It’s got nothing to do with your vagina. It’s about the way he gets stimulated based on the position.
When my gal rides me and she’s upright or even leaning back (because one of us wants to rub her clit) I can literally last as long as I want. If she leans forward (enough to kiss me), it’s game over very quickly unless I spend a great deal of effort preventing myself from cumming.
Plus, with you on top and you in control of the motion, you should do what feels good for you. Don’t worry so much about him. I guarantee he still enjoys it! When he wants to cum, he can move the way he needs to move to make himself get there. With you on top, if you lean forward, he can hold you down onto himself and do the thrusting himself.
In any case, get the idea out of your head that your body is somehow deficient. That’s not the case.1 1 0 0Actually, no, riding him can be tougher. When I was young, I generally did not pop when I was ridden. I did that because I enjoyed it and could last forever, but what I enjoyed was the look on her face as she was having the time of her life. Then, once I wanted to pop, we moved to missionary and I brought it home.
You see, with cowgirl, the woman controls the motion. She rides him so that she can have her orgasm. But the rhythm that he needs for orgasm may be slightly different and/or she may not be hitting the tip of his penis in the way he needs. Thus, he can't get that necessary sensation for orgasm.
That said, my wife and I do cowgirl and I concentrate enough that I can usually pop... but that was a long time ago in a galaxy far far away.
Anyway, it takes practice.1 1 0 0Oh, it MAY be your pussy - a loose pussy does not help the situation - but it could simply be what I said about not having the right rhythm for him to take it over the finish line.
I'm worried that I may be loose. The most number of fingers he has been able to get inside me is three. Does. that sound loose?
I wouldn't worry about it. If you are really worried, don't do cowgirl and let him ride you doing it missionary. He'll pop.
Most Helpful Girls
Yes. That’s exactly what it means 🙄 your pussy is terrible.
Seriously, you’ve asked him - and he’s told you a very reasonable explanation and now you’ve asked here to have 10 men tell you variances of the exact same thing yet you keep arguing back to bad pussy.
The even bigger turn off for a guy, is having to constantly bring up an insecure girl because she won’t listen to reason and needs far more validation than is reasonableb1 0 0 0Lol. K. Thanks. Don't have to be rude but whatever. Thanks for wasting. your time by commenting on this. Seriously if it's so dumb, don't waste your precious time by commenting and being bitchy. Yes I'm aware that I have problems and unfortunately my self esteem is at its worst at this point in my life, so yeah. I definitely suck at being a girlfriend and I was already aware of it before you typed. this. I can't help the way I feel about myself and actually I go on this site to. prevent myself from being a burden on my boyfriend but I still am. So maybe he will be better off with another better girl. Thanks for making me realize that im. not okay even though I was already completely aware of this before. Have a nice night.
Why is it rude to agree with you? You’re arguing with everyone who doesn’t and telling them they’re wrong so I’m just telling you that you’re right
No you're just being sarcastic in a bitchy way and I don't appreciate it.
Riding usually seems to take guys longer. 5 years in I still have a hard time making my guy finish from that. And I think it really has to do with the angle. Not that you're loose or anything.
If he gets off in other positions, you're fine. I promise.0 1 0 0He gets off in other positions. Doggy is his favorite and he can cum fast from that. But he has been able to get three fingers inside me before. It was only once and it was a bit uncomfortable but I feel like three fingers is a bit loose for people at my age..
When you're actually ready, you loosen up. Thats part of being truly aroused. And think about it, 3 fingers isn't bigger than a penis. It doesn't make you loose.
Yeah, but I feel like it feels loose for him and he just won't say anything because he's afraid of hurting my feelings. He's been with so many other girls and it makes me feel terrible about myself.
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What Girls & Guys Said
4 24it's not your "pussy". if he finishes other ways clearly your vagina is not the issue
doggystyle is the easiest way for most guys to finish because they can penetrate deeper
you are fine. don't worry0 1 0 0No, I almost never cum from cowgirl and I find most women tight.
0 0 0 0No, the best position varies by person and even varies by session. Nothing wrong if his fav position is doggy. The girl riding is great for me sometimes but not others. Understand that riding is a bit of a risk for the guy. Say he slips out and you do not notice and come down hard on his cock. It happens and it hurts.
0 0 0 0Nah, could be you're just bad at riding... or he has an easier time finishing when he's in control.
0 0 0 0I've rode him everyday thoufh. I don't know how I could be bad. I've asked him. what I should do different and he says nothing. I've rode him in plain cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, hard, soft, fast, and slow, etc. I don't know what else I could do. I don't know how. i could be bad and he won't tell me what else i. can do. So now, the only thing I can come up with is that my pussy is just bad..
*every way not everyday
what kind of doggy? Do you kneel or lay flat on your stomach raising your ass a little?
0 0 0 0Both. He likes it when my ass in the air for him though.
Why does it matter? He has told. me to lay on stomach during doggy before. Does. this mean I'm not tight enough?
it is just because he likes your ass and wants to look at it during sex and has nothing to do with the tightness of your pussy.
Most Helpful Guys