few years back and wasn't down for it because of it. I'm planning on getting circumcised very soon but the wait is killing me and kind of gets to me sometimes. I don't know what to do to make myself feel better. I always get jealous and mad at myself because I know my friends are having sex or have had sex already. I feel so left behind. My friends have peer pressured me to talk to this chick or that chick but I know what the outcome would be if me and a girl got to the point of hooking up. I'm too embarrassed of telling my friends the real reason why I don't try to hook up with girls. They wouldn't be able to relate to me. I take every opportunity that I have with talking to a girl and push it right out the window.

By the way, my foreskin is kind of tight and my frenulum is short which causes the head to bend. I've even tried using steroid cream to help the skin stretch but it did absolutely nothing. So I kind of have to get circumcised anyway. Not trying to make it out as my insecurity is the sole reason to get the procedure done.

[claw09]

My recommendation. Don't circumcise if there are alternate methods to help with your tight skin. I want to say that 1st and foremost, you are above 18 so do whatever the hell you want as long as isn't seriously and negatively affecting you or others. You are luckily in a position to have the choice to circumcise unlike many others, so props to you for thinking about this aspect of your life. Now, that aside, I'm a person who was circumcised at birth and want to make the argument to convince to not circumcise (again, if there are other methods for you. don't risk your health if your doctors suggest the circumcision, they know more than some stranger on the Internet.)
As for your 1st concern, women typically don't really care. Don't even give this a second thought. Read it and move on convinced with it. If you happen to encounter a woman or 2 across your life that don't like uncircumcised men, they are a minority. Ignore and move on. I don't want to spend too much on saying more. Don't care what women think about yo dick skin, cause most don't care.
My second point is that it's just healthier. It keeps your penis' head moisturized and prevents the dryness and desensitization most circumcised men experience. The foreskin also contains a lot of nerves that make sex better for both you and the girl you're with.
That's all I got on the subject. Do more research online and talk with your doctor and even those close to you if you're comfortable with that. Good luck to you and yo dick.

[Mexicoman101]

Fuck it man, you're natural. As long as you aren't Jewish it doesn't matter. Your ex girlfriend is a bitch. My ex loved that it was uncircumsized. Just employ greater discretion next time.

[circedman16]

are you stupid? you are intact and is better. girls don care if circumcised or uncircumcised. vaginas are more disgusting penis. i guess you are American beause genital mutilation is only in america