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I had sex with no protection?

I know I did wrong, but I have no time for negative energy or any speeches about how stupid i am.. I had sex my first time without a condom. Next day I took a morning after pill named Unidosis. It's mexican. Two days after I took it, I had sex again without any protection, but it was very very fast. It didn't even last 5 minutes. He did not ejaculate in me. I went to the bathroom and noticed I had blood. I had sex 3 times already and it was the first time it bled, so we stopped. I'm afraid of being pregnant because I'm way too young to have a child. I know I'm stupid, but please just help me out and don't judge me. I really need help.
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  • Unless you want to get another morning after pill, all you can do now is wait. And I know waiting sucks because time just makes you more nervous! Wait for your period, and if you don't get it, take a pregnancy test. If it's positive, you have plenty of options. You can keep it, or there are different forms of abortion. It is your choice! But what you can do right now to make yourself feel better if go out and buy some condoms and spermicide! It is your body and you can choose to protect yourself not only from pregnancy but from diseases. Don't put your body into someone else's hands for protection. Take responsibility, and use this as a learning experience. I wish you the best of luck!

    • Thank you so much ❤️ i'm just so nervous. I talked to my aunt about it and she said everything would be alright. I would never want to abort, I'm a catholic and God I'm scared of doing that to a poor child. I don't want to end up in hell lol. I know I did wrong I'm stupid, but I know it won't happen again

    • Also, it is your choice to have sex, and don't listen to people who tell you to "keep your legs closed". Having sex does not make you slutty o anything like that. You just have to choose to be responsible because sex is a super scary thing if you're not prepared for it.

    • It's really great that you have a good enough relationship with your aunt to talk about this with her. If I were you, I would ask her about getting you the pill or another form of birth control. If you're not comfortable asking her, go to a local planned parenthood. AND pregnancy prevention is NOT just the woman's responsibility, so before having sex again it is crucial that you talk to your partner about how important protection is. If he's not willing to use protection, he's not worth your time.

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  • Don't have sex at a young age no matter how tempting it is, I'm 17 and I have never had sex and I don't mind it which is why I am waiting till college or till I am married to have sex. Do it when you feel you are mature enough to take care of a baby. Don't do it because everyone else is doing it. A lot of girls do it and then the guy will stay with him when in reality he'll just leave and have sex with some other girl. Common sense, if you don't want to get pregnant or have a baby don't have sex its as simple as that.

  • Stop have sex without protection and pray that you aren't pregnant that's only help anyone can offer here

Most Helpful Guys

  • The morning after pill might have induced a period. Was the blood like when you cut yourself or like menstruation?

    Talk to your doctor and get on the pill.

    Then please start using protection if you're going to keep having sex. The risks are real, and being a statistic sucks.

  • Congratulations mommy. Are you wishing for a boy or girl, or perhaps twins?

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  • What do you need help with? You keep having unprotected sex... I know you didn't want a speech but really, if you don't want to get pregnant, it should be common sense to use a condom or to get on birth control.

    I am not familiar with that brand of the morning after pill but I will assume that you are not pregnant based on the fact that you used it and the guy did not ejaculate in you the other times you had sex. Let this be a learning moment for you, protection is important.

  • There is a problem with drugs from Mexico, you never know what you are getting. You say that you don't want to get pregnant but you keep doing the wrong thing. If you continue using the morning after as birth control you may never have children.

  • You bleeding has nothimg to do with the possibility of you being pregnant.

    You may have had sex before but you're hymen didn't break until the last time which caused you to bleed.

    If you're really afraid of becoming pregnant you just might want to actually consider using condoms or taking birth control pills.

    Like I mentioned you bleeding has nothing to do with you being pregnant however as long as his penis went inside of you if only for a few seconds you could be pregnant it's called pre-ejaculation. Take another morning after pill or if you think you waited to long you might want to see a doctor.

    Good Luck and either way start using protection.

  • Get tested. Stop being stupid in that order.

    • If you have nothing nice to say then don't say anything at all. Please and thank you.

    • You want people to be nice to you for having unprotected sex? I see!

  • You could've just been bleeding again from the sex, but please if you are gonna continue to have sex use condoms. There is a chance of pregnancy no matter how long the sex lasted because of pre cum.

  • fuck guys with condoms k

  • Raw dog randos for the boys sorry boutchea

  • Everything you said screams "I'm an idiot."
    Clearly you are. Nothing anyone says on here can help you. All you can do is take a pregnancy test if you miss your period and keep your damn legs closed.

    • Really really helpful :) thank you so much for your nice answer. Really makes me feel better about myself, like if you've never made mistakes before.

    • If you're expecting people to tell you that it's okay then you're in the wrong place. You should expect quite a few negative comments from people because that's what you deserve. You basically said "I had unprotected sex, I'm not ready to be a parent, but I'm gonna go have unprotected sex again. But then panic and freak out because I'm not smart enough to take the proper precautions to avoid any unwanted outcome" That's stupidity at it's best. No one is going to feel bad for you. You're clearly lacking in the common sense department. I have zero sympathy for you.

  • Take another morning after pill and then either buy condoms or keep it in your pants until you're old enough to be a mom.

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