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Sexual Health I'm 18 and have naturally olive skin and very dark hair. I'm white, but a lot of my family on my dad's side have the same complexion and hair as me too. But the thing is my mother is naturally fair skinned and has blonde/ginger body hair, and she told me her pubes are a golden colour and they're soft, kind of "fluffy".
She saw me getting in the bath earlier, and saw my pubic hair (she's my mother so I don't mind her seeing me naked), but she started being really mean and laughing at my pubes and saying they look horrible, like a man because they're dark, almost black, and they're course, rather than her supposed golden, fine hair.
This has made me feel really insecure about my pubes, because she also said "they look like your dad's, you must've turned after him for them". I never even thought they were that bad before, I don't exactly like them anyway because I don't think the "bush" look is that nice, but I don't always shave it completely bald when I have sex, so do men probably think I'm disgusting because of my pubes? I've never really had any men say anything about them, they all just seem to not care about the pubes themselves as long as they're kept short and neat.
What do you think?
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Is coarse dark pubic hair unattractive?
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 26I like hairy mounds tbh, I'd love it
It's not a hairy mound, I shave my labia but keep it trimmed on the top, but it's coarse
that's nice to 😍
really i dont judge a person by there pubes but i think a girl can be amazing on the inside dont judge a book by its cover :)
Don't worry about what you heard, it doesn't look unattractive if you keep it clean
public hair is always unattractve for me
pubic hair on women is unattractive in general.
"On women"? If you're going to diss pubic hair don't say it ONLY looks unattractive on women, double standard of the century
Well I'm not attracted to dudes regardless of their pubic hair situation so I don't really have an opinion on it... Is that a double standard or a sexual preference?
lol.
I prefer it
I'm studying to be a gynaecologist. I can tell you if your pubes look normal or not. I've seen billions of vulvas. I'll also give you advice on how to properly shave using certain remedies.
So if you send me an email picture of your pubes. I can give you all the info you need!
It's not unattractive.