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If size doesn't matter than why are dildos all bigger than the average guy?

Bam. Truth right there^^. Penis size matters. They also never sell "small dildos" (unless its meant for anal pleasure ). So why do women keep claiming it doesn't.. it obviously matters. Even look at what most say if the were to ever get in a one night hookup situation "whats the point if he isn't hung" "he had a small penis/tells all friends" ect. I am getting penile enlargement surgery February 2nd. The people I've told whom I was looking to support me, seem to act like stupid ass morons. Like okay there, its perfectly fine for a woman to get cosmetic surgery but god forbid a man does, oh knoes! "he isn't a real man anymore" "real men do don't do ___" "except the way you were born because a man isn't allowed to improve yourself in anyway " ect. I've already made my decision, I will do what makes me happy and more confident with myself. Does penis size matter, I personally think it does don't you?
Penis size matters
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Penis size matters to some extent
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Penis size doesn't matter (aka I'm a virgin clicking this)
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  • Er... I'm only slightly larger than 6", and my girlfriend has several toys that are smaller than me, most of which she had before we met.

    In my experience, I'd say 6" is probably about the average size of a decent dildo, once you account for accouterments (rabbit stimulators, etc). She's got one basic vibe that's about 7.5", but when she's using it on herself, she never pushes it in more than halfway anyway.

    I'd say penis size matters, but only insomuch as it simply needs to be big/thick enough to get the job done, and apart from that, any insecurities you have are on you. Don't go around blaming women for your bullsh*t.

  • I look at this differently. Yes size can matter and quite a few women are size centric. The best one ever is size doesn't matter if I'm with him/I love him. Of course it does. You don't change your preferences because you meet someone. They are just willing to deal with his size to get other things. Is that a position you want to be in?

    This is not a situation I would want to be in, but, at the same time, I wouldn't risk endangering myself to please someone else. Instead I would and do only date women who fit my size. Women with larger vaginal capacity can go find that big they like.

    • Oh and by the way, some of the women here giving you advice have posted in other message that they won't date a guy under a certain size, so...

Most Helpful Girls

  • I voted B. No penis has given me an orgasm before, because for me it's all about the clitoris. However penises are still able to make me feel good. I don't imagine that a very small one could do that, but I haven't experienced anything but too large for me. So while the size not so essential for me personally, I think a medium one is the best bet. Dildos can go to hell if it's up to me, it's the owner of the penis that makes me feel good about the penis, not the thing itself.

    • I was with a woman who had a few penis's bigger than mine. I was the first one to give her G spot orgasms. She was on top for all of them. She made my penis work for her. I suggest all women who don't have G spot orgasms to have sex in that position.

  • Yes, size matters to an extent.

    You can't do certain positions with a small/big penis. Also, it depends on how well he uses it. For an example, if I had a guy who was 5" do the hip rolling during missionary, it wouldn't be as good if a guy who was 8" were to do it.

    - I used to think size didn't matter... But when you had various sizes, you know what feels good.

    • I would like to add, girth matters. So, if you're short and girthy... Leave it alone.

    • 1. 8 in is very big 2. 5 in is very average 3. Small is like 3 in…get your facts straight

  • Honestly, I've got toys. Most of which, I consider too big. I kind of go on the use half of it program... Now, big goes both ways, though. LENGTH...really, you don't need much. A womans anatomy is not made to fit ten inches of ANYTHING in there. Girth is different, it feels wonderful when a guy stretches you just right. So, length not so much, thickness, yess.

    • It will be just over 7 inches long and 5.5 inches around after surgery. Nothing extreme

    • @megalove why did you buy dildos that are too big?

  • If I love someone enough, the size of his penis won't matter. I don't think man OR woman should have to get cosmetic surgeries, but I would totally support someone if it would make them feel better, boost their self-esteem, and give them more confidence. If it will make you feel better, than don't take shame in it~

    • @perfuctory how bout for a one night stand though?

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  • Ok then let me ask you this: if girls have these "perfectly sized" toys and machines that can do things that are impossible for a human, what do they need men for?

  • Here's the deal.

    If a girl have SERIOUS feelings for you (in other words, in love with you).

    I promise you, she will more than likely adore your penis as it is.

    But if you want to increase your d*** size in order to "gain" confidence, go ahead.

    To me, increasing d*** (or boob size) is pretty pointless.

    All you are doing is changing the spectrum of "keyholes", if you know what I mean.

    I'm glad I don't need a surgery as I'm confident with my (average) package as it is.

  • The useable length on the most common size is very very close to average.

  • the only reason I am really down on male enhancement surgery is that is simply isn't as reliable as other cosmetic procedures (not even close). I trust you are aware of the complications, and risks associated with this procedure. Good luck!

  • Well you've certainly made up your mind.

    What if your snot became mustard? Ever wonder that?

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