I took her virginity

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I took this girls virginity about a year ago and then had sex with her 5 more times after that.  It all started when I got her to give me head and she wanted more from me but I was not attracted to her at all because she was pretty fat and her face was hit...not trying to be mean.. but I got really horny one night when she was giving me head and I took her virginity and when I looked at her after that I seen her I a whole different way.  Well I have moved on with another girl I have been dating for a year now but I can't stop thinking about her.  Usually the girl falls in love with the guy who takes her virginity but I think I have fallen in love with her its flip flopped.  I am in a relationship but I can't get this girl out of my mind.  what should I do?

shellybelly · Accepted Answer

Sounds to me that you have some feelings for this girl. There is much more to feelings than how someone looks. Maybe you should break things off with your current girlfriend and see how things go with the other girl. There is nothing saying that you can't see both girls at the same time, just need to make things clear to them that you don't want to commit to a relationship with either one of them until you can figure things out. After all, it's not like you are married to them or anything. The main important thing is to make sure that they both know that you are unsure of your feelings and that you are not playing games with them. That is where it can be a problem. When people play games with other peoples hearts...That is where all the troubles starts. Ya never know, this too could happen to you as well.

jubilee · Accepted Answer

If the first girl has feelings for you too, then I would say follow your heart. Looks aren't everything. There has to be something more substantial to hold a relationship together. Over time, appearance won't be enough. Go with who makes you happy, not who looks the best. Also, it's not fair to the second girl if you're still hung up on girl #1. How can the relationship progress if your heart belongs to another? Sounds like you need to do some soul searching and decide what you really want. Just listen to what your heart tells you!

idkwhatodo · Accepted Answer

You shouls decide who you want more.  The first girl or the girl you are currently dating.  Then either break up with the girl you are with or stay with her.  If you choose to break up with her you must realize she's going to be really hurt, but it's probably better to break her heart now then never.  Then you have to confront the first girl apropriatly.  Tell her how much she means to you and how you were stupid for letting her go.  Show her your best and give her your all

lochnessmonsterwang · Accepted Answer

Two options.

You could break up with your girlfriend and bang her. However, you'll probably regret leaving the better looking girl to sleep with the beat chick.

You could also tell her she's worthless and insult her in every way possible so that you will no longer have the option of sleeping with her. Therefore, you couldn't cheat on your girlfriend with her.

Virtuales · Accepted Answer

well have you seen that girl since you got with ur girlfriend or what ?

if you didn't then don't break it with ur girl, just go see that girl talk to her and things will be more clear for u

and if you do see her, then maybe it's the feeling of guilt? or responsibility maybe ? or there's some feelings there

can't tell..

whateveryousay · Answer

Maybe you can just take a break from your current girlfriend and tell her that you need some space to clear a few things out in your life, then try again with the first girl, see how it goes, but don't cheat!

melislooney · Answer

if you weren't attracted to her,  why did you let her give you head? and see if she's still into you. then you can make ur decision about the girls.

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